When a Taurus ignores you.

idk
Posted by TaurusMarine
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@TaurusMarine- Where are you stationed? God Bless you my dear, takes bravery and courage. . If you ever need to talk I am here.

Yeah it's hard being friends with people who have hurt you. You have to look at the pros and cons? Sometimes we think we change change alittle bit for the right one. You often know right away if that's a person you want to get to know more, so become less stubborn, selfish, and open minded..

Norfolk, VA. Thank you! I appreciate that. Actually soon on holidays.
I usually fail in relationships. People tend never meet my expectations. I can mistake infatuation for love or sth .. The feeling can be true but what they're based on - not necessarily.
So I ask myself, 'Is this relationship leading me in the direction where I want to go?" If not, I don't believe in people can change.
Of course, being less stubborn helps but the others also have to meet halfway. If they expect that only from you, then excuse me, that'd lead me ...but not where I wanna go.


holy cow... you're a marine? i always thought the marines have a reputation that would be way too tough for me....
i don't know what i'd do without my pre-workday and lunch naps

anyway, i've been told i seem to ignore everyone (and everything). it's usually not personal, just a lot of things going on at the moment.
i don't think i ever really hesitate to let people know if there are problems they should be concerned about. it sounds high and mighty, but if i feel like i need to reflect on a situation (the one in question or even something irrelevant) i'll simply do just that.
taurus isn't known to typically just do things all helter skelter-like. i'm pretty sure i have a pretty damn nutty image, but even through the nuttiness i'd like to think there's some foundation and/or logic to my actions and behavior. sometimes it just takes some time and serious thought to build that foundation.
butter, i gotta go hide from someone... they keep complaining i'm ignoring them or some butter
tcta
well, let me tell you - I am an older female taurus and have had plenty of lexperiences with men in my life - just dropping someone like a bucket of turds becuase something happened that just turned me completely OFF ... now listen - most of that happened when I was much younger and as I aged and got wiser i learned better how not to be so shallow - I would at least be upfront and tell them why/what was going on ... not sure that is the same with the male taurus but I agree with the other taurans here on the board - we don't handle conflict, we just stop - drop and then roll ... in all fairness to us we just don't give a dam - we know when it's over and so why would we need to talk about it - I mean what is the point becuase there is definitly no talking us back into something when we have our minds set. hard to understand for some but we get it and we are surely good with that lol !

to ctom01 - if your girl retreats a bit once in while when there is nothing wrong with the relationship - then just let her be and find something else to do - let her know that you are there to take her out when she's ready - we love that because it means that it's ok to be this natural woman who just needs a break once in awhile and means nothing by it - just a break to regroup, rest, rejuvenate ... she will return more beautiful than before ! we rock !!!
M143
hahaha. When a taurus ignores you- yes, you pissed him/her off. Just like my ex taur. I told him I cannot be his lover because I have someone special. He rage..and I like it when he is mad..because he is stubborn and I want to inject the dosage he needs. lol.
TaurusMarine
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@TaurusMarine- Where are you stationed? God Bless you my dear, takes bravery and courage. . If you ever need to talk I am here.

Yeah it's hard being friends with people who have hurt you. You have to look at the pros and cons? Sometimes we think we change change alittle bit for the right one. You often know right away if that's a person you want to get to know more, so become less stubborn, selfish, and open minded..

Norfolk, VA. Thank you! I appreciate that. Actually soon on holidays.
I usually fail in relationships. People tend never meet my expectations. I can mistake infatuation for love or sth .. The feeling can be true but what they're based on - not necessarily.
So I ask myself, 'Is this relationship leading me in the direction where I want to go?" If not, I don't believe in people can change.
Of course, being less stubborn helps but the others also have to meet halfway. If they expect that only from you, then excuse me, that'd lead me ...but not where I wanna go.
FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@TaurusMarine- Where are you stationed? God Bless you my dear, takes bravery and courage. . If you ever need to talk I am here.

Yeah it's hard being friends with people who have hurt you. You have to look at the pros and cons? Sometimes we think we change change alittle bit for the right one. You often know right away if that's a person you want to get to know more, so become less stubborn, selfish, and open minded..
TaurusMarine
P.S. I couldn't stay friends with any of the people who hurt me in some way.
TaurusMarine
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@TaurusMarine- I just looked at your screen name that that's great. Thanks for sharing...Thanks are you still active?

What do you like the most and least about the branch you have?

Yeah I've noticed certain things about talking to a bull too..IT makes me want to change my self to be less stubborn and less selfish.. in a realistic way.


I understand when you say we ignore cause we are cowards, but I ignore because there is usually something on my mind and I have to do this myself and I need space and time. I have an air fixed moon so the more I think the more I detach.. it's helpful because 8 out of 10 times I am often detaching at the little things..and 9-10 will complete disappear if I like you and you do or say something that isn't right. I usually feel it as red flags.. I will friend zone automatically.

Still active, love it to pieces!
Yeah, I see where you're coming from...Yeah, when think i stay motionless. Especiallly when sb hurt me or said sth wrong. I WANT to justify that person but the deeds speak louder than words. That's why, for example, people who stop choosing me automatically seize to be right for me...even if I love them.

"IT makes me want to change my self to be less stubborn and less selfish"
You're a Bull as well, right? Why then?
FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@TaurusMarine- I just looked at your screen name that that's great. Thanks for sharing...Thanks are you still active?

What do you like the most and least about the branch you have?

Yeah I've noticed certain things about talking to a bull too..IT makes me want to change my self to be less stubborn and less selfish.. in a realistic way.


I understand when you say we ignore cause we are cowards, but I ignore because there is usually something on my mind and I have to do this myself and I need space and time. I have an air fixed moon so the more I think the more I detach.. it's helpful because 8 out of 10 times I am often detaching at the little things..and 9-10 will complete disappear if I like you and you do or say something that isn't right. I usually feel it as red flags.. I will friend zone automatically.
TaurusMarine
@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428, it was like 6 y/ago. He was 3 years my junior, wasn't mature yet I guess. Besides, he understood he had nothing to keep me. So I don't blame him.
Nice at the beginning? Hm.... it had passed 2 years before he asked me out. but then it went well. However, I never trusted him.

When I ditched another guy in the same way I understood that Taurus guy that did the same to me.
When we ignore it means we have finally decided the person isn't right for us....but sometimes we're coward to speak it up to face.
TaurusMarine
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@TaurusMarine- are you in the military service? Which branch?

& a Taurus and Taurus is nice in the beginning huh? So what happened with you both?

Marine Corps of course. Why?
FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@TaurusMarine- are you in the military service? Which branch?

& a Taurus and Taurus is nice in the beginning huh? So what happened with you both?
FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- Just give it some independent time and wait a little while and see if there are changes. If no changes then you might let go of him..
FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- It's not that we love to ignore you, it's just we do get caught up in my own mind and always bettering ourselves..

SO lets say you communicate to your lover. Hey I would really like to hear from you more often? Is there any reason why you've been distant? Then listen, and then make a compromise usually there is something to work on both parties. So you ask him to open up more and then you ask is there something I can do to help oneself. Or this situation and fix it. So after talking just go do your own thing and let him think too..
TaurusMarine
I'm a Taurus and I did so to break up with my boyfriend.
The Taurus guy I was seing did so to break up with me.
OverAnalyticBullhead
Sadly, I dont know the reason why i ignore ppl...

I think i just want to get through my daily routine perfectly and having a small convo with ppl around just isnt in my list of routines. And that's just me... just me... kk? i dont know about others but i just happen to do that. weird ryt? and i seems that im alright fine and dandy with it.... i dont know it... its confusing O_O
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