Signs of a Sagitarrius female liking you?

Posted by Ligeia
@ thirdeye

I'm way the treetrunk confused with your situation.
So pardon me if the following questions I pose
come off a bit redundant.

1.Do you have this Sag's astro info?
2.What exactly do YOU want from her?

Now you say you're attracted to her and that's
it, right? WHY make it known to her if you planned
on doing nothing about your attraction?


"Why is she interfering (she keeps telling other women I'm a player/a hustler/only out for sex) every time I show interest in a them or we strike things off? To me this is a serious sign of jealousy, but if you're not interested in the person why would you display jealousy - she's even taken the comments farther into the realm of lying past that on one occasion which caused for....a definitively awkward social moment."

Jealousy could definitely be a motive here. Then
again if she has any ounce of Scorpio in her
particularly Venus-Scorpio. She could just be
territoral. And doesn't want her "toys" played
with by someone else. If she can't have you pretty
much no one else should either. Another scenario you
royally pissed her off somewhere along the lines and
she's just throwing salt in your game lol.

From her inviting you on these trips. That could
just be a matter of her enjoying your company and
wanting to share the experience with you. It seems
like there's feelings there for you. Maybe she's not
in the right place now to give you what you might be
expecting from her. I have no doubt that you telling
her how you feel had her butterting in her pants. Times
10 if she never thought of you in that way.

If you really truly consider her your friend. You should
talk about this to her. Then move on from there. Whatever
the outcome.

Posted by DMV

Posted by thirdeye
Again, this doesn't provide any input on what I asked the second time

your coming off a bit controlling...just go with the flow

Posted by Wynter
Sag/Cap cusp

Ugh. I knew one for about 5 minutes, he was one mean bastard. If someone didn't measure up, or weren't on "his level", his contempt and scorn for them was obvious and horrifying. I went out to dinner with him and his attitude toward the service people was so embarrassing, and I was so nauseated by the whole thing and just couldn't wait to get away from him.

lol @ your Sag/Cap cusper "forgetting" names like that....it's just beneath them to remember, you know? Sounds exactly like something this guy I went out with would do.

Posted by thirdeye
Again, this doesn't provide any input on what I asked the second time

Posted by thirdeye
Ok, well this Sag/Cap cusp chick in the past has acted territorial towards me, telling other women (whom I was interested in) not to see me because I am a player/hustler, or when I was dating someone (whom she knew the name of) she would suddenly "forget" her name when asking if I was still with them when visited, introducing me to her best friend and making sure I specifically know that it's her best friend as if I am about to be sized up, inviting me to travel the world with her on trips that aren't exactly inexpensive to say the least (trips that consist travelling over 8,000 miles), to saying she wants to boast about the fact she knows me to people because of some of my work I've produced which is published.

So I eventually decided to discuss feelings with her, which lead to reply I never really expected. I expressed attraction she then goes into what I would describe as near overwhelming confusion. I was told everything from not wanting to discuss it now, to she doesn't want to be with me because it could settle her down, to she's not ready to do this now but wants me to try later (in a few years time when she's ready to settle down...), to she never even thought of me as an option, to she considered me as an option.

I was kind of thrown back by this and didn't know why the sense of panic especially on this scale given she's the one who has constantly done things that make me consider she's showing signs of interested over the last few years. Is this normal for a Sag or even Sag/Cap cusp? I mean I am not really bothered by being friends, but it wasn't just like an "Oh we're just friends sorry" response, but at the same time it felt like it was worse than that because it's like "hey look I want you to be there for when I need you to be" which I am not cool with. I mean I know Sags are supposed to be pretty straight forward, but having known my grandmother who was a Sag and completely made my grand father's life a living hell through emotional acts and then finally on his passing away she finally expressed the fact that she loved him and really misses him...makes me think maybe not all of them are as calm, cool, and controlled as they're made out to be (no offense meant by this).

As for the spelling, whoops

Posted by Dianasart
Hahaha I thought I was the only touchy type around here. ;-)

If I like you, then I want to turn you on, and I love knowing I have the power to turn you on. And I like it even more knowing you're not shy type. I'm always giving my boyfriend a tap on the ass every now and then in public. My ass! And a little squeeze on his upper thigh when we're sitting next to each other. Oh and a little game of footsie from under the table.

I'm the flirty type. I will flirt even without intentions. But if there intentions, I make them obvious enough. And it's even more obvious if I'm not interested. I wont even glance your way if I want you to stop talking to me.

I WILL feed you! I love making food for a guy I really like.
I have mood swings though... If I've met you on a good day, then you'll see a happy and talkative side. If you've met me on a quieter day, then for some reason I'll have a bit of a shy side to overcome.

I tend to smile at everyone I come across, being a happy soul, so not much there. But the special smiles will always have a bit of a sexy hint to it, maybe a little blush, and some good eye contact. I love making eye contact and making the approach as easy and welcome as possible.

I also love taking my time. So if I/Sag want to get away quick, then something you said or did turned me off.

I've actually experienced this... I was at the school cafeteria, heating up some food while making eye contact with this great looking guy, smiling and blushing. When he came over to my table, I was extremely excited, until I realized that the guy had nothing to talk about. I tried to make bring up things to talk about and I swear, he was a complete blank.
I told him I'd see him around and ran for it!

Another turn off was when a guy told me he doesn't/wont give oral. Likes to receive, but not give
Being so open to sexuality as we are, knowing this is kind of a deal breaker. Or is it just me?

I also have a bit of a jealous side. I think our actions will have to just depend on how obsessive we can get.
I'll admit that I've gone through my guys messages about 4 times during our two years. I wont stop him from having female friends, nor will I argue or make a fuss about it. But, hey, I couldn't help myself those few times!