What Taurus male thinks of Scorpio females

TaurusLovesScorpio
AreTwoFour wrote: "Many scorps are celibate until we find that strange, mystical vibe that forms a connection/attraction with someone. When that happens, we want to see where that goes. Shallow unmeaningful sex is disappointing for scorps, and we may have a promiscuous phase in our youth (or not) and learn that, thus the celibacy until we can find it with someone who can transcend the mere physical experience. That is more important that the performance, the position, the duration, or any kinkiness (which is not necessary) or any mechanical aspect of the sex act itself. If I am feeling that connection and wanting that person oh so bad, that I am burning for them night after night, and I can tell they want me the same way, boy oh boy, when it finally happens!.. But then I can almost feel their inner consciousness, their intentions, fears, anger, love, thoughts and their primal hidden animal side, and that is what I want from sex. A connection. Its how I get to know the person, really know them. If I don't feel any of that, its just a physical experience. Meh, I could have just done it myself in the shower or something..."

>>>>I just wanted to acknowledge this as one of the greatest things I've ever read. If that is not just idealistic, but *actually* true, that's spread i n g amazing.

TLS
AreTwoFour
Posted by IntriguedScorp
BTW. Listen to AreTwo. She's saying it ALL
xoxo
AreTwoFour
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Closing thoughts...

I think this one has pretty much fizzled out for her....which is heartbreaking really, but probably for the best given circumstances. Yesterday I boosted her ego as I said, gave her the sexy looks, and today she is super confident and didn't really even glance my way much at all. Ouch. Its become a game of dominance, without any real trust, and she's gonna take that confidence and run with it. Its probably good that we didn't have that convo; I'm sure attraction would've just increased and put us in a worse spot. I'm honestly going to try to let this one go and not even look her way anymore. It'll be hard, I ordered a scorpion paperweight and I'm going to put it on my desk and stare at it every time I think about looking at her...lol. Sorry, symbolic s h i t like that helps me to adjust my compulsive behaviors.

Strangest thing happened??_.Had a kind of Jungian synchronicity occur when driving home today. A female friend of mine makes me listen to her girly music and I was playing the xx album she is pushing on me ("coexist"). There's a song on there I was listening to where the lyrics really described how things have went in this stare affair ??? how things had kinda gotten hopeless. As I was listening, a car cut in front of me with a giant scorpion bumper sticker (no words). I??m going to take that as a sign??_I??ve never seen a scorpion on a bumper sticker before.


I didn't know she was in a relationship. That puts a different spin on it altogether. She might be wildly attracted, flirt mentally/nonverbally, fantasize, but I doubt she will actually cheat on her S/O. Unless he is cheating on her. You wouldn't want to be a revenge treetrunk anyway. She may want to explore a friendship of establish a rapport with you anyway... for now. But she may be trying to block you because who knows or not whether she is thinking obsessively about you but is trying to refocus on her current relationship. I have done this

"Jungian syncronicity" happens when there are connections like that. Too weird to describe. Not every relationship has that. I had it with my 1st love (fellow scorp) a cancer ex, aries ex, the leo ex. Others I've felt this, but nothing ever happened so I don't know their signs. And usually it didn't happen because I was in a relationship, or I knew the guy was, so I blocked it the best I could. Just weird as he
TaurusLovesScorpio
I can see the rapport thing. As of this morning, I dont' feel blocked. 87scorp's comment was prophetic. I went in today; ignored her on two passings. Then I went into the cafeteria. She was in there, in line for an omelette. I went to get my usual oatmeal about 20 feet away from her. She looks over, sees me, and walks over to get oatmeal. Standing there 4 feet across from me - both of us facing each other. LOL, she changed her breakfast choice to creep over! I didn't look at her at all (as I'm in ignore mode). Now she's back to constant staring at every pass. I am *so* confused.

I bounce my eyes off her real quick and every time she's looking. She did this other move - I wonder if this also is in the Scorpio bag of tricks. I'm no longer staring, buuuuuut, she has a really nice figure and when she was walking away (hips swinging), I did soak it in. She INSTANTLY whipped her head back 180 degrees, and looks right in my eyes. TOTALLY caught me. She is a ninja; it was SO FAST - faster than I could move my eyeballs....Do Scorpios test people that hard? I could only laugh after getting busted like that. I've never seen a woman do such a thing.

