why do scorpio men act so mean?

ZipZapZo0m
Posted by WRP1975
Posted by ZipZapZo0m
Posted by WRP1975
To be honest, I'm not sure why I have to change who I am because of this. Sure I might be able to play the whole distancing and ignoring and cold shoulder game (and play it well, I must say) but why? That's too much work.

I'll just go back to being the good, friendly, caring guy I was when she met me. She knows I'm married and not going anywhere and that's for her to deal with. Not me. If she wants to be friends, awesome, if not, I can't be responsible for her feelings.

It's just too much work for me to be mean and cold to people. I must be a lazy scorpio.


I dont think its necessary for you to be mean and cold lol. Could be that both of you got off on the wrong foot reading each other. You're sweating it too much with this gem chick, leave her be and just be yourself around her. If she takes it as friendship, well and good, if not, oh well, you tried being normal and its time you cut her off.


Absolutely. Maybe going to work won't be such a chore again ha ha!


you scorps are such hard work to us gems lol. Took me some 2000 years to decipher mine as the uncomplicated straightforward guy I see him now as.
ZipZapZo0m
Posted by WRP1975
To be honest, I'm not sure why I have to change who I am because of this. Sure I might be able to play the whole distancing and ignoring and cold shoulder game (and play it well, I must say) but why? That's too much work.

I'll just go back to being the good, friendly, caring guy I was when she met me. She knows I'm married and not going anywhere and that's for her to deal with. Not me. If she wants to be friends, awesome, if not, I can't be responsible for her feelings.

It's just too much work for me to be mean and cold to people. I must be a lazy scorpio.


I dont think its necessary for you to be mean and cold lol. Could be that both of you got off on the wrong foot reading each other. You're sweating it too much with this gem chick, leave her be and just be yourself around her. If she takes it as friendship, well and good, if not, oh well, you tried being normal and its time you cut her off.
ZipZapZo0m
Having read this thread only from whats been posted since page 3, WRP, did you let her know explicitly that u guys are only going to be acquaintances? Does she know that you're married and still tryin her luck at flirting?
Scorpvenus
Posted by ScorpioMackin
You've played one too many games. We'll always think you're just toying with us from here on out.


1+.

Hence he is behaving this way.
Scorpvenus

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Buck
that's how we work. look at how you treat the scorpio before you judge him. it might be the way he feels like he's being treated. no offense.
Buck
If i feel i'm being mistreated then i'm mean, but if you're nice then i'm nice. are you sure you're not being mean or unfair to him?
Bethann
Run girls, Once you settle for crumbs, and sex toy status? The odds of not only a Scorpio man, but any man will not move you into that realm of a woman they could love. You dont respect yourself? Neither will they. Don't ever sell yourself short for any man. I don't care how much you think you love him.

I can't believe how weak we woman can be, myself included, BUT I kicked the Scorpio who was messing with me to the curb. One of the hardest things I've ever done. I thought I would die, but I didn't. I'm doing ok, I'm seeings others - not to make him jealous, because I want to. The fact that now he is al in a snit about it. I love that! I like that maybe he is hurting just maybe a fraction of the hurt and humiliation he put me through! But I digress. Seriously girls, wake the hell up! It's a wonderful feeling to live your own life, meeting new guys, going on dates without all the crap of the one who brought you to this board. When a relationship hits the rocks? Let it go! If it was meant to be? It will be. Don't hang on and beg for crumbs! Cuz Crumbs is all you get!!

Now go take a long look in the mirror and say. "Ef him!! I DESERVE BETTER". Put him out of your mind, mark a day on the calendar weeks in the future and say until then? It's about ME, work on your studies if your in school, start to exercise, get your hair done what ever PAMPER yourself, that date will come and you maybe surprised how much you've grown into liking yourself and proud of the woman you are starting to become, worthy of real love with a man, not some treetrunked up loser who willingly uses you at YOUR request.

Try it. It worked wonders for me.
Bethann
Run girls, Once you settle for crumbs, and sex toy status? The odds of not only a Scorpio man, but any man will not move you into that realm of a woman they could love. You dont respect yourself? Neither will they. Don't ever sell yourself short for any man. I don't care how much you think you love him.

