NEED ADVICE ON TAURUS GUY!!!!

9/19/2011 2:49:14 AM | IP

24 years old female from NYC

thanks for the advice guys..i think he is testing the waters..I sense that he's trying not to make his self vulnerable i understand that cuz I'm the same way..i just want something more but i will try to be patient with him

DreamyEyes

9/15/2011 10:17:25 AM | IP

34 years old female

My Birth Chart Sun:

Mizz Virgo don't even worry about another woman stepping up to the plate (easier said than done, lol). If he's into you and wants to be with you only, another woman won't phase him. Taurus men will talk to a lot of women, so maybe right now he's just playing the field and testing the waters. But I understand exactly where you are coming from, I was recently going through the same thing with a Taurus and issues like this will drive you bonkers if you let it!

KittyKnitter

9/15/2011 9:08:29 AM | IP

if you have been talking for three months, then he is into you. probably he hasn't pushed for anything because he wants to have friendship be the basis of anything more between you and he is giving you your space and time to sort out when you will be ready. also likely he is hanging around so that when you are ready to date, you choose him, lol. he might not want to talk about feelings but will listen when you talk about yours. he won't ask for your attention but he will want it. there is a lot to read between the lines with a taurus.it's mostly what he doesn't say that tells you what you need to know. teasing is a way a man has of showing he cares but not putting himself out there to be vulnerable. when he feels more secure, he will talk but in his own time. consistency and loyalty is what taurus seeks.

taurus guys usually make great friends and lovers because they are known to be loyal,honest and great listeners but they are bulls after all. so yes they tend to stick with their mindset, love their freedom and they want to know as much as they can about you before they commit. if you are thinking of dating again, then bring up the subject and ask him what he thinks, he loves to give his opinion I bet. and don't be surprised if he happens to say the guy you would like to date sounds a lot like him, lol. that would be his opening to ask you out or to let you do the asking. also a taurus trait, lol. cancer is also insecure but don't let it get the best of you. if he has been consistent, he wants you to know he will stick around and get to know you better and will likely be a friend no matter what.

mizz.virgo88

9/15/2011 3:18:37 AM | IP

24 years old female from NYC

My brother is a taurus as well and he's use to girls asking him out first and he don't mind it ..he told me he scared of rejection so he never asks...i would be mad if I waste my time and he never asks me out..I'm thinking if I ask at least I know where I stand with him and if he says he not ready I would just not focus on him like that I will talk to other people ..right now he's the only guy I talk 2

mizz.virgo88

9/15/2011 3:07:02 AM | IP

24 years old female from NYC

Sorry for the typos

mizz.virgo88

9/15/2011 3:04:45 AM | IP

24 years old female from NYC

Thanks dreamy eyes.. I haven't said anything to him about it..I just don't know anymore its like he scared to open up and tell me how he feel..we talk everyday but the 3 days he cuts the convo short..I know I'm not the only girl he talks 2 I just don't want the next girl to step to step up to the plate and ask him and I lose my chance with him.. don't know what to do at this point..sometimes I feel like he's testing me lol ..so confused ughhh

DreamyEyes

9/14/2011 6:54:50 PM | IP

34 years old female

My Birth Chart Sun:

Hey MissVirgo! Let him ask. If you ask him first or mention anything referring to a relationship he might make a complete U turn on you whether he likes you or not. It's my first time dealing with Taurus men too. From what I've seen they will sit on a fence for a very, very, very long time when choosing someone to date. I spilled the beans about being interested in a Taurus guy and he pulled away from me; even tho I knew he liked me. So just let it happen on it's own. When a man is ready for a relationship he will make it known to you. That's something you don't have to ask.

mizz.virgo88

9/12/2011 7:41:28 PM | IP

24 years old female from NYC

Thanks @nzaqua I will definitely take your advice..we always have a good time. I just hope he can see us together

NZAqua

9/12/2011 5:21:27 PM | IP

39 years old female from New Zealand

Ask him what it is he's looking for and what he feels he can contribute in terms of a relationship. After three months you're both clearly enjoying each other's company so there's a strong chance it could develop into something smiley-happy.

Go from there when you have your answer.

mizz.virgo88

9/12/2011 3:03:53 PM | IP

24 years old female from NYC

MY CHART

Sun Virgo
Moon Cancer
Mercury Libra
Venus Cancer
Mars Aries
Jupiter Gemini
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Virgo
Ascnod Pisces

HIS CHART

Sun Taurus
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Taurus
Venus Taurus
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Gemini
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Libra
Ascnode Pisces

mizz.virgo88

9/12/2011 2:57:43 PM | IP

24 years old female from NYC

ok i been single for 10 months now..last relationship was with a libra he broke my heart so i broke up with him blah blah blah...now im really feeling this taurus guy we been talking for 3 months now havent slept with him but i want something more like a relationship we get along great..im not sure if i should make the first move and ask him or should i just wait for him to ask..i know he's feeling me he might be scared of rejection just as much as i am..*sigh* i dont know what to do at this point..anybody know whats the best move i should make? i need some much needed advice

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