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saweetz1988
5/10/2013 4:46:06 AM | IP


This thread is very interesting ! ok i'll try to make it quick ! Taurusbull 1977 has said it VERY WELL !

PROS:

sex IS AMAZING ! he knows how to work u in bed
He reads me like no other
He's persistence
He's consistence
He likes the chase !
We are very compatible so we hardly fight ever except for his commitment phobia

Cons:

SLOW
Indecisiveness
Commitment issues
Perfectionist

He's my ex of 2.5 years. Best relationship ever the only thing is he's got a bit of commitment phobia so there was never US ..it was usually about him...so it was a matual break up and i put my foot down and walked away. He's still chasing me.. even though he still can't make up his mind whether he wants 2 marry me or not ! weighing up my pros and cons i think.
he went out of his way to make me feel special on my birthday 2 days ago ! made me feel very special !! i know I got him ...he's just...slow... he keeps telling me i'm the most amazing person... they like you if u r

FUN ..Makes him laugh ..Loyal...Warm..Sweet...Care for others.. and..naughty in bed doesn't make him bored.







ChynaBull
5/9/2013 5:33:02 PM | IP

31 years old female

I'm a fun-loving, free-spirited, down-to

I'm new here, but I would say that I have mixed feelings about Virguys... I think a lot of stuff depends on their age or how emotionally mature they are. My father is a Virgo and he's the greatest man that I know. He works hard every day (and he's 64) he loves my mother a Pisces his crazy opposite, and he's amazingly enciteful and expressive when he's with me, and gives the best advice. However, my younger friends and ex (around the age of 25-30) were emotional hot messes. They were dark in a way that was humorous, always wanting to exact revenge for a perceived wrong but never doing it. They had anger issues, and were manipulative in a way that made them seem innocent, and they could justify just about anything. The logic of a Virgo, I have learned, is based on the theory of The Ends Must Justify the Means, which we all know not to be true in all circumstances. I do believe that Virgos have everything incorporated in their sign to be the best in this world, but they just need to grow into their sign, learn how to relax without just crashing, and for goodness sakes stop worrying about being Perfect. If a Taurus can teach a Virgo anything it's to just play sometimes.
everevolvingepithet
5/9/2013 3:47:25 AM | IP
everevolvingepithet

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lostinspace
3/13/2013 1:15:19 AM | IP

23 years old female from Canada  

nov 4

Posted by TaurusBadGirl
To my Bulletts, how was your experience with the Virguy? What were some of the things that turned you off about them? What did you love most about them? What is the reason you are not with them today? And finally can you describe his worst and best traits?

Thank you in advance


I'm not a Taurus but I can tell you that when I dated a Virgo man, they were absolutely in love with how they looked, how they looked to others was a BIG deal. Waaay to egotistical for me. He had to make it very clear he was the most mature one. Kinda selfish (He would take for himself before offering to another) Worried sooo much about financial matters, and never organized with it.
virg_goki
3/6/2013 1:33:29 AM | IP
virg_goki

24 years old male

A man with a love for tattoos

sad to say, as a virgo I find myself actually agreeing with this topic. I do not think virgoXtaurus, namely Vmen and Taugirls a good match. the most I can say is that it's vanilla or good only when either wants to rape the other.

Maybe a relationship might progress from a 'rape' case. meh
PetiteVeau
3/3/2013 9:55:46 AM | IP
PetiteVeau



Taurus Sun Scorpio Moon Sagittarius

Never been involved with or wooed by a Virgo, also haven't had a great Virgo female friend either.

One of the women I work with is a Virgo, and someone she knew once came and in and said to her "well, you're good at everything you do" and she didn't deny it, just smiled.

Hahaha, I'm just the total opposite of that.
ShesALibra2
2/24/2013 9:11:50 AM | IP

female

I'm divorcing a Virgo as we speak. 16 years of "me first" selfishness is enuff for me. Lie when the truth is better...in fact..he'd come home and tell me some lie about losing his job, watch me freak out, then casually say...naw,I didnt. and that's not the only thing...I began to realize he would choose what lie to come clean about and what lies not too. Got so sick of never believing him.

The biggest exagerater I've ever known.If it cost $100, he said $200. Obnoxious...even his friends told me he was too damn obnoxious. Rude and proud of it. Manipulative...told me how manipulative his young daughter was toward his ex wife (not her mom) and he was proud of it. His family were the BEST, my family was the LOWEST. Even told his daughter and her friend that I was from the wrong side of the tracks. So many hurtful comments and insults to me and to my kids that I endured for the sake of "having a home life for my kids".

But, then...the oh woe is me routine, pity party from hell if he thought I wasn't agreeing to everything he liked or wanted. I worked right along beside him to make his dreams come true...boy toys...Les Paul Gibson guitar he never learned to play but had to have. Two brand new motorcycles....last one a 105th edition Harley. Never any money for the things I wanted...all I ever wanted was to put some remodeling into the house we bought (his family home btw) but we never had money for that. So selfish!

