are scorpio women obsessive when in love?

12/20/2013 6:32:08 AM | More
dimitri

our obligations over the festive season are keeping us apart
we might see each other in the new year
I'm getting the impression that its going to be very difficult for her not seeing each other.
said she's sad / i had to console her by telling her that she hasn't lost anything [which is true] will she make unreasonable demands?
12/20/2013 11:37:30 AM | More
IrresistableScorp

female

You can call me Pineapples. :)

How deep into this relationship are you? I only ask because if she has given her heart you, then she may become a tad obsessed by not seeing you. Obsession, that Scorpio dirty little secret, that character trait we hide from everyone but the worthy because its a vulnerable point for most scorps.

Just do your best to reassure her. Be patient. A scorp in deep doesn't have that normal tight control that you may have fallen in love with. Again another one of those things that scare the butter out of Scorpio women.

12/20/2013 1:20:47 PM | More
Damnata

26 years old female

Lambie!!! Posted by dofacc In conside

Posted by dimitri
our obligations over the festive season are keeping us apart
we might see each other in the new year
I'm getting the impression that its going to be very difficult for her not seeing each other.
said she's sad / i had to console her by telling her that she hasn't lost anything [which is true] will she make unreasonable demands?


Is this about the same Scorpio woman you posted a while back?
12/20/2013 2:22:31 PM | More
dimitri

the same .
we probably will see each other knowing our tendency
but knowing her i don't honestly envisage anything of the sort. Ive never known her to be demanding, she's very understanding.
we express our love for each other every day, we are enamored of each other.
However, I'm curious for i don't know enough of the scorpio character traits .
The question really is :is obsession, when love is sincerely expressed a part of Scorpio love?
12/20/2013 2:26:39 PM | More
dimitri

Posted by IrresistableScorp
How deep into this relationship are you? I only ask because if she has given her heart you, then she may become a tad obsessed by not seeing you. Obsession, that Scorpio dirty little secret, that character trait we hide from everyone but the worthy because its a vulnerable point for most scorps.

Just do your best to reassure her. Be patient. A scorp in deep doesn't have that normal tight control that you may have fallen in love with. Again another one of those things that scare the butter out of Scorpio women.



i think you may have answered my question
thanks
12/20/2013 3:29:23 PM | More
TheLadyScorpio

from The Other Side . . . Come If You Dare  

Hello, Perfect Stranger Truth or Dare?

When obsession occurs, it would mostly be uncontrolled lust or infatuation experienced by a 'have yet to evolve' Stinger.

When sincerely in love, it would mostly be an overwhelming warmth and fondness in our heart for the individual (an ember which grows deeper as time passes by), where we go about life and daily random occurrence may trigger the memory of the one we love to mind. We may think and feel a lot for that special one in our lives, where we feel a burst from inside out, radiating happiness. It is a mix of care, compassion, empathy and acceptance for another being whilst desiring and wanting them completely, rather often that is.

She may be sad because the bond and connection may be strained (both physical and emotionally), having it pulled thin by this time apart and when we love, we want to feel and know, we are close to the individual who rests in our heart (it does not mean we wish to smother or refuse to give others their space, we do give so). A part of feeling close, is being intimate and bonded.

If you both are serious in this together, then she will be attached, I should think. In regards to her making 'unreasonable demands', that would entirely depend upon the woman, and whether you have a sane/practical one or not.

Do you have a quality level of communication between the both of you?
If so, I doubt that would ever be a problem, even if it were, on the occasion, it would be overcome.

12/21/2013 2:24:23 AM | More
dimitri

TheLadyScorpio

the communication is unparalleled in my own personal experiences



12/21/2013 7:06:03 AM | More
IrresistableScorp

female

You can call me Pineapples. :)

I'm wondering why obligations are keeping you apart over the holidays?

Do I sense a complicated romantic situation here? No judging. Some may-- well most people here are quite judgey. Get ready for the onslaught of cat lady relationship cookiemonster slaps if you admit to anything shall we say " unconventional "

But you already know that dimitri don't you?
12/21/2013 11:10:31 AM | More
P-Angel

55 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

Posted by TheLadyScorpio
When obsession occurs, it would mostly be uncontrolled lust or infatuation experienced by a 'have yet to evolve' Stinger.

When sincerely in love, it would mostly be an overwhelming warmth and fondness in our heart for the individual (an ember which grows deeper as time passes by), where we go about life and daily random occurrence may trigger the memory of the one we love to mind. We may think and feel a lot for that special one in our lives, where we feel a burst from inside out, radiating happiness. It is a mix of care, compassion, empathy and acceptance for another being whilst desiring and wanting them completely, rather often that is.

She may be sad because the bond and connection may be strained (both physical and emotionally), having it pulled thin by this time apart and when we love, we want to feel and know, we are close to the individual who rests in our heart (it does not mean we wish to smother or refuse to give others their space, we do give so). A part of feeling close, is being intimate and bonded.

If you both are serious in this together, then she will be attached, I should think. In regards to her making 'unreasonable demands', that would entirely depend upon the woman, and whether you have a sane/practical one or not.

Do you have a quality level of communication between the both of you?
If so, I doubt that would ever be a problem, even if it were, on the occasion, it would be overcome.




I think that's funny as butter, that you act like that ^^^^^^^ .... when in reality, your proven actions say otherwise.

You ARE unevolved Scorpio ... who acts insane during those moments ... and we've all seen it in dxp. The fact that people will come in here and say it doesn't matter, who cares, the past is the past ... are enablers, because they like you, so they will lie to save face.

But, it doesn't matter ... we have all seen you (more than once) completely out of control, obsessively ....

so, my only point here is .... you pretend to be someone you're not.
12/21/2013 11:17:25 AM | More
dimitri

.........well
in a nutshell
I'm a free man but she is not a free woman.
My relatives are here from the 4 corners of the globe for xmas
her family is always here.
Mine is an open door. hers is jammed.
our love is not an absolute secret
we like the balance, for all involved.

if you find this unconventional then look around you
feel free to criticize it
i could have walked away and she didn't want me to and neither did i.
the best of both worlds
12/21/2013 12:45:37 PM | More
dimitri

Hey
what a hypocrite i am!
of course i want her to be obsessive!
i think im more obsessed than she is!

12/22/2013 9:53:54 AM | More
IrresistableScorp

female

You can call me Pineapples. :)

Posted by dimitri
Hey
what a hypocrite i am!
of course i want her to be obsessive!
i think im more obsessed than she is!


Yeah, I sensed you were just posting this to make sure she was going to be obsessed...

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