What most People DO NOT understand about Scorpios

krysrenee7
Scorpios are very passionate beings. When they want something, they certaintly go for it. Everybody knows that Scorpios have the tendency to be very jealous, possessive, obsessive & secretive but in a Scorpio's mind, all of these traits are justified. When a Scorpio loves you & actually allows you access to their heart, it is essential that you do the right thing with it. Scorpios are the most jealous because when in love, they are the most loving. Scorpios are VERY competitive in anything they do, including love, which is where the possessive trait comes in. When they find something they like & want to keep, they dare anyone to try to take it from them, which is why they bring out their controlling sides. Most people see a controlling personality as a bad thing, but in a Scorpio's mind they are overly protective of you because they love you more than you'll ever know. They like to be in control, not because they think they are superior over you, but because being in control makes them feel SAFE. Scorpios love to be winners & hate to lose and this concept comes into play even in their relationships. They feel like as long as they have control they know they won't mess it up, but know that the only way for them to keep you is for them to be constantly reassured that you won't hurt or betray them. And sometimes for a Scorpio, the only way to get this assurance is by being protective, jealous & controlling. Scorpios hate it when others don't understand why they are the way they are. They see is as, I'm controlling & protective because I love you more than anything & because I don't want to lose you. And when their partner doesn't understand this side of them, they get aggravated & begin to harber feelings towards you as if you don't appreciate all they do for you. Scorpios normally feel like their mates don't fully appreciate them or don't fully understand them, which is why they keep alot of secrets. They live by the "What they don't know, can't hurt them" creed, which in their mind is a good thing because they see it as them trying to protect your feelings and heart. These flaws to the average person seem unmanageable & unacceptable, but Scorpios feel that these traits make them unique & strong partners, which is why they never give up or change for anybody. It all comes back to pride & not losing to anything, even to their own flaws.
Gaurav_Aries
Reminds me how juvenile I was ....or still am ?
P-Angel
lol ...
generald
That was funny. Now, where's the real post?
Queenscorpio
I find this to be true mostly with scorpio males. Maybe some scorp women, but me. I am more of the Love means letting go and if the person is meant to be yours they will... Kind of girl. Ya know? No one can force anyone to do anything. So being controlling will seem to push people away. However, Loving with all we have seems to be true for the male and female scorp. Although we might not trust 100%. We can definitely love 150%. I don't know if other signs are able to love so deeply and unselfishly.

Several of my partners in relationships (mostly libras) have said, "I wish I had the passion to love so deeply." or "I have never known anyone who loves the way you do."

Not that we forget ourselves when we love. We just makes it a standing point that our partner knows and feels how much we love them. We seldom get the same in return. Don't get me wrong. I know all of my partners have loved me deeply (some still do) but not in the way I am able to love and it seems most scorps are able to love.
krysrenee7
Don't get ignorant on me. There are tons of people who didn't know what I just posted about Scorpios. If what I posted is something you already know, then you could've read the post & kept it to yourself. But there are also lots of people (like 5 of my friends for example) who nothing absolutely nothing about Scorpios or even some of the traits they possess. What might not help you might help somebody else. If the post didn't help you, then keep it moving.
P-Angel
"There are tons of people who didn't know what I just posted about Scorpios. If what I posted is something you already know, then you could've read the post & kept it to yourself. But there are also lots of people (like 5 of my friends for example) who nothing absolutely nothing about Scorpios or even some of the traits they possess. What might not help you might help somebody else."


GF's twinner ...... the above is true, kry, but what you have to realize here is that we aren't "those people" out there who are not familiar with astrology. Though your intentions were in the right place, this is like talking to the choir.

We are on an astrology forum .. WE KNOW ALREADY .. to inform people who aren't familiar with astrology is where this would be beneficial.

It's equivelent to saying to your boyfriend after a year of treetrunking him .. "Oh by the way, I'm not a virgin"
P-Angel

The user who posted this message has hidden it.

P-Angel
There you go .. I hide my last post, though, you probably needed to hear it.


kry .. why don't you tell us about your own PERSONAL experiences with a Scorpio, and you'll probably get a better reception
Queenscorpio
Agreed FA.
ScorpSuperior
"we all have really poor attention spans on the scorpio board."


AHAHAHA! omg, i was just about to say that.


posts like these, i read the first and last sentence only. lmao
Lady_M
Forgive her guys. She's new to the boarsd and she's apparently doing this for most signs. Reminds me of that gem chick...but much more aggressive in her postings.
ScorpSuperior
This is going to sound condscending, and i totally don't mean it that way. but sometimes, GF makes me sad. i can't really explain why. i know you aren't spose to let the internet affect you, and it usually doesn't. but sometimes i find myself avoiding her posts b/c i'll get a little sad if i do.
Lady_M
Who is GF...is that the astrology info spammer/poster??

Why does it make you sad??
ScorpSuperior
i can't really put my finger on it, M.


one of my clients makes me sad too. something about him. occasionally, when i watch him interacting, i suddenly become sad. i mean, the moments when he seems happy make me smile, but inside my heart drops.


this happen to you ever?
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