How does this all end? And how serious is the Scorpio obsession? Is it something they can turn off? Its only mentioned in passing on the sites and in the books I've read. Can I get some details on this?
TaurusLovesScorpio
I honestly would do this if she did not have a man. I just know if we go down that road and she has a man (maybe even kids), I could do some major damage to her relationship/family. I started a friendship thing with my best friend's Leo wife. It was after my divorce a few years ago and I was in a bad spot. She helped em out alot, but then started to like me and really tried to escalate things, culminating in her actually grabbing my crotch one day. I shut it down completely, but the whole situation got really messy, and really hurt their family. I take alot of the blame for entertaining what I knew was an emotional kind of intimacy that she should have only had with him. I've never been able to maintain a simple "friendship" with a woman ever; it always seems to heat up....
MeowScorpii
Can I just say, thank you so much for posting this. I can't ever tell you how happy that made me feel..to see the relationship from a male's perspective. I'm a Scorpio female and I've been with my Taurus boyfriend for nearly two years now. It's by FAR in my opinion, one of the best astrological matches. We never fight, as popular astrology websites warn- because we can find absolutely nothing to fight about. Scorpio's get a reputation for being controlling women that pack a powerful sting -all the time-. And let me tell you, I am living proof that in our breed runs a streak of sweetness and compromise. Don't ever be afraid of this Scorpio that you've fallen for because if she were to truly fall in love and care about you she wouldn't be dangerous. She wouldn't hurt you, if she was angry she would express it to you in the gentlest of ways- just for the fear that the tone of her voice may slightly hurt your feelings.
Those sad eyes you were talking about aren't always so sad, it comes from a deep rooted passion that simmers inside of us. Sometimes it may swallow us whole and depress us, and other times it blossoms and we create things of beauty- and all those close to us flourish with along with our out pour of passion. Anyways, I agree that you should keep your element of mystery- mystery is sexy to us. Eye contact is really attractive as well, fearlessness is riveting- but vulnerability is so real. I hope all goes well for the two of you, you would both end up very happy .
Tommycat
Some of the most beautiful, most talented and warmest women I have known have been Scorpios. I wish you and your bf the very best of luck, love and joy.
Scorpio72
Please read and advise on my new posting about Taurus men being confusing. One thing that really stuck out there for me with this posting is the comment about the eyes! My Taurus told me that he was drawn to me the first time he saw me by my eyes! He said "It was your eyes"! I was like what?? Never have been told that before! hahaha
Scorpio72
Do you think it's because both Taurus and Scorpios use the eyes to possess each other? We Scorpios look into another's eyes to see and capture their souls. I've Taurus's do the same thing. Is that right?
Scorpio72
Are you a Taurus or Scorpio? I totally agree with you! I was taught a long time ago that if someone can not look you in the eye when talking to you, that they are hiding or lying about something.

Can you take a look at my posting and tell me what you think? It's the one about him being confusing. Thanks
TaurusLovesScorpio
87Scorpio: Lol! I can only speak for myself, but the only way for me to get rid of an obsession is to 1. realise I don't want it anymore or 2. find something bigger and better to chase after.

>>>I think I'm going to have to do these things to get rid of *my* obsession with this girl. Today was another rough day; I didn't realize how emotionally entangled I was. I swear every powerful handsome dude was orbitting around this girl today and she just kept looking over at me. I actually felt jealousy over a woman I haven't not even formally met. She was super extroverted today laughing it up and flirting, and all directly in front of me. Very awkward. I was silly enough to think this would be easy - I could just stop looking. My eyes keep going back to her's like a magnet though. Its not a free will thing; its a force of nature thing.

TaurusLovesScorpio
MeowScorpii: I can't ever tell you how happy that made me feel..to see the relationship from a male's perspective. I'm a Scorpio female and I've been with my Taurus boyfriend for nearly two years now. It's by FAR in my opinion, one of the best astrological matches.

>>>If only I'd known sooner!


