Pull the disappearing act on a Scorpio???

LibraScales
So I know that Scorpios are famous for the disappearing act on their partners and coming back. I've had it done to me as well by a Scorpio man but what would happen if you pulled the disappearing act on them? Like if they were to come back after disappearing and you were to not speak to them and give them a taste of their own medicine? Would they freak out or try to desperately contact you after a period of time?
BigGirlPanties
Scorpio men are the king of childish behavior, in MY experience. Amputating a friendship by silent scorn is a brutal act of emotional violence, no matter how much they *need* to be alone.

Rationalizing it saying it's *in us* is total bullbutter.
LibraScales
It's gone past the point of "I want my alone time" It's becoming a huge habit of his and everytime I confront him BAM back to square one. Tired of giving excuses for someone who doesn't regard others feelings.
iheartnerdyboyz
I think most people would understand "me time" if it's mentioned as such.

When some scorps disappear, they don't explain. One can't help but feel it may be personal...

It's not a matter of 'getting him' as much as lack of communication. Some need that communication.
iheartnerdyboyz
To OP I don't recommend giving the silent treatment back. You won't win.
BigGirlPanties
I agree with Nerdy....but not cus I won't win (which I wont..but really..what would I *win*?). I agree because if I consider that amputation by silence to be the act of great unkindness and extreme self centerdness, then WHY would I want to stoop to that SAME behavior?

Thats what irrational, emotionally immature people do. I want to be happy in this life, not "ahead" of or "winning" something. If I became the same sort of prick he is then I dont get to call him out as a treetrunk twit, do I. And yes, for the record, I was amputated by a scorpio man I loved. I feel sorry for him now. I am a good woman and he lost a lovely friendship.
LibraScales
No there was nothing that I am aware of that occured for him to be angry with me. I thought that we were talking great and everything than all of a sudden he's just gone for weeks. Then a single message. Then gone for a month. I have tried to reach out but all I get is "oh sorry". And then anger on his side towards me. I am at my wits end because I feel like he hates me or that he has someone else around and pushing me away
LibraScales
If the silent treatment back won't get them to come around what will? What if he never comes around again? Something in my gut tells me he is up to no good...
Iamnobody
I would freak out if it was someone I had strong feelings for. It has to be made clear that sometimes the disappearing act isn't done on purpose, we just value our private time a lot.
BigGirlPanties
Posted by LibraScales
What if he never comes around again? Something in my gut tells me he is up to no good...


Read your own words out loud. WHY in the world would you WANT him back?
P-Angel
I've never known a Scorpio to do a disappearing act on someone.


Every Scorpio I know communicates to thier partner that they need time alone.


This is a clear indication to me that you are talking about a person you want, rather than a person you have.
LibraScales
No I'm not doing the same thing back I'm asking if it would even be a good idea to give him a taste of his own medicine. Your not reading my post correctly. You would have also seen that I have tried to get in contact and communicate with him as well. We have been dating each other for more than a year and on top of that I consider him quite the good friend. No I'm not talking about somebody that I want instead of have...he asked me out..he pursued me. If you say that every scorpio you know has given communication when they will disappear then that only verifies to me that he's not mature enough to tell me what's going on and probably found someone else.
Skykomish
I have yet to meet a scorpio who communicates when they need to go awol. If you press us for an explanation we just get snappy. Best to just leave him alone. If he cares, hell be back. If not, you didnt waste your time waiting.
LibraScales
Skykomish- yup that seems to be the reaction that I am getting when I am asking him if something is wrong. He either says that I'm making him mad or he thinks that I'm giving him crap for something. He says I can message him but he doesn't talk very much compared to when he contacts me. And when I make the decision to contact him he just disappears again..should I contact him or just leave him to do his thing till he comes around and comes back to me?
LunarMaiden
Scorpio's aren't the only one's who do this. I do this all the time. Not because I am behaving badly but because I work a stressful job, work long odd hours and have enormous frustrations. When I get home I don't want to talk nonesense. i.e. Listening to a friend go on and on about a male stripper she fell in love with who isn't returning her call, which her grown ass should know better. But honestly my friends have had to come to my home and say, "OMG you live, can you come out to play?" I am doing better now, we schedule play dates.

It's best that adults behave like adults and ask the other person what's going on and try to initate contact or better yet give them space until they are ready to come out of their cave.
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