Any insight on Scorpio Woman, Libra Male

5/7/2012 9:11:04 PM | More
Aramei

45 years old female from Green Bay, WI  

Sun Scorpio Moon Sag Asc Cancer

I have been racking my brain...or going nuts, whacko crazy for almost the past week. I know this is the Scorpio nature in me. PLEASE tell me I didn't mess things up and that is just the flighty Libra nature.
Ok...here is what happened. I am going to be completely honest, because that is who us Scorpios are right? :-)
I met a Libra male through an online dating site. We agreed to meet and WOW!!! can I say that again? WOW!!!!! I don't want to say love at first sight, but by the time the night was over I probably was in love. We got along great, had a lot of fun together, lot of common interests, I even surprised him a little here and there. He mentioned that he felt he had met me before....I don't know how to take that comment. Well, before the night was over we were kissing and I invited him back to my place. During the deed he told me I was beautiful (which never can I remember having happened before with anyone). The next day he even met up with me again and we went for a bike ride (no sex this time). After that, we texted for a couple days ...just simple stuff about our days. Then I hear nothing from him. I text him and no reply. I know that THIS is common with Libra men, bu I didn't knwo that till AFTER I did something TOTALLY stupid, or totally Scorpioish. I texted him how I felt about him, that I really liked him, I probably said too much. But I just needed to get those thoughts out of my head..they were eating me up. I felt like a fool the next day and texted him again, apologizing up and down for sounding like a psycho woman. I'm really a quiet, shy, sensitive, sweet woman with a big heart who just has a desire to be in love.

I know this all sounds psycho to you Scorpios. I just wonder if anyone could help me out with what I should do. I know I need to give this man space, but I also need to know if I scared him away or if he is the type of guy who would be touched by such a grand gesture.

I hate that my heart leads my mind and I can't think straight without my emotions pushing their way to the front of the line.

Thanks for reading.
5/7/2012 10:15:51 PM | More
Scorpio83

female

Rising/Cancer Sun/Scorpio Moon/Pisces Me

Give him space he more than likely feels that he has gotten too close to fast. So it's a natural reaction for not just a Libra man but men in general to "pull away". Don't smother him or continue to pursue it will put you off as needy. Let him be and give him the space he needs to be himself again. Also, you brought him to your place on the first date? Hmmmm much too soon for fourth base but that is my opinion, remember you need to value yourself and if you keep giving in and as a Scorpio you should have higher confidence to wait it out and see what he can do for you than just giving. Just slow down and let him initiate if he doesn't then well it's time to move on.
Again, just my insight but take from it what you will.

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