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8/8/2012 3:44:27 PM | IP
Impulsv

38 years old female

It totally does change your perspective. It was a blessing in disguised no I'm living the life I want. Which is richer and more fulfilling. I strongly believe his controlling nature which was very subtle slowly killed my spirit. Hence cancer. Fire evaporates my water. I'm sure he says I dampened his fire.
8/8/2012 3:37:14 PM | IP
Demeter

female

Soft Core vs Hard shell Asc Gemini

LOL Sun square sun. It needs strong Moons to work. Not all Leos are the same.
Not all the Scorpios are the same either LOL
8/8/2012 3:22:50 PM | IP
R1g0rM0rT1s



words fail me

Impulsv: i'm a survivor too cancer really does knock a relationship into shape or completely off track. i divorced my aries husband after i'd finished treatment. i told him once, he was worse than the disease. i meant it. he was, lol.
8/8/2012 1:29:01 PM | IP
Impulsv

38 years old female

Was married to one for eight years. He treated me like a queen but always with conditions. Wanted all of me and more to the point off asking me to give up my family!! A bit needy a bit narcissist but we flowed because I wasn't ego driven and gave up too much of me. In the end all that show was for show. When the tough got going ( cancer)he bailed but my family stayed. Goes to show all flash , all talk no bite. Lol. Yes he treated me good but how bout when illness comes in will you be there? But other than that. Good man.
8/7/2012 8:35:13 PM | IP
seraph

35 years old male from Canada  

First Decan, Mercurial and Venusian Leo.

Posted by ScorchedWater
Seraph, you're right. Thanks for the response and the sympathy, I appreciate it, I'm way over him though. But, he was my "first love", or what I thought was love anyway, so it is hard to get him out of my mind when I think of what love is supposed to feel like, or when I see a guy put his arm around a girl. And that aries woman could totally take him, but is she manipulative enough to out play him at his game?!


When it comes to the mysterious inner workings of the Aries mind, your best bet is to ask the great folks in the Aries forum.

First loves are the ones you never forget, but it's the ones that come later, from hard-earned experience, that you'll want to remember.
8/7/2012 8:13:56 PM | IP
ScorchedWater

19 years old female from Massachusetts  AMURICUH FUK YEAH!  

Sun sign: Scorpio Rising Sign: Leo

Seraph, you're right. Thanks for the response and the sympathy, I appreciate it, I'm way over him though. But, he was my "first love", or what I thought was love anyway, so it is hard to get him out of my mind when I think of what love is supposed to feel like, or when I see a guy put his arm around a girl. And that aries woman could totally take him, but is she manipulative enough to out play him at his game?!
8/7/2012 6:41:20 PM | IP
seraph

35 years old male from Canada  

First Decan, Mercurial and Venusian Leo.

Posted by ScorchedWater
I recently got out of a relationship with a Leo male who was abusive, needy, narcissistic, controlling, and sadistic. treetrunk THAT! I'm sure some Leo guys are good. but I dunno, there's too much of a power struggle. He wanted somebody he could dominate more easily in my opinion.


I'm sorry you had such a terrible experience.

Sometimes, it only takes one bad experience (in your case it was downright lousy) to ruin someone's perception of a sign for good. And sometimes, yes, the power struggle between Scorps and Leos can be a frightful hill to climb. You might have been better off with a Capricorn. I hear Scorps and Cappys often work out nicely.

As for your ex, it seems he had much deeper issues than *just* having to deal with the vicissitudes of an astrological mismatch. For him, I think really the only sign that would have been able to handle him would have been an ARIES WOMAN. Wouldn't you agree? Someone who could put the butch combat boots (hoofs?) to him once in a while.





Amirite? I mean, look at that! She at least *looks* like she could handle anything!! Alright, let's be real here, rejection *might* be hard to take for her, and *might* even lead to outright insanity, but hey, 4 legs + 4 legs = 8, and 8 = infinity. Good times!


8/7/2012 5:22:35 PM | IP
ScorchedWater

19 years old female from Massachusetts  AMURICUH FUK YEAH!  

Sun sign: Scorpio Rising Sign: Leo

I recently got out of a relationship with a Leo male who was abusive, needy, narcissistic, controlling, and sadistic. treetrunk THAT! I'm sure some Leo guys are good. but I dunno, there's too much of a power struggle. He wanted somebody he could dominate more easily in my opinion.
7/30/2012 3:30:44 AM | IP
R1g0rM0rT1s



words fail me

well, seraph said it all anyway
7/29/2012 11:38:12 PM | IP
seraph

35 years old male from Canada  

First Decan, Mercurial and Venusian Leo.

Reconciliation of Egos.

Physically, it should be paradise. Leo/Scorp is a hot match. Both are drawn to one another.

But both signs manifest ego - on a grand scale - but in different ways. Both egos need different forms of nourishment. Leo needs to assume the "front man" position, charting the course forward. The "hero" role that Leo likes to play must not infringe on the supporting role that Scorpio's ego prefers to play. All the behind-the-scenes work that allows Leo to shine. Leo *needs* that support, and Scorpio *needs* to be given the freedom to give it, and to decide how it's done. Leo needs to allow Scorpio to organize him, and Scorpio needs to allow Leo his space to shine. So, in military terms, for example, Leo takes the "point", and Scorpio is responsible for the rearguard position. So Leo shouldn't be constantly looking back to worry about the details in an attempt to control them. Likewise, Scorpio must allow Leo to take care of charting the course forward and taking the spotlight.

This doesn't mean Scorpio's ego is "lesser" or unimportant. It means that Scorpio's ego *is not* fulfilled by the same things that fulfill Leo's ego. So recognize the possibility of a power struggle, and then understand the needs of both particular egos in order to avoid it.

Then you can let that natural magnetism that draws both signs together do its magical work.
7/29/2012 8:57:39 PM | IP
ay018

28 years old female

I work as an executive assistant while I

Posted by happykitsune
Doesn't look good


What's been your experience? I've read online that they don't make the best match and I know everyone is unique but Idk. We have so much in common and are very passionate but again, I can see where we could butt heads
7/29/2012 6:43:24 PM | IP
ArticleL

Aweeeee I wanted to hear it only half of us will judge you it cant be that bad.

-Grins-
7/29/2012 6:05:16 PM | IP
BigGirlPanties

female

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
nope. i am never discussing my personal relationships on dxp again. it's no-one's business but mine. i'm sure there are other people who will happily contribute to this thread. all relationships are different anyway and all people are unique and so what possible value would it have to get into generics.


well fine!! be that way.


7/29/2012 6:04:43 PM | IP
BigGirlPanties

female

Posted by happykitsune
Doesn't look good


Hey you!!

LTNS...how are ya doll? Whats cooking??
7/29/2012 6:01:33 PM | IP
R1g0rM0rT1s



words fail me

nope. i am never discussing my personal relationships on dxp again. it's no-one's business but mine. i'm sure there are other people who will happily contribute to this thread. all relationships are different anyway and all people are unique and so what possible value would it have to get into generics.

 

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