| Hi Scorps, I'm hoping you can give me some insight. My Scorp and I met 3.5 years ago. We grew a really great friendship! one year later (2.5 years ago) it turned "romantic". Since that time he has ended things with me 4 times, even though we have talked about buying a home together, have gone to see homes, have done many fun things together, took our first trip together just this past April/May and spent 2 weeks int he Dominican. Three weeks after being home, he ended things again and we have been apart all summer. We have seen each other the odd time, by my initiation, but in the past month, I have really distanced myself.... except for the odd little email....but I drunk emailed him the other night, saying "I love you, wish you loved me too"....I then sent an apology email for sending that, as I've never done that in the past.....and he replied and said "it's okay, don't worry about it".....I told him it was not okay. I saw him on the way home from work yesterday, and could not even look at him... I feel embarassed for emailing him....so thismorning, walking the same sidewalk as him but not realizing he's behind me, he whistled....I thought "no, can't be" and did not turn around, but he then said "Good morning"....so I turned and said good morning back. he then asked how I was doing, how my sons were doing, I asked how his sons were doing. I was shocked that he actually spoke to me! What do you think is going on with him? In the past he has told me, on two occasions, that he loves me, but doesn't want to hurt me. We have a great time together, I have been honest, loyal, and he knows how much I love him. I just don't know if I should continue to ignore him or what. A month ago I asked him if there was a chance we would get back together this time and his reply was "no". I miss him so, and have been driven out of my mind all summer and can't take this anymore. I find it hard when I run into him. What are your thoughts on this, Scorp males and females? Thanks so much, I really appreciate your comments and view points. |
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female
23 years old female
Can you feel the fiyaaaa?!
| It is so hard with a scorp male and sag female. Your not going to ever understand them and they don't know how to chill out. I dated one for 3 years and lived with him. We still kind of date. I've also kinda of dated another one this summer. The thing is It just ends up being way too stressful and confusing. They change everyday and are inconsistent. It'll just screw up your head. Keep hanging on if you want but most likely the water is gonna weight you down. |
female
| Did you mean to post this on the scorp board. I know your pain but I am on the opposite end I am the scorp with him being the sagg and it is a constant struggle all the back and forth in the relationship. I think with this relationship you have to open and honest at all times and don't hide your feelings, with us scorps we need to know how you are feeling, althought you said he knows how you feel so this shouldn't be the problem but does he know cause you have told him or have you proven with your actions that you really love, care, and want to be with him. I know when my sagg ignores me I hate that it makes me wanna just say treetr-nk you and go on with my life then when he decides he misses me I get the txts and all that other butter so I know a lot of it is communication it's very important in this relationship. I know as a scorp we have to shrug a lot of things off when it comes to you Sagg cause you all can do some things to upset us and then we might break off the relationship when that is not what we want, we just want you all to show us more to do more since we will do our all to make it work if we really love and care for you. The last time I tried to break things off with my sagg is because he told me he was going to do something and he didn't do it, I was upset but it was ok I am use to the B.S but this time he kept trying to press my buttons and kept saying dumb butter to me and when I finally got upset and wanted to say don't even bother calling,texting,or seeing me again he felt I made a big deal out of nothing. So I feel like sometimes you all press our buttons probably without meaning too but you do so once again COMMUNICATION is so very important so that their will be no mis understanding. |
female
Posted by Sagittarius89 This I agree with to the fullest, I am a scorp so I am trying to hold on but it is more stressful and confusing then anything but then again I wonder if this is just the women stand point on this pairing. |
female
