Do Scorpio Women like "torturing" men they love?
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I am involved with a Scorpio woman. I am a Leo. This is the most "emotionally and sexually" charged relationship i have ever been in; and she claims the same. The energy between us is undeniable. We have worked through a lot of challenges that seem to be common between these two signs. I am sure there are more to come. But for now it is quiet on the home front. But the thing that i have notice about my partner is she seems to enjoy pushing my buttons. As if to test me and see if i will succumb to the natural traits i have as being a Leo. Mainly jealousy, control and possessiveness; to name a few that i have been able to work through since my involvement with her. She will intentionally do things to see if she can get a reaction. The sure fire way that i have been able to handle but find it difficult is to inconspicuously ignore me. Well i do not know about all Leos but if you want the hairs i my back to stand up then don't give me attention. In the case of our relationship i enjoy giving her attention which i am indirectly getting her attention. "WIN WIN". Anyways curious if this is unique, Common for Scorpio women with all lovers or just Scorpio women with Leo lovers.
one more thing. I know better than to share my suspicion with her. Apparently she is allowed to be suspicious and i am not. Go figure..
|Well, well... if it isn't Mr. Leo? Hmmm... Well, perhaps she just enjoyed torturing you because it satisfies her soul... She knows that you love her so much and perhaps she is trying to make a decision either to trust you or to blow you off... Maybe she does really love you but she is afraid she might get hurt... You must have freaked her out with your very controlling and jealous nature as well as the possessiveness. So maybe she wants to test you as far as it can go to help her make up her mind.|
Just a thought...
|yes. she's testing you. if you ignore her, or she's not sure how you feel about her, she will do things to get some kind of emotion out of you. she wants to get you fired up and to spill all.|
Posted by Scorpian86
yep, leo's are just as controlling
Posted by exoskeleton
So do i react or maintain composure? I get tired of letting her know all my buttons! Damn Leo's, we don't hide our feelings too well. Well at least this Leo. LOL. I mean in respects to being involved with a Scorpio woman.
|lol, this is actually a very complex line to tread.|
we like to see grand displays of emotion, not someone who will stay calm and refuse to argue.
if you don't argue, we feel you don't care.
she may like these tests and power games because it arouses passion and keeps things going,
but if she's only doing this because she's insecure in the relationship, you need to set her straight and forcefully.
|yeah exoskeleton, well i am defiantly not one who will refuse to argue. But I think with this latest phase i would have to say it is a test to see if i can give her space and trust her. i have not always been a big fan of trust. But i didn't care about the lose. But this Scorpio has got me really off my game. With her this is just a natural trust that i have. I can (and i know it sounds cliche)say i have never felt about a woman this way. So it seems to be worth all the growing up. I think if i try to force anything she will run. I would also rather her come to her on reality. If i force her or persuade her, she can always say later she was pushed. This is one of those either want it to be real and last forever or go away- deal with the pain and move on. I prefer the first. I have never been involved with a Scorpio women. it always stays interesting! But there are benefits.|
|So do i react or maintain composure? I get tired of letting her know all my buttons! Damn Leo's, we don't hide our feelings too well. Well at least this Leo. LOL. I mean in respects to being involved with a Scorpio woman.|
I would say : Just be yourself... If it bother you then tell her... if you are outraged with it then say so... Don't pretend because she will know it.
|maybe you should call her out. let her know you love her, and she doesn't need to keep testing you to reassure herself that it's true. that's only going to cause more pain for both of you.|
|It's not that hard to please a Scorpio woman, if you really think about it. All you need to be is to be real and she will value and appreciate that from you.So,let her know she can trust you, let her know you love her as much as she does and I am pretty sure, she's going to stop all the testings. Once she realizes that she's being unfair too you and she loves you, she will make the change because a Scorpio woman in love is very devoted, loyal and highly passionate when in love. She will do anything to keep you smiling and expect more wild passion, Leodriven. The more in love we are and the more we trust you, the more animalistic and sensual, we become. Enjoyyy and good luck|
I agree! I can't wait to be with my Leo again. He drives me crazy in all kinds of way night and day... He brings out the animal in me LOL! He never bore me he is so full of drama that I kinda got used to and love pushing his buttons too every chance I get... He is the most interesting partner I ever have... Full of life and full of crap but tolerable crap very eye roller...
Posted by bluemoon2Posted by bluemoon2Posted by exoskeleton
i'm sure your ex did at some point and it was too subtle for you to even notice. you're not a scorpio.
it's not a matter of respect. sure it's immature, but people pull away to see who will follow them. they do things to see if you care. sometimes it's consciously, sometimes it's not.
bluemoon, what's your chart?
lmao, no need for any blocking. i really don't care whether you share your chart or not. i just don't see why you've suddenly blown up out of no where. i haven't said anything to attack you once.
so what's the actual problem? scorp envy? you think you've got them all figured out and don't want to be told otherwise? or should just we blame this miscommunication on the retrograde?
interesting to note that you don't seem to like me or dapper, and we practically have the same chart.
|by the way, where is your pride, aries? you'd think you'd love arguing, and instead you just wanna block me?|
treetrunk, excuse my "dead-pan" humor. must be the cap rising!
|fig. 1 or, why aries will never understand scorpios, or, why bluemoon is crazy as butter.|
Posted by DapperDon
@dapper - QUIT VIOLATING THE BOUNDARY I HAVE SET FOR YOU. T'IS DISRESPECTFUL.
and thank you. she wouldn't share her chart 'cause she thinks i'd shut her down with it. if i felt bleepy enough, i probably would.
@quietstorm - "This son of a cookiemonster turned his back to me. (we were laying on the couch, cuddling) and he pushed my arm off of him. I sat there for a minute, like NO this cookiemonster didn't... LOL"
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