Scorpios and sexual insecurity.

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9/7/2011 6:50:15 PM | More
Scorpatarius

female from Virginia  

I've been going through a lot of transit

Is it just me? Or do Scorpios (especially women) are always awkward after sex? It's like we have a fear of adandoment or rejection. That's how I am. But I want to know if I'm alone on this or not
9/7/2011 7:35:47 PM | More
Sagittarius89

24 years old female

Can you feel the fiyaaaa?!

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9/7/2011 7:36:53 PM | More
Sagittarius89

24 years old female

Can you feel the fiyaaaa?!

I have a mars in scorpio and I feel very sexually confident
9/7/2011 7:38:36 PM | More
exoskeleton

25 years old female

november 3rd

i'm not sure if the right term for this is "sexual insecurity". that would suggest we doubt our sexy skills and that's certainly not the case.

though i understand the fear of abandonment/rejection. when i have sex with someone i'm falling in love with that vulnerability and intimacy chokes me up, to the point where i've even cried after sex. it's like in those moments i know i'm already tangled up and binded to them and i couldn't turn back if i wanted to.

i don't think it's necessarily awkwardness. sex changes things.
9/7/2011 7:48:38 PM | More
Virgosrock

female

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Hell yeah my friend acts just like that
9/7/2011 8:05:50 PM | More
TypicalScorpio

24 years old female

I can be quite an insecure person in general but I don't normally feel that at all after sex. I can get clingy like "aww lets hug and have a deeeep talk" lol but usually I just really badly need a smoke.

The only time I've had that fear of abandoment/rejection after sex was when the person was extremely selfish and it was as if I wasn't even there haha.

My mars is in Scorp like sagittarius89 so maybe she's right and that's what it is.

9/7/2011 8:13:40 PM | More
ZombieCat

20 years old

Scorpio sun Leo moon Scorpio mercury/mar

This is why I never want to have sex >>;
Stupid Scorpio inside of me.
9/7/2011 8:53:31 PM | More
DMV

32 years old

anybody else wanna be a hero? Sag S

acorpios after sex are.....awkward
9/7/2011 9:02:28 PM | More
DMV

32 years old

anybody else wanna be a hero? Sag S

mars in scorp is very, "i did my thing."

scorp sun ares very....silent....
9/7/2011 9:48:58 PM | More
Sagittarius89

24 years old female

Can you feel the fiyaaaa?!

Hahaha I agree with everything your saying Elle!

We bring em down
9/7/2011 9:52:37 PM | More
Sagittarius89

24 years old female

Can you feel the fiyaaaa?!

Posted by ellessque
scorp...no, they get attitude like arrogant attitude (i know i do)....don't know much about the others.


I could break up marriages.

Who said that?

9/7/2011 10:04:19 PM | More
Skykomish

30 years old female from CO  USA  

Sun Scorpio 28.05 Ascendant Taurus 6.4

Posted by exoskeleton
i'm not sure if the right term for this is "sexual insecurity". that would suggest we doubt our sexy skills and that's certainly not the case.

though i understand the fear of abandonment/rejection. when i have sex with someone i'm falling in love with that vulnerability and intimacy chokes me up, to the point where i've even cried after sex. it's like in those moments i know i'm already tangled up and binded to them and i couldn't turn back if i wanted to.

i don't think it's necessarily awkwardness. sex changes things.


Exo quit taking my words out of my brain before I can write them down

We fall too easily, and we fall too hard. Sex really makes that accelerate, as if it wasn't fast enough already. Though I've never cried after sex. I do get really insecure and either get really distant or clingy (which usually backfires on me and THEN I get distant).
9/7/2011 10:06:34 PM | More
Skykomish

30 years old female from CO  USA  

Sun Scorpio 28.05 Ascendant Taurus 6.4

I've been pondering this falling too easily and quickly thing lately. I sometimes wonder if its because I don't know the guy that well yet, and maybe I'm only seeing the good things. But I realize that usually isn't true. I just *SEE* people. Like nobody can. I can see through the shields, to the heart. Its easy to make a decision about someone when you can do this. "Nope, not worth my time" or "Sure I'll keep this one in friend zone" or "OMG I may have found the one". Its like I have xray vision.
9/7/2011 10:12:45 PM | More
Skykomish

30 years old female from CO  USA  

Sun Scorpio 28.05 Ascendant Taurus 6.4

How many years did it take you to get to the point where you could actually DO that- not just talk about it, Elle?
9/7/2011 10:34:54 PM | More
Sagittarius89

24 years old female

Can you feel the fiyaaaa?!

Posted by ellessque
omg you guys...you have to OWN that butter.

sex is sex, a place to leave all inhibitions at the door and to replay in your mind later when you are bored


Aha!
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