How to recognize an evolved Scorpio?

6/8/2011 11:40:27 AM | More
MissV123

female

Hello Scorpios!

I just had a simple but interesting question for you considering all the posts I reviewed this far. I read someone's description of the different type of Scorpios out there.

It would be cool to gather your thoughts as to how an evolved Scorpio would look like or act like?

I just want to be able to recognize the different types a bit better so that I won't generalize any groups...and no worries, I still like them all, I just want to know which ones deserve more attention.

MissV
6/8/2011 2:18:54 PM | More
starlover



*Scorpio* through and through

I have learned that it takes a loooooong time for most signs to evolve. Because the Scorpio is all about transformation, dying and rebirth, the younger ones can act and be extra sensitive! I know i was painfully so!

You probably wouldnt instantly spot one, because remember we are "veiled", looking out but hiding our true selves. So i suppose the answer to your question is, by spending time with one. If you can get past the mask,you may be lucky enough to see the true essence of an evolved Plutonian, which is all about losing the self and losing control...

Good Luck! xx
6/8/2011 6:37:59 PM | More
MissV123

female

Posted by starlover
I have learned that it takes a loooooong time for most signs to evolve. Because the Scorpio is all about transformation, dying and rebirth, the younger ones can act and be extra sensitive! I know i was painfully so!

You probably wouldnt instantly spot one, because remember we are "veiled", looking out but hiding our true selves. So i suppose the answer to your question is, by spending time with one. If you can get past the mask,you may be lucky enough to see the true essence of an evolved Plutonian, which is all about losing the self and losing control...

Good Luck! xx


Starlover,

Thank you for the response. You were a brave soul!

So, what is this thing about dying and re-birth for you guys? I read this in other places, is it that you guys need to be connected with a dark/hard side in order to be reborn? Why would that be necessary, as supposed to just learning from other for example...is it an appreciation for the feelings/dark emotions...or is it that it makes the rebirth more valuable? Even so, why take that road, what is the value in it for you guys? I am just curious about that too.

Also, when you say sensitive, do you mean...fearful of getting hurt? Because I have seen that yes. Good to know it gets better over time!

Finally, as far as losing self, yes I think one of the hardest human battles in general for all signs, but for some more than others, true. And losing control...wow yes, would that mean being less self-protective? Is this control...related to being at the top of every game? Like, being the ultimate decision-maker in relationships for example?

Sorry about all the questions, just feel free to answers anything you would like and thanks again!

MissV
6/8/2011 9:55:14 PM | More
MissV123

female

PurrHiss,

Hmm interesting perspective, maybe maturity does play a part on things, in either case I took the words out of a conversation some people were having here and I had always wondered about what that could mean since I read of those concepts on-line too. Maybe 'evolved' isn't the best word, so if that would be offensive to anyone here, I would definitely take it back. It didn't seem to bother anyone here in a previous discussion, but I'll definitely keep your thoughts in mind. You can check the post "What type of Scorpio am I?" to understand where this came from. The other word used was 'eagle' or something like that.

Anyway, I am glad that you had someone so awesome in your life and thank you for sharing your thoughts. I will either change the question and/or make sure people here do know what I meant when I asked that. Thank you!

MissV
6/8/2011 10:27:24 PM | More
MissV123

female

PurrHiss,

No problem, you were sticking up for your awesome step-grandmother, a truly awesome lady it seems.

Funny enough, I just came back from working out with one of my new scorpio friends here. I give her a hard time sometimes (tease her) about being a scorpio, since she knew of my ex scorpio boyfriend, but she understands. So far she seems actually really sweet and able to keep her word...even though she does want to work out every day intensely, haha, because she is all about it (at the moment!), I told her to not get so excited about it because I don't want her to chicken out!

As far as the word, we will see what others think here (if there are any thoughts)and no worries I do value opinions and honesty! And I like learning new perspectives and new thoughts.

Are you a Leo, by the way?
6/8/2011 10:35:56 PM | More
MissV123

female

Posted by QuietSt0rm
The younger scorpio women that I know do a lot for attention. They say and do vulgar things for shock value, they don't care much for their personal image. They just wanna shock people. LOL When I was younger, even though I was a virgin I'd say vulgar things about sex, masturbation. Looking back, it's rather embarrassing and I always hope that nobody remembers that except me. Hahah..

I work with a handful of younger scorpio women and they all have attitudes and do a lot for attention. My pisces ex boyfriend has a scorpio sister and she is on my FB friends list. She is not a stripper, but she takes pictures in stripper attire like pasties and thongs and she posts these pictures as her profile pics. She goes out in public to nightclubs and takes pictures with groups of men half naked and posts sexual statuses about taking it in the butt, etc. She puts ALL her sexual business out there and it's kind of sad actually because I know someday she's going to regret being this way.

Younger scorps also hold grudges, have more violent tempers than more evolved scorps and have little control over their emotions. It's usually easy for me to differentiate between an evolved scorp and an unevolved one, probably because I've been both.


QuietStorm,

You are so amazingly honest! Your user name fits you well.

