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e closer I would consider it. More importantly if we're going to play what seems like a cat and mouse game after a while you have to wonder what's this leading to? Is there an attraction or is this just an ego boost. The former means I am more willing to invest time to make trips together (again just to spend time together and enjoy ourselves - if something happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't), the latter just tells me I would rather be travelling with other friends who aren't going to be possessive of me or expecting me to put them at the center of t heir universe, are equally fun to be around, and just as adventerous. I mean why spend time, money, and energy with a friend who, while enjoyable to be around, will prevent you from being around others at the first sign of attraction to someone else or as soon as you try to casually hook up with someone else.
Also, I did try to discuss it with her, when I said my feelings, and she just kept saying commitment and how she can't be with me because it could lead to her settling down (again, so what...I am being alluded to as a potential to the "one" in some fantasy of hers?) and try her again at a later point in time when she's ready for this. So for me, I am just taking that and moving on but I the understanding is still an important lesson for me.
Posted by Ligeia
True Node Pisces
2nd House Virgo
3rd House Libra
Imum Coeli Scorpio
5th House Sagittarius
6th House Capricorn
8th House Pisces
9th House Aries
Medium Coeli Taurus
11th House Gemini
12th House Cancer
As for the second question, guess I just wanted to know what's going on in her head. A simple "What gives?" kind of thing. The reason that nothing could happen, is we live on different continents, but if we wer
n want a relationship, all I am doing is just admitting feelings and getting things off my shoulder - whatever happens, happens. If it doesn't then it doesn't)
Even all the invitations she makes for me to go to places with her, and she's made at least of them so far all of which are trips that are definitely NOT your standard trips to like, another city. These are trips to remote locations on other continents. In fact, this trip I said I couldn't go due to previous obligations and requirements and she kept insisting to drop it to be with her, but when I told her it wasn't possible...she completely blanked me for a month, till she saw pictures from the trip and said she wants to go with me next time.
I have 3 possibilities in mind:
1. Friend zone - the obvious, take what she said as a nice let down. However, I've seen her turn men down (including another friend - she was a different level of blunt. Told him she wasn't interested in him, flat out.)
2. She is interested, but can't cope with it, which is why she kept mentioning commitment and inability to commit to anything and she sees even admitting like as a commitment. (again even though I repeatedly told her, I am just stating feelings truthfully)
3. She doesn't know what she wants.
However, I would be interested in hearing a sag or sag/cusps opinion out of curiosity.
Posted by DMVPosted by thirdeye
Not sure, why you think that, perhaps if you elaborate?
Posted by Wynter
Ya the name dropping thing, I always thought was a bit immature. In fact, this happens whenever she finds I am dating someone, she'll ask are you still dating but instead of it's always a name forget and stumble around. During her discussion with me she told me she sizes people up etc.
I guess I just don't understand what her aim is then aside from what seems like trying to keep me around in the shadows till she feels I am worth the time (which won't be happening, as I have no intention of being the reserve)?
I mean I literally, and I am saying literally in the fullest sense here, told her that I had an attraction to her. That's it, nothing more.
The questions in my mind are:
Why is she interfering (she keeps telling other women I'm a player/a hustler/only out for sex) every time I show interest in a them or we strike things off? To me this is a serious sign of jealousy, but if you're not interested in the person why would you display jealousy - she's even taken the comments farther into the realm of lying past that on one occasion which caused for....a definitively awkward social moment.
Why did she start going into talk about settling down, and saying that she can't try this she's not ready for something that could settle her? (This one actually kind of freaked me out - almost like there is this delusion that I am her end game for her? Even after she kept mentioning commitment, I said I don't eve
Ugh. I knew one for about 5 minutes, he was one mean bastard. If someone didn't measure up, or weren't on "his level", his contempt and scorn for them was obvious and horrifying. I went out to dinner with him and his attitude toward the service people was so embarrassing, and I was so nauseated by the whole thing and just couldn't wait to get away from him.
lol @ your Sag/Cap cusper "forgetting" names like that....it's just beneath them to remember, you know? Sounds exactly like something this guy I went out with would do.
