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Why won't he just admit he's mad?

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dimples1980
7/23/2012 1:24:43 PM | IP

arguments take them out of lala land and they change as a result, they revamp and rethink things cause the really hate to apologize. They will confront an issue if they know they haven't done anything wrong.
cancerlovestaurus
5/14/2012 1:55:21 AM | IP
cancerlovestaurus

female

Ignore him. Trust me.He probably knows he's wrong and knows that you know it and this is too head or him to take.
KittyKnitter
5/10/2012 7:17:17 PM | IP

maybe he doesn't want what you disagreed about to come between you but is unsure how to handle it. maybe he is strong in many ways but doesn't know quite how to meet you halfway and resolve it. women generally get closure by talking while men do not. give him some space. he might not be chatty but he is talking.

his feelings might be hurt and he won't say it. he won't let you see him hurt because he is vulnerable and afraid of being too vulnerable, he may strike out when hurt and ask questions later so if he seems unreasonable, there is a whole lot of emotion behind it. coldness is generally a sign of hurt not anger. if you have stood up to him but still want him in your life, he might not be sure what that means. he is probably more insecure than you think.

maybe he just wants you to let things go because they are less important to him or he just wants to move on from what is bugging him. he is in touch, he cares. he might still believe he is right but is having trouble with his thoughts and emotions being in conflict. that is ok, he can grow and he can learn. he will resolve things for him in his own way. trying to draw him out will lead to more arguments.

i think taurus might not realize how the things he says or does and how he does or says things impacts on the people around him. he might be overly blunt thinking he is honest when in fact he uses that sometimes as a shield the same way his coolness tries to put distance between you so he is not so easily hurt. also though he might say things to deliberately provoke you so that he can gain an upper hand or test your feelings for him. he likely doesn't want to be told what to think or how to act or feel or told what he thinks or feels. but he can be swayed by emotion.
if he says he isn't mad, then drop it. ok, men and women are different. if he wants space and time to think about something, he will talk about it when he is ready. you can revisit your issues or decide they are not important enough to keep you apart.

his coldness will pass. don't be disrespected. be calm and consistent. in time he will either talk about it if something is bothering him or he will resolve it and go back to his old self, tauruses can be moody. don't take it personally.

libra21
5/9/2012 11:09:29 PM | IP

Taurus and I have had 2 minor arguments within the past 2 weeks. He says he's not mad, but clearly he is. We usually speak everyday about 5 or 6 times a day now he's not calling at
all. We rarely argue so I'm not sure how to handle this one. He answers when I call but I definitely detect some coldness from him. How should I handle this?

 

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