Confused by my scorpio fling...help

sfd144
So I have been casually dating a scorpio guy with his venus in scorpio and moon in virgo for about a week and a half. I'm an aquarian with my venus in pisces and moon in leo. We met and hit it off instantly, to the extent that one of his best friends, who had introduced us, was surprised because he apparently doesn't warm up to people too quickly. The chemistry was almost tangible. Anyway, he is going back to college in about ten days, as am I, and even though I really like him, i recently got out of a long term relationship and he doesn't want to start anything either. Things are pretty great when I see him.. but here's the problem. When I see him. I would think that since this is a fling and we're casually dating, he would want to be in touch more often and want to spend more time together given that he's going to leave soon. It isn't like he's not great to me when we're around each other. When we hang out with his friends, he always holds my hand, and i catch him looking at me intently sometimes. When we hook up, I get no signs that he dislikes me or doesn't want to be around me. Then what's with the disappearing and the hot and cold behaviour when we're texting or trying to make plans?
natural25
#dead @ slut #29.

Whelp...

To the OP:

Yea... It's a fling. Anything goes. He doesn't owe you consistency or urgency. That's the nature of a fling; fit it in when its convenient.

At least, that was always my understanding of them...
candyapples88
I never understand why women say they don't want a relationship either, etc., etc. but then get upset when a guy doesn't treat them as a gf or potential gf.

Remember that you said you didn't want a relationship either...so don't read too much into his behavior and just enjoy what you have with this guy while you can. No expectations, just fun!
tiziani
It sounds like you would have been confused with or without him. See how you feel when he leaves. Until then just take the positives. Don't make a problem where there is none.
LetltB
Posted by sfd144
So I have been casually dating a scorpio guy with his venus in scorpio and moon in virgo for about a week and a half. i recently got out of a long term relationship and he doesn't want to start anything either. I would think that since this is a fling and we're casually dating, he would want to be in touch more often and want to spend more time together


I kinda got down to the meat and potatos of your post here as you can see.
1.) Casual dating means nothing serious
2.) Not to mention you say it's only been a week and a half
3.) When you have a fling or casually dating you are not allowed to have expectations
4.) He made it clear he doesn't want to start anything
5.) That's pretty much it..it is what it is or was





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