Why Do Taurus Men Leave.....Then Come Back?

female •
I've had the same thing from a friend who is not a Taurus so maybe its just a guy thing. He likes you and wants you as a friend but he is also attracted to you. He doesn't want a relationship with you though (for whatever reasons) and has trouble with the conflicting feelings so runs away... he is drawn back by the friendship, feels the attraction, and the whole cycle is repeated. Just let it ride, either something will come out of it or you will both meet other people and stay friends.
female •
Man, I sure am glad that someone realizes that if it is a good love, distance will disolve, because togetherness is important for Taurus...especially in Love. It is hard for a Taurus to tell one who loves him or her that the friendship is there, but something is lacking in the love arena. And it is also difficult for Taurus to love another, and find that is only "just friends" from the object of his love. If this continues to be a six pack of canned worms...just do both of you a favor and find better love partners....Life is just too short.
It is humorous that this page has become a battlefield....a battlefield of love??? not hardly...so yall just cool it...

female •
Taurus Male:

I agree with you to some point, however, I cannot agree on the give and give. That is not appropriate. If one person is to give constantly in a relationship, or friendship for that matter, it can become strained. That person giving all the time will start to think they are being taken advantage of, and over time, you'll loose someone special because it becomes way too much effort on the other person giving, not to mention exhausting. You said it before, "A Taurus male may not know where he stands with you". Well the other person needs to know where they stand with you as well.

You cannot be the only one to know what the deal is. And you cannot be the only one in a relationship/friendship to receive all the attention. Now what are your thoughts on that? lol
female •
Yes, relationships are a two-way thing. If you have to manipulate and control the other person then there is something wrong with the picture and you will never move to that deeper level of mutual respect and understanding that we are all searching for. People are not put on this earth for us to use for our own gratification, we have to learn how to interact and communicate and we grow through the shared experience of this.
female •
Amen to that 203. Well said!
female •
If the guy is not giving "enough" then let him know what "enough" is, and if he does not practice what "enough" is in your view, then by all means get "enough" with someone else who realises what "enough" is.

Just my two cents worth, I guess...
female •
Thanks, good to get some positive feedback. These message boards often seem to turn into slagging matches.
female •
I must say "AMEN!" to this message board's comments. Both my sister and my ex-boyfriend are Tauruses and the BOTH leave the people they love then go back as if nothing had ever happened. My ex left me for another person, then came crawling back to me begging for forgiveness saying "he didn't know why he ever left". So we got back together then he left to go back to another one of his ex-girlfriend that he had left months earlier! My sister is also notorious for ditching someone than going right back to them months later. Why is this? Any comments from you Tauruses out there?
female •
Taurus Male here:

Kindof strange about the dumping and then going back. Some sort of emotional game playing or something. Don't think it is a standard thing with us. Whatever it is, it doesn't sound like true love working behind it...

Also, may I Please clarify this "give and give" thing I mentioned....I did not mean that you are to give and keep on giving, no no. What I was trying to convey is that if you are all giving to your partner and your partner is all giving to you....then you won't have to find yourself having to worry about receiving, because your partner will already be giving you what you need as you are to him/her. That is what I mean by a give - give relationship.

Let us face the fact that TRUE GIVING does not have a price tag on it. That is why it is truely rare in this world.

Taurus Male
female •
Well said Taurus Male -- about the giving. The only thing I can think of about some Taurus' leaving and coming back (when it involves an already established relationship) is that when they are experiencing difficulties in their lives, they need time alone to work things out and wish not to speak to anyone -- just kind of dissapear for awhile, but not intentionally. And I don't think they love the people in their lives any less because of it.

I have a very good Taurus female friend and one time she was experiencing job difficulties, I did not hear from her much. And right now, my Taurus male friend is having some personal difficulties and we haven't been in touch. I could be wrong but it's just a thought.

And in general, sometimes I will retreat if things are not going well for me, after all, I don't want to burden my friends -- or a new relationship perhaps -- with my problems until I work things out in my for myself.

Aries female
female •
Hey Aries Female,

Are you sure you're not a Taurus?!
female •
Yes, I'm sure I am Aries

female •
I say this because you seem to have so many characteristics of a Taurus. You and Taurus Male are great conversationalist.
female •
Thank you. That was very kind of you.

female •
I didn't read everything re: this topic but I will say - hey - has anyone ever thought that there is someone ELSE!!

Good lord - what is wrong with you people!? Taurus are quite the cheats - in a very subtle way.

Investigate it guys! and don't put too much of your energy into it all OK.

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