Why do Scorpios like to test their partner?

cullenaffair
missmorals
To sift out the good from the rubbish
Gingerscorp
TO make you ask questions. Bwahahahahahaha!!!
baby consuelo
they test their partner cos they r control freaks
they just cant deal with the unpredictble or deception, like most of us
everybody have desapointments with people and everybody makes mistakes
but apparently for a scorpio being a regular human its a big deal cos they make a drama of all the faults people have

than to protect themselves they decide to make this ridiculous little ''tests'' wich dont proove anything cos everybody knows when its being tested so its impossible to have a sponteneous reaction under a situation like that
its just a waste of time, cos it makes the scorpio looks weak and paranoic and u feel like ur the one who cant trust them cos a good person wouldnt do that to u, than u feel suspicious about them like ''wtf r u doing? i tought we were good''

personally thats one of the few parts i dont like about scorpios, and its a fault not to be romaticized
if u ask me ill say its pretty damn pathetic
missmorals
Yes we have control issues...but i love them...it's great..we don't trust easy and that is brilliant because at least we don't live in some deluded bubble where apparantly fluffy bunnies are roaming the hills and the sound of music is on in the background and everyone loves each other..pffft...hahahah..

Anyways..I am not here to defend the scorpionic race..to each their own..We are who we are..like it or lump it..
Rays Heart
Posted by missmorals
To sift out the good from the rubbish


I think it's pretty much that really. Reality is that not everyone is to be trusted with my life plain and simple. I just don't let everybody in. I won't create foul situations on purpose to break you but I will sure look at you going through situations, observe and take notes. I think each Scorpio go about life in their own way but I think one thing for sure is that if you got a Scorpio's trust, it's because it was earned, one way or another.
missmorals
Exactly...we don't stand there with a flippin clipboard with 50 different tests, checking off as we go along..LOL..we simply OBSERVE you in all your interactions..then you either pass or fail...Just the same way a Virgo does and Capricorn and god knows how many others..we all just have different ways of doing so.
baby consuelo
I think it's pretty much that really. Reality is that not everyone is to be trusted with my life plain and simple. I just don't let everybody in

well i completely agree with that and i can related in some level cos i ahev a capriconr stellium
but the question was about the testing
u dont have to test to see if the person its worthy, that just makes everybody annoyed cos as i sad scorpios r not so smart that no one notices what they r planning
thats a weakness of not very well developed scorpios that didnt learn to use their perception correctly, imho lol
Rays Heart
BC,

I think you're referring more to a maturity issue than a zodiac sign issue. What relates to Scorpio is that a Scorpio's trust is always earned. Now how one Scorpio decide to go about getting that trust will be based on his level of maturity. An immature Scorpio will believe that he has to create challenging situations for you to go through for testing purposes, then observe and take notes, while a mature Scorpio will understand that life is much better at providing those tests and will simply observe and take notes. What pertains to Scorpio is the observation and notes taking. All of that is in attempt to gain his/her trust.

I think we all assess people walking in to our lives for reassurance of their worthiness on what's important to us. Otherwise anyone would just qualify to be a friend, lover ect. We all have a list of things consciously or unconsciously that separates the good ones from the bunch. A mature individual would simply understand that it's unhealthy for him/herself to purposely create hurdles in order to achieve that.
Pisces_Dream
Posted by missmorals
Yes we have control issues...but i love them...it's great..we don't trust easy and that is brilliant because at least we don't live in some deluded bubble where apparantly fluffy bunnies are roaming the hills and the sound of music is on in the background and everyone loves each other..pffft...hahahah..

Anyways..I am not here to defend the scorpionic race..to each their own..We are who we are..like it or lump it..


This post made me smile ....so scorpian like.

PD
missmorals
LOL...fluffy bunnies = teletubbies? now how did you get to that? I'm intrigued..But yes if teletubbies if you will..whatever rocks your boat my love

And if we are being picky as to which teletubby, i'd go for Po...lol..

Pisces Dream..you know where it's at girly

Man I am on a high today...lady luck seems to be shining an ultra violet light on me saying "IT'S YOU"...Thanks ladyluck..you rock!!!
missmorals
By the way astrological aftermath your picture is a cunning resemblance of our chef Jamie Oliver. Hmm...in his younger years of course..bless...
missmorals
LMAO!...Po with a shotgun..oh man..that made me chuckle..

Maybe I should've picked Dipsy...or la la
missmorals
And lol @ "I'm right"....why of course you are aries afterall..jeez..

Ok, I have to go and find a telltubby video on youtube now...
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Why do Scorpios like to test their partner?

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