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5/22/2012 2:03:39 PM | IP
RoseTheTaurus

female from Pasadena, California  

Person, Escape Artist ..................

It's more than just sun signs! A Taurus with a lot of air or fire in their chart is more likely to be
a Grade A Cheater. But why do you care about the psychology behind a supposedly "loyal" Taurus
cheating? What difference does it make? It has nothing to do with his home life. You could be the most
PERFECT(I know you Virgos love that word) woman you can think of and he will cheat on you too. There is a difference between being emotionally loyal
and physically loyal. Even the most loyal Taurus is a flirt. Loyal- yes, but a wandering eye, lustful, flirt nonetheless.
Combine that flirting with a firey/airy venus or mars and boom- you've got yourself your own personal nightmare.
So stop trying to analyze his home life and his actions.
Don't delude yourself into thinking that if you do things better than his wife, that'll he change for you. He won't.
He's a bull, he's exactly who he'll always be. Goodluck Virgo.
5/22/2012 1:17:25 AM | IP
LunarMaiden

female from the fire Moon  

July 11th, 2nd Decan Cancer

Based on my experience with Taurus men, if they are cheating on their wife they are also cheating on the mistress with a third party too. And tend to be possessive of all the women they are involved with, and will get jealous of the husband of the married woman they are involved with. He did not want the mistress sleeping with her husband.
5/21/2012 10:49:29 AM | IP
ellessque



Scorpio with an Aries Moon Pos

I haven't read this entire thread, so I'm not sure if this has been addressed.

First of all, you've talked to the guy for only a week and you are complaining of him "dragging his feet" about meeting you.

seriously?

what the hell are you lacking in yourself that you need validation from someone like the fast food drive thru at McDonald's? Are you so quick to latch yourself on to someone who is hurting as in an attempt to feel some type of faux love that you don't have to commit to?

Second of all, I have no issue with "Poly" marriages. I'm not down for it but really don't see the issue with others participating.

However, *He* is not in one and clearly stated there were issues in his marriage. That is not a "poly" marriage when one person perpetuates themselves in the middle of a broken marriage.....

that is an opportunist, a trifling one at that.
5/21/2012 10:40:32 AM | IP

Sorry, ARE totally interested in everything...
5/21/2012 10:39:31 AM | IP

Okay poster, here is my 2 cents.

I think Taurus men are a lot of talk. I think they will flirt with you and keep you interested until you try to make it real. Then you have to take the game to them and you will see how in to you they are. I met a Taurus online and we spoke like that for 2 years, now we made it real but I had to bring it to him. If I hadn't, who knows if he would ever had taken the plunge. They take it slow, or totally interested in everything about you and enjoy the chase. I would just keep talking to him and seeing what he is all about. It always comes out. A week is too short to know these complex men. So if that is your choice, that is my advice. And above all, be safe.

On the moral issues of what you are doing...I prefer to let people make their own decisions in life.

I hope that gives you some insight.
5/21/2012 9:15:02 AM | IP
Xin

female

Gemini all the way baby! :) *~*~*~*

FFS! Seriously now I am on a rant.

Hey look simple as this. DON'T GET treetrunkING MARRIED.

Gee....How hard is that? You want to treetrunk around and treetrunk everyone and love all up on 200+ people a night? STAY THE treetrunk SINGLE.
5/21/2012 9:14:05 AM | IP
Xin

female

Gemini all the way baby! :) *~*~*~*

Ok I guess ill be the black sheep.

How about getting a divorce? Both of you. So you think that you and this Taurus man are going to be happy? Pff. You are doing it to the people you are with now what makes anyone think you won't do it to each other when the novelty runs out?

