Yes, people do tend to mistake our kindness for weakness until they get that unsettling horn up their arse, then they realize, "Oh crap, what have I done!" Well, in my experience anyway! Seriously though, I think that when you do nice things for people on a consistent basis, and just "take care" of things and make it appear seamless and easy, then people tend to just take it for granted that that is the way it is or supposed to be when in actuality, we are doing a whole hell of a lot more than most people would do...because that's just how we roll. |