MeowScorpii: Scorpio's get a reputation for being controlling women that pack a powerful sting -all the time-. And let me tell you, I am living proof that in our breed runs a streak of sweetness and compromise.


>>>Sorry to keep referring to your angelic appearance but you look like the sweetest person on the planet. Have you ever used that stinger? I picture blue birds and doves fluttering out of your closet with your clothing in the morning, and butterflies doing your makeup while you rest your feet on the backs of baby white rabbits from the forest.


MeowScorpii: Don't ever be afraid of this Scorpio that you've fallen for because if she were to truly fall in love and care about you she wouldn't be dangerous. She wouldn't hurt you, if she was angry she would express it to you in the gentlest of ways- just for the fear that the tone of her voice may slightly hurt your feelings.

>>>You know, that's the thing. Deep down, I know this girl is SO sweet. I can see the frosted side of her miniwheats. My dad (a scorpio) was a pretty intimidating man to alot of people, but to those he loved he was the most sensitive, gentle, kind/forgiving person.


MeowScorpii: Sometimes it may swallow us whole and depress us, and other times it blossoms and we create things of beauty- and all those close to us flourish with along with our out pour of passion.

>>>Its funny - when this girl is in a good mood, people swarm around her and are like elated to be conversing with her. Too bad they are all hot guys! Hahahahaha....


MeowScorpii: Anyways, I agree that you should keep your element of mystery- mystery is sexy to us. Eye contact is really attractive as well, fearlessness is riveting- but vulnerability is so real. I hope all goes well for the two of you, you would both end up very happy

>>>Thx a ton for chiming in. I only wish I had that instant confidence I could call upon. I'm confident bordering on arrogance (I know - bad), *but* my confidence tends to build in a relationship slowly over time. I think its my Leo Moon only really kicking in after I feel the trust is there. Pretty shy at first and I take it Scorpio women don't respect this.
Scorpio72
Meow is on point with what she said about us Scorpios! We do NOT want to hurt the ones we admire and love! We will walk through fire for the ones we love so that they don't have to suffer any pain and suffering! You do not know the amount of sleep I've lost and meals I've went without so that I could take care of exbf's so that they wouldn't be "inconvenienced". Look how that turned out but I can at least lay my head down every night knowing that I gave my all.
MeowScorpii

@TaurusLovesScorpio

--"Sorry to keep referring to your angelic appearance but you look like the sweetest person on the planet. Have you ever used that stinger? "

I think my looks actually are more attributes of my Chinese sign I believe (which is Pig). But the answer is yes, I used to use my stinger far too often a loooong time ago when I was not wise enough to know otherwise. However, that's not me anymore. Venom is deadlier when used with discretion. I find it more beneficial to everyone around me, and I save a lot of my energy if I'm nearly always kind- even to people who are rude to me. The animal loving- snow white, forest thing isn't too far off- it literally makes me cry when I have to crush a spider because I feel so mean .


" Pretty shy at first and I take it Scorpio women don't respect this."

Actually some do- as long as you're not so shy that it's hard to strike a real conversation. SUBTLE confidence is attractive. Personally, small talk really bores me. We like conversations about topics that have some substance. That's funny that you say you're shy at first, my Taurus was very shy when he first met me. He was also quite sweet, and was able to carry on witty conversation which I like. After you Taur folk open up, I swear you're the most hilarious and goofy people on the planet.

"You know, that's the thing. Deep down, I know this girl is SO sweet. I can see the frosted side of her miniwheats. My dad (a scorpio) was a pretty intimidating man to alot of people, but to those he loved he was the most sensitive, gentle, kind/forgiving person."

Aww, so you can see the true Scorp soul. I really love that about my sign- when we truly love another person we have the ability to be selfless. When a Scorpio woman loves you she will do sweet things and good deeds for you without any expectation of reciprocation, reward, or even a thank you.
TaurusLovesScorpio
Meow - great stuff. You seem highly *evolved*. What you said about the shyness was definitely helpful. This girl is VERY attractive; one of the most beautiful women I've seen. That's definitely what makes me shy/nervous. Her beauty just has that much power over me.
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