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HeartSore By Virgo Women -how to get her back?

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zaai54321
7/11/2012 4:23:28 AM | IP

Hi,

I have been dating this virgo women for 3 years and we have been fighting everytime. But, we love each other completely. I know she loves me alot, and we were planning our future together. Recently i felt unimportant to her, and pressured her into a commitment. I said, i need to know if you will be with me unconditionally. At that point, we were not 100% right, for we were just getting over a previous breakup. I am a Sag, and i love her very deeply. She told me no to my question, and i broke it off. However, i have tried for 2 weeks non stop to make things right, but all she tells me is its not working. We fight too much. I told her i want to make us better, and improve our relationship, cause i love her very much. She tells me to leave her alone, and never ever contact her again. She constantly tells me that. I then told her, i respect her decision, and will not contact her ever again. Its been a week now, and she hasnt contacted me. Im broken by this, cause i know deep in my heart, that she is the one for me. Even though we fought before, and broke up 10000 times, i still fought for her all the time and we made up. But this time, my gut tells me that it is completely over, but i want to persue her and make things right again by changing our relationship completely so that we dont have to go through this again. I have told her i want to be with her, but she doesnt want to have anything to do with me anymore. What should i do? She is a TYPICAL Virgo. I have read many blogs, and she has ALL the traits of a Virgo. Please, anyone with advise.. i want her back
Qbone
7/11/2012 6:04:59 AM | IP
Qbone

52 years old male from Norway  

Planetary Positions

There is differences between being persuasive and being pushy make sure that you understand the concept and meaning of those words.

Its not about Virgo female, you creep the hell out of any woman on any zodiac sign if you are forcing your ideas and intentions, to me is kind of rape (emotional or psychological rape).

Virgos are slow burners and need time to adjust themselves, it could be a week it cold be years, you are fire sign and impatience as usual, if you think that you can’t wait, then do yourself a huge favour and move on to someone else.

My 2 cents.
virgogirl0824
7/11/2012 11:01:52 PM | IP

I think it was the point when you told her YOUR future plans to be with her. us, virgo's love to have a choice and she probably felt cornered. We always have our future plans set for us at OUR control. We are independent and love our freedom. maybe just give her some space. clingy is such a turn off.
wgamador2
7/12/2012 9:21:08 AM | IP
wgamador2

male

Sun 24°39' Virgo ---- 3rd Decan

My take is that you two have discussed your futures, which tells me you can check off the most important thing on her list for the future....Security.
Women want a man with a plan. Maybe your plan isnt worth the fighting. Im a virgo male and the one thing that is a MUST in my life is harmony. Disharmony in my relationships can cause real damage in teh long run.
Anyways dont pursue her, dont give in to the 'magic of love and all that crap. A girl told me once not to contact her again that it was over between us and guess what? I didnt listen and if i saw her today, id avoid her, i would corss the street. This is the same person i would have tooken a bullet for or i would have lived for. Today, instead of going up to her and giving her a huge hug and asking her how her mother is...i'd cross the street.
Do you want that in your future?

 

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