Drug addict for many years..the bad stuff. I helped him thru that but I couldnt help his additude about so many other things. I left him a few months back....don't you know I tore his heart out and fed it to the dogs...so he says. I haven't cried yet...but then again...I cried for the last 10 years of our marriage...
Stinger Baby
2/11/2013 3:23:42 AM | IP
Stinger Baby

28 years old female

oh damn, im not a bull-et. but i just feel like answering.

the virgo guy i dated should have just remained a friend. better companion than partner. what turned me off was that he had no get up and go. he was too critical of others, but couldnt solve his problems when his own life was falling apart. he was a downer - everyone else would try to have a good time but he'd sit there and mope. he was very rude at times too. when he didnt get his way, he'd pout, talk butter or storm off. didnt really keep his promises. and he never put much care in others as he did himself. when he wanted something or had a problem, it was the end of the world. but if anyone else was going through something, he was aloof. very self absorbed when it came to personal and social factors.

the only thing i liked about him was his gentle nature. he was quiet and when he felt like it, he showed he was capable of going out of his way for others. he was capable of being very kind and humble. when he came out of his shell and had fun, he was alright to be around. but then he'd go right back to criticizing everything. if you're a foreigner in another land, and arent accustomed to the ways of the people, what makes you think it's right to criticize? i mean, LEARN first before you open your mouth and look a fool.

the reason i'm not with virgo today is because i got tired of the drama, and i felt he was really wasnt concerned about me but what i could do for him. and he was wishy washy -first he knows everything and goes around telling folks what he think is better for everyone. the next second, he's worrying everyone about his problems he cant solve and acting like people OWE him help or are entitled to solve his problems that he got himself into. he got mad because i would not marry him so he could stay in the country. marriage is serious, not a quick fix. i refused and he got mad and went away. let him find what he wants, just not from me.

best traits - if it was genuine, his kindness.
worst traits - contradictions of self, rudeness, childishness, dim witted

now i am with taurus and.... we'll just see how this goes....


TaurusBull1977
1/28/2013 12:55:26 PM | IP

female

Posted by TaurusBadGirl
"The ones Ive dealt with have always been the type that want you to go really hard to express your feelings while they play it extremely safe."


Omg this is so true..even though my Virgo does express his feelings alot with me but they do expect more than what they are willing to give...


+3

This is VERY true!
TaurusBull1977
1/28/2013 12:10:51 PM | IP

female

Excuse the typos one= won
TaurusBull1977
1/28/2013 12:07:23 PM | IP

female

My experience with Virgos....

I made a quick description to my sister about Virgo men.

It's like having someone wrap a warm blanket around you while handing you a hot cup of cocoa.

The ability to make me feel safe without feeling threatened.

I can spot a Virgo, instantly.
Whenever I feel this way, I ask...while already knowing anyway.

They're very honest and direct about everything but their emotions.
They can be quite shy, reserved, observant, self-critical and notorious for putting on poker faces.
sex and chemistry is addictive.
Whew!
They are methodical.
Very Methodical.
If he won you over.
He was planning to win you over.
But once he's one you over....
He will give himself a mental headache pointing out all your imperfections...
Instead of highlighting your positive attributes.
Very sensual.
Playful.
Boyish, innocent charm which makes us Bullettes melt.
Yes, every time!

However, the ending is never written between these two signs.

When I see my Virgo ex...I see potential corruption, those boyish innocent eyes...I have this urge to pull him into a nearby back alley, have my way with him, and show him who's boss.

Stop your nitpicking....

Over-analyzing...

Drop the pants.

And shut it up!
fingirl31
1/28/2013 11:37:04 AM | IP

My experience with Virgos has been mixed. One of my best female friends is a Virgo and she is awesome. I love working with Virgos as well - amazing eye for detail and work ethic, if a little bit literal (even for a straight forward Taurus' tastes). I had a romantic relationship with a male Virgo for 5 or 6 years. I thought I was going to marry him but in hindsight i really dodged a bullet on that one. He was unaffectionate, highly critical of my body and lifestyle, expected me to divulge all of my secrets while holding onto his own, and was also very distrustful. The sex was good though and the conversation was fantastic. He was highly intelligent and we could talk for hours about everything under the sun - current events, politics, novels, spirituality. But, I craved the affection and cuddles and kisses and no matter how many times I told him I needed that to be happy, he was highly uncomfortable with physical affection outside of sex. Plus gaining 10 pounds was like the worst sin imaginable to him. I'm not talking about a wholly transformed body here. I was focused on progressing my career and worked really long hours so there wasn't as much time for gym. I loved him though and I'm not sure whether I would ever try to make it work with a Virgo guy again because I think there are some fundamental incompatibilities between us, even though Taurus' and Virgos are supposed to be a match made in heaven. Plus my happy go lucky and carefree Sagittarius moon really irked him. He thought I was irresponsible and sure let me know it! In the end I was unhappy with him trying to "fix" me all the time - it made me feel unworthy in some way and insecure.
everevolvingepithet
1/28/2013 8:36:23 AM | IP
everevolvingepithet

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Mothertreetrunker Jones!
everevolvingepithet
12/24/2012 7:05:09 AM | IP
everevolvingepithet

113 years old from Monkey Fonics,Facilitator,Smart Arse  

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They're either really aight (more so without the stick in their ass) or really not lol.
minata
11/30/2012 11:15:52 AM | IP

female

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