scorpio staring

DMV
so whats in the stare? when your staring at the object of your affection, what are you thinking about? whats going through your head?

i saw my scorp a few days ago at a club. while i was watching the guy on stage, i noticed out of the corner of my eye that he was staring at me from a corner. before i knew it, he was now closer to me on the left hand side of me staring. he kept creeping closer and closer to me. he always looked like he was going say something but nada.

i can read his thoughts pretty clearly...

so why all the staring?
krysrenee7
lol oh the infamous intense Scorpio stare!

I've heard different things/reasons as to why they do such. I don't think their reasons are far beyond why the average person in general would stare at someone anyways, but I think Scorps just tend to have more of a "staring problem" than any other sign =P

Could be that they're observing you from a glance; sometimes they like seeing how you compose yourself when in public or around others & while you're slightly at a distance from them. Maybe they're not even meaning to stare at you; maybe their minds are racing and/or pre-occupied--I'm sure 5 other "irrelevant" people might've assumed that night too that he was staring at them. Maybe he's thinking deeply/intensly about you--maybe in a bad way, maybe in a good way--Maybe he's day dreaming or off into his own little world. Maybe he's staring at you so hard b/c he's comparing you to those from the past--maybe he's taking mental notes.

Idk, signs that are particularly over observant & have minds that never stop racing (Scorp, Aqua, Virgo, etc.) tend to have quite a staring problem.
krysrenee7
I had a Scorpio tell me once that they purposely stare at others to intimidate them and/or catch their reactions. She knew that her eyes were captivating, so she used them to her advantage & would purposely stare at the person she liked for a long period of time just to make them nervous or see if they can handle it. And I say this b/c now that Scorps now we've caught on to their staring problem AND have acknowledged that it creates intrigue, some of them might purposely be doing so just for dramatic effect! JustSayin'
Skykomish
Posted by krysrenee7

Could be that they're observing you from a glance; sometimes they like seeing how you compose yourself when in public or around others & while you're slightly at a distance from them. Maybe he's thinking deeply/intensly about you--maybe in a bad way, maybe in a good way--Maybe he's staring at you so hard b/c he's comparing you to those from the past--maybe he's taking mental notes.



ALWAYS taking mental notes. Not maybe. And yes, we know our eyes can catch people off guard. We definitely use that to our advantage. I've done some experimenting with makeup and clothing colors to see just how unsettling I can make them.
Skykomish
Oh, and we never 'accidentally' stare at you. Never 'get lost in thought and you just happen to be where our eyes are'. Its always intentional.
mooncancer
The Scorpio I am interested now is always staring trying not to be too obvious, but it really gets obvious. I think they really like to stare those they like. It's fun!

DanSingScorp
I find it interesting when people talk aboutt he "scorpio stare". I'm a scorpio and I don't stare, I think it's rude. The only time I can recall ever doing so was when matching a stare with this Virgo guy I liked who would stare at me all the time. Now those guys can stare!
DMV
he's definitly up to something. trying to manipulate me again. no time for that.
lnana04
I remember way back in high school there was this Scorpio guy that would turn all the way around in his seat and stare at me for at-least 5 minutes everyday. All of his friends would laugh and I would laugh too from embarrassment. He wouldn't smile or anything. Just turn around and stare every single day. I never knew what it was about, and he never said anything. Just stared LoL.

There was another Scorpio that I caught staring at me. I was standing and twirling my hair around my fingers and I happened to glance over and caught him staring. It was definitely a sexual stare, like I was being undressed with his eyes. I tried nearly everything for him to look at me like that again LoL, but that was a one-time thing, I guess.
Jonleo
If you can read his thoughts, why ask?

I have Scorpio rising and have been 'accused' of staring. Sometimes it means something, other times, it's just fun to treetrunk with people.
Whimsy
Posted by Jonleo
If you can read his thoughts, why ask?


I think I know what was meant by this. I can usually tell what my Scorpio husband is about to say or do, except when he stares. It's really just "looking" at me a certain way every once in a while, but it has the quality of a stare. It's so blank and so full at the same time that I have no clue what he's thinking, although it does sometimes seem like he wants to bring out a notepad and write down some things to remember later. I've found that his stare is a great mirror for my own state of mind...if I'm feeling insecure I'll think he's thinking negative things about me and if I'm feeling confident, I'll just return his stare, or make a joke, and wait to see what's next.
DMV
Posted by exoskeleton
Posted by DMV
he's definitly up to something. trying to manipulate me again. no time for that.


manipulate you how? lol, so you give in and let him hit it?


haha, NOPE.
DMV
Posted by Jonleo
If you can read his thoughts, why ask?

I have Scorpio rising and have been 'accused' of staring. Sometimes it means something, other times, it's just fun to treetrunk with people.


reading his thoughts is one thing. why he stares is another.
DMV
Posted by Whimsy
Posted by Jonleo
If you can read his thoughts, why ask?


I think I know what was meant by this. I can usually tell what my Scorpio husband is about to say or do, except when he stares. It's really just "looking" at me a certain way every once in a while, but it has the quality of a stare. It's so blank and so full at the same time that I have no clue what he's thinking, although it does sometimes seem like he wants to bring out a notepad and write down some things to remember later. I've found that his stare is a great mirror for my own state of mind...if I'm feeling insecure I'll think he's thinking negative things about me and if I'm feeling confident, I'll just return his stare, or make a joke, and wait to see what's next.


he is so obsessed with me that when a guy came over and danced with me, you should have seen how quickly he whipped his head around to see. he probably gets alot of whiplash from me.

he will stop in his tracks and play close attention when he sees me doing something of interest..especially with another guy. i let another guy feed me and the scorp looked like he was going to beat the pulp outta that guy.

we are not together, so im going to talk to whoever i want to. he can go talk to his baby mama.
TypicalScorpio
I stare for so many reasons. Someone already mentioned taking mental notes and wanting to watch reactions..those are one of my reasons. When I stare at someone I may not be thinking anything at all...almost like a mind blank time. Other times I may be having all sorts of intense feelings and wishing I could say them out loud but am only able to stare. And sometimes, even though someone else said the opposite, I just accidentally stare. I think the accidental stares are the worst because that's when random people think I like them yet I may not think of them in that way AT ALL

When I stare at someone I love it's usually because, like I said before, I have intense feelings and can't say them out loud, or because I'm suspicious.

He was probably thinking how beautiful you were to him and all sorts of icky romantic things but felt he couldn't voice them because romance is icky
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