Posted by WRP1975Posted by ZipZapZo0mPosted by WRP1975
To be honest, I'm not sure why I have to change who I am because of this. Sure I might be able to play the whole distancing and ignoring and cold shoulder game (and play it well, I must say) but why? That's too much work.
I'll just go back to being the good, friendly, caring guy I was when she met me. She knows I'm married and not going anywhere and that's for her to deal with. Not me. If she wants to be friends, awesome, if not, I can't be responsible for her feelings.
It's just too much work for me to be mean and cold to people. I must be a lazy scorpio.
I dont think its necessary for you to be mean and cold lol. Could be that both of you got off on the wrong foot reading each other. You're sweating it too much with this gem chick, leave her be and just be yourself around her. If she takes it as friendship, well and good, if not, oh well, you tried being normal and its time you cut her off.
Absolutely. Maybe going to work won't be such a chore again ha ha!
you scorps are such hard work to us gems lol. Took me some 2000 years to decipher mine as the uncomplicated straightforward guy I see him now as.