Posted by thirdeye
your coming off a bit controlling...just go with the flow
|i havent played a good round of footsies in a mintue!|
Posted by thirdeye
Still doesn't really explain/answer this?
|@Ligeia Lmao! That's true. I never remember people's names and if I do, you're special lol. |
I'm really shy when I like someone but I don't know if they like me. If I think he likes me and I too am interested, I will touch when playing around. I'm not a touchy feely chick at all. But when I like you, I have to rub your back, or touch your earlobe or pick lint off of you
Posted by Dianasart
Well I mean, I still not sure why she thought I wanted commitment or even brought the notion of settling down if she
|Hahaha I thought I was the only touchy type around here. ;-)|
If I like you, then I want to turn you on, and I love knowing I have the power to turn you on. And I like it even more knowing you're not shy type. I'm always giving my boyfriend a tap on the ass every now and then in public. My ass! And a little squeeze on his upper thigh when we're sitting next to each other. Oh and a little game of footsie from under the table.
I'm the flirty type. I will flirt even without intentions. But if there intentions, I make them obvious enough. And it's even more obvious if I'm not interested. I wont even glance your way if I want you to stop talking to me.
I WILL feed you! I love making food for a guy I really like.
I have mood swings though... If I've met you on a good day, then you'll see a happy and talkative side. If you've met me on a quieter day, then for some reason I'll have a bit of a shy side to overcome.
I tend to smile at everyone I come across, being a happy soul, so not much there. But the special smiles will always have a bit of a sexy hint to it, maybe a little blush, and some good eye contact. I love making eye contact and making the approach as easy and welcome as possible.
I also love taking my time. So if I/Sag want to get away quick, then something you said or did turned me off.
I've actually experienced this... I was at the school cafeteria, heating up some food while making eye contact with this great looking guy, smiling and blushing. When he came over to my table, I was extremely excited, until I realized that the guy had nothing to talk about. I tried to make bring up things to talk about and I swear, he was a complete blank.
I told him I'd see him around and ran for it!
Another turn off was when a guy told me he doesn't/wont give oral. Likes to receive, but not give
Being so open to sexuality as we are, knowing this is kind of a deal breaker. Or is it just me?
I also have a bit of a jealous side. I think our actions will have to just depend on how obsessive we can get.
I'll admit that I've gone through my guys messages about 4 times during our two years. I wont stop him from having female friends, nor will I argue or make a fuss about it. But, hey, I couldn't help myself those few times!
|Ok, well this Sag/Cap cusp chick in the past has acted territorial towards me, telling other women (whom I was interested in) not to see me because I am a player/hustler, or when I was dating someone (whom she knew the name of) she would suddenly "forget" her name when asking if I was still with them when visited, introducing me to her best friend and making sure I specifically know that it's her best friend as if I am about to be sized up, inviting me to travel the world with her on trips that aren't exactly inexpensive to say the list (trips that consist travelling over 8,000 miles), to saying she wants to boast about the fact she knows me to people because of some of my work I've produced which is published.|
So I eventually decided to discuss feelings with her, which lead to reply I never really expected. I expressed attraction she then goes into what I would describe as near overwhelming confusion. I was told everything from not wanting to discuss it now, to she doesn't want to be with me because it could settle her down, to she's not ready to do this now but wants me to try later, to she never even thoguht of me as an option, to she considered me as an option.
I was kind of thrown back by this and didn't know why the sense of panic especially on this scale given she's the one who has constantly done things that make me consider she's showing signs of interested over the last few years. Is this normal for a Sag or even Sag/Cap cusp? I mean I am not really bothered by being friends, but it wasn't just like an "Oh we're just friends response sorry", but at the same time it felt like it was worse than that because it's like "hey look I want you to be there for when I need you to be" which I am not cool with. I mean I know Sags are supposed to be pretty straight forward, but having known my grandmother who was a Sag and completely made my grand father's life a living hell through emotional acts and then finally on his passing away she finally expressed the fact that she loved him and really misses him...makes me think maybe not all of them are as calm, cool, and controlled as they're made out to be (no offense meant by this).
As for the spelling, whoops
|I get painfully shy when I really really like someone....well with the Aqua I did. With my ex leo it was completely different. We were loud, funny, lively and blatent when flirting. I guess it depends on the type of guy and what 'side' they bring out of me.|