Scorpio man and Virgo Woman

54 years old from USA •
Sun xxx position is 17 deg. 26 min. of Virgo xxx Moon xxx positi
I was wondering if anyone could shed some light on this romantic compatibility. I'm a virgo who grets along great with all my Scorpio friends, but have never dated one. My best friend is a virgo woman dating a scorpio man. They've only been out on a gee dates but she seems confused as to whether or not she should take hip im serious (it's a virgo thing). He makes time for her a couple of days a week, but doesn't communicate with her on. Regular basis. She's a typical slow moving, cautious Virgo. I read on another thread that Scorpios will mirror their partner's attitude. Is he just giving her space because he thinks that's what she wants? She really likes him but its hard for her to share her feelings. Should she be more open about how she feels about him? AND, would that get him to open up more to her??

She'd like to know from a Scorpio man how to go about speaking to him more often between dates? Or, should she just let him have his space,

From what she's told me, I think he really likes her. He always sets up the next date after each time he sees her, unlike my virgo man that would rather be spontaneous, then planning.

Would love to hear from all the Scorpios, especially the male Scorpios.

One other thing. He's recently widowed for only about two months. Do u think its too soon for him to be dating? I do. Can't imagine being ready in 2 months after being married for 17 yrs.

Thanks for your responses.
I think it would help your friend more if she knew the man's moon sign. What is your friend's moon sign?

Sun signs work for initial compatibility, but if and when they become more intimate the moon sign will tell more. As far as Virgo and Scorpio goes, I am a Virgo Moon and have been in a long term relationship with A Scorpio moon for almost 6 years. (Just think of Virgo/Scorpio sun signs but instead more heavily involved with emotions and the subconscious.)

She probably will never know when to take him seriously, she should really just give up trying and admit defeat. Scorpios are mysterious by nature and they subconsciously confuse people, so the best way to handle it is to not act like you know what to do or how to react when you really don't--Scorpios hate when you pretend or be superficial in ANY way, even though they make it hard not to for a Virgo who always like to know what to do. I am a moon in Virgo so I take everything literally and it only drives my boyfriend nuts when I act like I know what he meant when I didn't. Important tip: Scorpios loathe being misunderstood.

As for not communicating between dates, he's taking his time with her. Scorpios (mature ones) do not rush in anything and make sure they know the situation inside and out before progressing. They are afraid of being hurt as they feel more deeply than any other sign, and can be hurt ten times as badly (yet love ten times as hard). She shouldn't push him or rush him... She should be honest about how she feels as he probably really, REALLY needs to hear it from her before he will allow himself to believe it wholeheartedly. But she must be careful not to express herself in a way that will make him feel as if he is being forced to rush or give any part of himself or his time sooner than he anticipated. Scorpios take themselves, their love and their attention very seriously, and do not just give it to someone willy nilly. It may make her feel as though he's unsure about her, or even that he may not like her as much in return, but she cannot let that get to her head and become aggressive or demanding or guilt-tripping with him. That butter does not work (I've tried it). It will push him away and he will feel very uncomfortable around her from that point on.

She must practice patience, empathy, understanding, and hone her INTUITIVE skills, as he will not be as logical and straight forward as she would like. I know, as a Virgo I understand it is hard to compromise objectivity and
and logic, but with a Scorpio it is a necessity.

Scorpios are lovely creatures, very misunderstood but they have so much to give when somebody takes the time to empathize with them. As for him being a widower, Just take everything I said and multiply it by 100. He is trying to do some deep emotional healing right now, and I agree that two months is WAY too soon, but again you should check his moon sign, it could explain more. Tell your friend sincerity, patience, and understanding is key. When she is frustrated/ confused, he's probably enduring a lot more emotional agony than her.
54 years old from USA •
Sun xxx position is 17 deg. 26 min. of Virgo xxx Moon xxx positi
Thanks. I'll try to find out her moon sign. And see if she can get a birthdate out of him
54 years old from USA •
Sun xxx position is 17 deg. 26 min. of Virgo xxx Moon xxx positi
And yes, his wife was ill for 3 yrs before she passed he told her that he has resolved a lot of his grief, but me being a Virgo with asc Scor and Venus scorp, I'm still not convinced. Don't want her to get hurt trying to heal him
from America •
"Scorp Sun Pisces Moon & Pisces Rising My own
Scorpio women with Virgo men works best. That's all I have to say.
Scorpio by trait
I forgot to mention this on the other thread "Scorpio woman, Virgo male" by LunarMaiden.

Although sex comes easy with Virgo man, it doesn't stay.

Sex is a Scorpio's oxygen. Although I could fall in love with my ex Virgo husband over and over again, no sex killed our relationship.

I heard and read this by others with a Virgo partner, but I never expected this to happen to me.
30 years old female from Rainbow's End •
Insatiably Curious... Com-passionate
Posted by rainymonday
and logic, but with a Scorpio it is a necessity.

Scorpios are lovely creatures, very misunderstood but they have so much to give when somebody takes the time to empathize with them. As for him being a widower, Just take everything I said and multiply it by 100. He is trying to do some deep emotional healing right now, and I agree that two months is WAY too soon, but again you should check his moon sign, it could explain more. Tell your friend sincerity, patience, and understanding is key. When she is frustrated/ confused, he's probably enduring a lot more emotional agony than her.


Since his wife died slowly, it's possible he stayed with her, loved her, and gave himself to her, yet at the same time was emotionally preparing himself for her death. This would make him quicker to accept and move on. Granted it's much too soon to know who next to fall in love with yet, BUT, he could certainly be ready to form friendships and see where they go, gradually. If he's planning things with your friend in advance, it's quite possible he's latched on to her.

There's something about loyalty that's both outstanding and detrimental to those who practice it. The longer you're latched, with all going well, the deeper the bonds. I myself am Scorpio Sun with Virgo Moon. Not male, but hey, useful combination? In speaking from this perspective, I'll say I tend to be accepting of many as friends, but tend to place the vast majority of my attention and loyalty on only one at a time. And I'm slow to move on. And may never move on, entirely.

Scorpio man and Virgo Woman

Playing the odds, IME.

Seems to work better when it's VM + SW -- but astrology ain't everything.

For Example: I know one couple, Scorpio Man + Aries Woman; and another, Scorpio Man + Taurus Woman.
57 years old female •
Just
Posted by Sexyvirgosiren

... he told her that he has resolved a lot of his grief, but me being a Virgo with asc Scor and Venus scorp, I'm still not convinced.




Why do you have to be convinced? For you to say that you are "still" not convinced, is insinuating that convincing YOU has been on your agenda, for it to "still" not be good enough for you.

isn't that curious ??

Smells like bullbutter to me ......
57 years old female •
Just

Virgos are quite deceptive .... funny because if asked, they will say they hate liars ...

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