I can't believe how weak we woman can be, myself included, BUT I kicked the Scorpio who was messing with me to the curb. One of the hardest things I've ever done. I thought I would die, but I didn't. I'm doing ok, I'm seeings others - not to make him jealous, because I want to. The fact that now he is al in a snit about it. I love that! I like that maybe he is hurting just maybe a fraction of the hurt and humiliation he put me through! But I digress. Seriously girls, wake the hell up! It's a wonderful feeling to live your own life, meeting new guys, going on dates without all the crap of the one who brought you to this board. When a relationship hits the rocks? Let it go! If it was meant to be? It will be. Don't hang on and beg for crumbs! Cuz Crumbs is all you get!!

Now go take a long look in the mirror and say. "Ef him!! I DESERVE BETTER". Put him out of your mind, mark a day on the calendar weeks in the future and say until then? It's about ME, work on your studies if your in school, start to exercise, get your hair done what ever PAMPER yourself, that date will come and you maybe surprised how much you've grown into liking yourself and proud of the woman you are starting to become, worthy of real love with a man, not some treetrunked up loser who willingly uses you at YOUR request.

Try it. It worked wonders for me.
ScorpioMackin
Like Pure Chaos said..cut your losses. You've played one too many games. We'll always think you're just toying with us from here on out. I just stopped talking to a girl for this exact reason... Start fresh and learn form this mistake.
Purechaos
Okay, first off, typical geminis to try to bring the attention to themselves. None of you have even tried to give the original poster some sound advice, instead you wanna tell your story. How about creating your own thread.

For
You came into his life and then backed out. You realized you after the fact that you wanted to be with him. We scorpios are creatures of consistency. We want someone who says they are going to be there for the long haul and mean it!!

You've done it twice to him now, so really the only thing you are good for, for him is the sex. You had your ONE chance and FAILED miserably. Move on. Otherwise you'll just end up getting hurt or used.

I know you said you told him and that you hint, but he doesn't believe you. You need to understand that as we are practical people, our emotions rule us. We don't detach from our lovers, but want to meld two souls into one. That is perfection in us in a mate. We want to possess our mates, but not destroy them, meaning our love is unconditional, but our love is earned and once you gain it, it's your job to keep it. By being wishy washy you may have lost that aspect. Honestly, if you really want to be with him, you have a lot of proving to do. Keep in mind that you may never get there, no matter how much you say and do. It's probably best to just cut your losses.
Sarbar22
that girl at the top's story sound very simular to mine i tooo am also with a scorpio
gemini_gal
...well its worth the try tho, eh? :p and yea well it does kinda upset me that he doesnt want a gf atm but i respect that and whenever he does, im always here 4 him
oh and sure i deserve more but im not the kind who can fall in and out of love very easily. i mean to say when i love someone, which i rarely do (in terms of bf/gf love) i do it whole heartedly and and extremely patient so ill wait till how ever long i have to. and if he does find someone else he's rather be with than me, then i'll move on and NEVER look back. but as they say 'good things come to those who wait' lol END OF!
emeraldgem
"No1" is getting hurt? I don't buy it. You're getting hurt. By wanting something that you don't have and settling for sex when you deserve so much more.
gemini_gal
Nah its ok emerald gem, i dont really do insults but yea i guess i can see what your trying to say. although, im sure you may have heard the saying that 'love is blind' and this certainly does apply to my situation. when you love someone or even like someone for that matter, you do generally tend to put everything(along with your pride) away in order to get what you want. and as far as me, as a person goes, i would pretty ,much do all it takes to get what i want and im having sex with the guy i LOVE for gods sake!

and also, i dont really see how just having a sexual relationship is such a bad thing....no1 is getting hurt, both parties are completely happy with this and no1's forcing any1 to do something they dont want. only thing is that i have developed very strong feelings for this guy, somethings that i have NEVER done for any1 else, and he one the other hand is not one to trust easily so i guess you could say that he's trying to test me/ know me as a person. so im just giving him time to fully understand and appreciate the fabulous person i am.
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