| Thanks for your comments ladies. I did mean to post this on the Scorp board so that I can get some feedback. I am deinitely weighted down. This has been a long, hard road. I have told him many times that I love him, I have shown him in many ways, he knows how much I care, and I would do anything for him or his sons...and even his dog! lol He doesn't like me spending money on them, we used to cook together all the time and then he didn't want me buying groceries to do that anymore. He knows how painful these break ups are for me. He wanted to remain friends, but I told him I cannot do that, as I find it hard....but I find it devastating not having him in my life at all....I miss him and us so much. He is very contradictory in what he says and his actions. It seems that every time he ends things we miss each other and get back together. He has been very hurt in the past by his x, of 25 years, and I have also been hurt by my x husband. They cheated on us both...so we have that in common and have discussed those issues. We both have the same values and morals for family, we have so much fun together, he told me I am the only woman that he has ever felt so connected to, etc. The last comment a month ago is that he does not feel we fit perfectly together like a puzzle. I have been patient over the past 2.5 years, but he has trampled my self esteem by saying some pretty hurtful things....andnow I am trying to decide if I should just walk....let sleeping dogs lie. I can't prove to him any more than I already have what he means to me. As far as I can tell...he's the puzzle. I had an angel reading back in July. She looked at a picture of him and I and told me we are souly connected from a past life, there is a lot of love between us, that we would do anything for each other, etc but that his heart had black around it and many hurts. She also feels he needs to say some things, but won't. I thought that interesting, as he always said, from the day we met, that he just feels like he's known me from the past. One time he asked what i thought of soul mates. I told him what I was told at the reading and he seemed surprised by that. Before the puzzle comment from him, he told me that he is terrified of Love, he used to tell me that he trusts me, but he then told me he's not sure if he trusts me.....this ride has been so emotional and confusing, but I've always felt there's a reason him and I were brought together. |
female
| That's what I am saying about us scorp even myself we can be very contradictory because one day we feel one way then the next we may not and it isn't because we don't love you, we feel like we may get hurt and we want to back away and let it go. It's hard trying to explain it, when we have been hurt it's the worse pain we can feel and we will do whatever to prevent from feeling that pain again even giving up on a promising relationship if we see the potential to get hurt. Myself I have been hurt but I don't want that to effect my future, at first in my relationship which is has only been 1.5 yrs I held a lot back but I can't continue to do that if I want more, he needs to know how I feel and what I want. I think he is afraid of something, if he knows you love him that much even his dog and kids it is something holding him back and he has some type of fear in regards to this relationship. Have you really tried to sit down and talk to him to see even if the relationship can't work why can't you all still be friends, what's really going on with him, what is his fears? |
female
| I know a sagg women/male scorp who are married with two kids however I won't say happily married cause I know he cheats on her......... So yeah what you all said ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ |
23 years old female
Can you feel the fiyaaaa?!
| Oh yea it's not all for fail of course! Didn't mean it like that, it's just VERY challenging eh!  |
23 years old female
Can you feel the fiyaaaa?!
Posted by CarbonMonoxidePosted by Sagittarius89 Haha I feel that way about someone too |
23 years old female
Can you feel the fiyaaaa?!
Posted by scorpdiva I actually can make sense of that lol |
female
Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by scorpdiva Me either, and I am a scorp but I think it effects the men more than the women sadly Lol..... |
female
Posted by LibraLuv It has to be something in the water. |
23 years old female
november 3rd
| i'm sure you two will never be completely out of each other's life and will always love each other in some way, but it remains the same that he doesn't want to be with you right now. if i were you i'd pull away completely. no drunk e-mails, no asking if there's a chance you'll get back together. he will come to you when he's ready. |
female
| Thanks for everyone's input. I do appreciate it. Exo....you are absolutely right...and each time we break up, I finally feel strong enough to pull away, and begin to do so, he seems to come around. It just feels like games to me. He is 52 and I am 46.....getting too old for this b*tter. I am truly happy when with him, and family and friends notice and have commented. He is also happy when we are together.....so, I have no idea if he will ever be ready....but I will continue to pull away and get on with my life, with or without him, as much as it hurts and no drunk emailing again!!!! |
31 years old
anybody else wanna be a hero? Sag S
| Exo is right....he will come back in his own time once hes done thinking... |
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