Scorpios and sexual insecurity.

Scorpatarius
Is it just me? Or do Scorpios (especially women) are always awkward after sex? It's like we have a fear of adandoment or rejection. That's how I am. But I want to know if I'm alone on this or not
Sagittarius89

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Sagittarius89
I have a mars in scorpio and I feel very sexually confident
Virgosrock
Hell yeah my friend acts just like that
TypicalScorpio
I can be quite an insecure person in general but I don't normally feel that at all after sex. I can get clingy like "aww lets hug and have a deeeep talk" lol but usually I just really badly need a smoke.

The only time I've had that fear of abandoment/rejection after sex was when the person was extremely selfish and it was as if I wasn't even there haha.

My mars is in Scorp like sagittarius89 so maybe she's right and that's what it is.
ZombieCat
This is why I never want to have sex >>;
Stupid Scorpio inside of me.
DMV
acorpios after sex are.....awkward
DMV
mars in scorp is very, "i did my thing."

scorp sun ares very....silent....
Sagittarius89
Hahaha I agree with everything your saying Elle!

We bring em down
Sagittarius89
Posted by ellessque
scorp...no, they get attitude like arrogant attitude (i know i do)....don't know much about the others.


I could break up marriages.

Who said that?
Skykomish
Posted by exoskeleton
i'm not sure if the right term for this is "sexual insecurity". that would suggest we doubt our sexy skills and that's certainly not the case.

though i understand the fear of abandonment/rejection. when i have sex with someone i'm falling in love with that vulnerability and intimacy chokes me up, to the point where i've even cried after sex. it's like in those moments i know i'm already tangled up and binded to them and i couldn't turn back if i wanted to.

i don't think it's necessarily awkwardness. sex changes things.


Exo quit taking my words out of my brain before I can write them down

We fall too easily, and we fall too hard. Sex really makes that accelerate, as if it wasn't fast enough already. Though I've never cried after sex. I do get really insecure and either get really distant or clingy (which usually backfires on me and THEN I get distant).
Skykomish
I've been pondering this falling too easily and quickly thing lately. I sometimes wonder if its because I don't know the guy that well yet, and maybe I'm only seeing the good things. But I realize that usually isn't true. I just *SEE* people. Like nobody can. I can see through the shields, to the heart. Its easy to make a decision about someone when you can do this. "Nope, not worth my time" or "Sure I'll keep this one in friend zone" or "OMG I may have found the one". Its like I have xray vision.
Skykomish
How many years did it take you to get to the point where you could actually DO that- not just talk about it, Elle?
Sagittarius89
Posted by ellessque
omg you guys...you have to OWN that butter.

sex is sex, a place to leave all inhibitions at the door and to replay in your mind later when you are bored


Aha!
Skykomish
at band camp?
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