I guess when we are younger then Virgo and Scorpios might be a bit different, at least girls, because as you might not Virgo girls actually do care a lot about protecting their image earlier on in life...and actually loosen up a bit more as they get older hahaha...that's funny, but true. However, I don't know of any Virgos who would post those type of pics, but then again there is this famous porn star who is a Virgo...but still it must be really rare, because guys here and in other places talk about it as if it was one of the most shocking things in the world! lol (and I guess I should be very glad that most are still keeping it inside the house!)

We have our crazy sides too, quietstorm, we just overanalyze it, so most of us keep it undercover. Ahem.

Scorpios have always been either very forward and obvious with me OR very intriguing, but I am in my mid 20s so maybe we will all understand a bit better in few years? Oh and I am glad you are not shocking people as much anymore.

Thank you for your insight!

MissV

6/8/2011 10:41:03 PM | More
MissV123

female

Posted by PurrrHisss
MissV,

No, I'm a Cancer.


Oh sweet cancers. I heard that they are very protective with their families.

Cancers, although a little bit complex in the emotional dept. really showed me what it means to be loved. I had some good long-term relationships with your kind and we are all still good friends.

So why are you hanging out in the Scorpio room, if I may ask? Exes, secret crushes, boredom?

I better text my boyfriend now. I have been writing here to all of you and the poor thing has been waiting for hours! lol

Okay ttyl PurrHiss!

MissV
6/9/2011 1:46:42 AM | More
starlover



*Scorpio* through and through

We naturally evolve as time goes on, we were once uncivilised and closer to the animal state, so it is a natural progression. Over time, we have become physically evolved, taller and also living longer

To evolve spiritually is a choice but for some a natural progression, it is as though life almost forces some folk to grow and therefore evolve x

It isnt a judgement, its an observation

x
6/9/2011 6:45:41 AM | More
starlover



*Scorpio* through and through

Sluts? Funny cos i dont know any Scorpio women who are easy...they all seem to be with men for the love and connection, as well as the sexual stuff

oldskool...why do you like sluts? wouldnt you rather be with a woman that is sexually prone, but not one who has allowed lots of men inside her...

...uuuggh!

6/9/2011 6:53:42 AM | More
zeoblade

31 years old male from Gold Coast, QLD  Australia  

re: intial post

are you asking how to recognise an evolved scorpio?

you can tell what signs are in control of their element

and which signs have progressed to control other elements
6/9/2011 11:57:33 AM | More
MissV123

female

Posted by zeoblade
re: intial post

are you asking how to recognise an evolved scorpio?

you can tell what signs are in control of their element

and which signs have progressed to control other elements


Okay, but in a more practical way, real life scenario, how would you see that?

MissV

6/9/2011 12:03:54 PM | More
MissV123

female

Posted by QuietSt0rm
The younger scorpio women that I know do a lot for attention. They say and do vulgar things for shock value, they don't care much for their personal image. They just wanna shock people. LOL When I was younger, even though I was a virgin I'd say vulgar things about sex, masturbation. Looking back, it's rather embarrassing and I always hope that nobody remembers that except me. Hahah..

I work with a handful of younger scorpio women and they all have attitudes and do a lot for attention.

Younger scorps also hold grudges, have more violent tempers than more evolved scorps and have little control over their emotions. It's usually easy for me to differentiate between an evolved scorp and an unevolved one, probably because I've been both.


Great answer, Quietstorm. I bet its as easy as for me is to recognize a golden Virgo from a wack one. Haha.

Seems like you guys can have more of an introspective side as you mature and grow too...maybe it's always there and that's one of the reasons why some of you can connect with some Virgos once in a while? We are always thinking about ways in which we could improve ourselves, although we don't say it aloud, we do...so we can either take it to make something really positive out of us or situations we can be in or give things to...or we feel overwhelmed and go in the bad habits/prideful/double life direction. I mean, we all occasional struggle with our other sides too, but some of us work through them and come out to the light in good or even great ways, other just sink in...and it's never ending circle unless something/someone (including us of course) puts a stop to it.
6/9/2011 12:15:43 PM | More
MissV123

female

Posted by QuietSt0rm
Yeah my older sister is a virgo and she still is a prude lol she won't even tell her husband if she has period cramps *eye roll* and when she has to poop, she lies and says she was "painting her toe nails". It's kind of cute actually.. but yes, we are way different. I no longer try to shock people, but I don't hold back much either. Call it brutal honesty if you will. LOL

I've noticed the same thing about scorps either being wide open in the beginning or closed off, mysterious. Never in between.. always one of the extremes.


Oh and as far as this comment, that was so funny! You know us well hahaha. Oh the word of a Virgo girl in some little areas. It's so ridiculous sometimes...but I am glad some find it cute. Haha.

I find the mysterious/complex part of scorpios cute too...as long as they don't come up with the stinger and hurt you really bad for no reason whatsoever OTHER THAN their own fears an insecurities about something they assume or can't express. Ahhhhh. Still like them though, why lie.

Maybe we are all supposed to just learn from each other and observe each other weirdness from afar lol or maybe these are the kind of stories that actually make the scripts for books or movies?? lol oh well, only time and our unique experiences will tell.

i appreciate learning more about you guys though. it's kind fun and actually a relieve once i understand a little more.

missv
6/13/2011 8:05:30 AM | More
starlover



*Scorpio* through and through

We need to learn to lose control...stop controlling others and situations, otherwise we live in fear

Once a Scorpio man or woman truly learns this she/he is evolved

maybe?

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