Look you probably weren't fully happy when you both got married anyways. How about just staying single? Why the F do people get married? Seriously. The only people who get this right are gay men (fabulous yes you are) with open relationships. Just live together but don't get married then you can go around loving on who ever the hell you want.
5/21/2012 2:27:20 AM | IP
doubletrouble

I think what bothers everyone here with your post is that you have failed to mention, on any level, any responsibility for the fact that you (and this taurus) are not being honest with your current partners... it is my belief that mental and emotional straying is equally neglectful towards a relationship than cheating. sleeping & seeing someone else is easy; actually addressing the problems with your partner-- that is honorable. you nor this taurus are doing the right thing-- talking with your spouses.

your unhappiness is something that needs to be discussed between you and your partners. I am not claiming you have intentions of sleeping with this man. I am however, seeing your behavior as disrespectful-- his as well. what kind of man is he, if he cannot have the decency to confront his relationship in open discussion? what kind of woman does that make you? how will you value his actions now, if or when you possibly become intimate with him, on a relationship level? are his behaviors reflecting someone worthy of respect? are yours...? I think you need to discuss your feelings with your partner, and if you two are planning on carrying any further communication, you demand that he speaks with his wife as well. as a general human code of honor, they both deserve that much.

5/20/2012 10:12:09 PM | IP
venusianbull

42 years old female from A Lush Meadow, US of A  

In the dead of night, it's the anti-sig.

Posted by DazedScorp
She's not asking anyone to condone cheating. She's asking for some insight on how a Taurus man thinks... Hence, why this is on the Taurus forum, and not in the relationship forum asking for relationship advice.


Taurus men hold their own counsel. Their very silence on this board indicates their accord with the feminine of our kinds voice. Believe this. All our voices are ONE on this matter. If you see lack of reply, the answer is clear.
5/20/2012 9:13:46 PM | IP
NZAqua

39 years old female from New Zealand  

I don't care what your reasons are for your lifestyle choices, it's none of my business and I'll offer no opinion on the matter.

What I will say is that from a Taurus angle I'd say if he hasn't met you yet he's not entirely convinced that he can go through with it, or that he's seeking the thrill rather than the reality of what MAY be available to him. Taurus males appear to me (from my experience of them), to be loyal. However, given that astrology is simply an aspect of a person, not their entire being, you have to consider other factors here too.

Yes, it's okay to ask questions using astrology as a base, but you won't get all the answers you need purely from this angle, and, regardless of where you ask a question of this nature you will meet a negative reaction at some point due to the nature of the situation. On here, asking a Taurus for their view on it all isn't going to be of much help since you're asking some of the most loyal people to voice their thoughts on something which most will be against.

The best advice I can think of is to ask the man involved - since he's already open on quite an intimate level you may find if you pushed him a little more he'd give you the answers you're looking for.

5/20/2012 9:04:30 PM | IP
CrabTwinsFish

female from the Land of Eternal Summer  USA  

In a nutshell ... HOW would you might feel if YOU were HIS wife .. and found out? Sorry.. I'm close minded on the subject too! Be on you're way if your not happy in your marriage .. just don't pursue someone else's husband. Being single is a different scenario, but when a marriage is involved .... that's Hiroshima! Sorry!
5/20/2012 8:25:28 PM | IP
BigGirlPanties

female

Because you are obsessed with him/it enough to come to this site and ask advice. Smoke=fire.


5/20/2012 7:59:34 PM | IP
stormcahser

Why does anyone here automatically think that ANYTHING is going to happen? We haven't even met yet, and, according to INANA04, she quotes "He'll probably entertain you as long as you let him, but I personally think that's all it may be. entertainment"

So, yes, it might be all talk and no action on his part. I have heard of that trait where taurus men show intense curiosity and give you their full attention and then POOF! They disappear and they have you wondering what YOU did wrong. Then they contradict themselves after a while. One of their traits is to be loyal, keep their word and do what they say they will do. This taurus male has done that, for when he says he will call or email, he has. Now it is a waiting game before he starts going back on his word and all of this comes to a halt.

Thats what I am asking. About his behaviors and if it matters wether he is single, married, etc? Does it matter? And yes, I see your point now with using the word LOYALTY within the taurus structure. That does not mean he is monogamous.
5/20/2012 6:50:21 PM | IP
BigGirlPanties

female

The OP will be hard pressed to find anyone here to give advice or to condone cheating, seeing as many of us have been victims of infidelity and it is generally a frowned upon behavior. Lack of children doesnt make it more palatable.


Please be sensible for goodness sakes.
5/20/2012 6:46:09 PM | IP
SwimmingLioness

female from The Great Plains  USA  

Leo Sun/Merc/Venus

Well then, I'll just say, a week is a very, very short time.


 

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