How do I hurt my Virgo man

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11/13/2009 4:48:07 AM | More
leogirl75

Hello people,
I have been very nice, kind, generous and have loved my virgo man more than 100%. And suddenly I all get from him is disregard and lack of love from a fight we had which he offended me. I expect him to apologise and be loving and we move on .Couples fight and they resolve their issues. Instead my virgo man is going about in the same house and not talking to me. We haven't talked to each other going to two months now. And I'm totally fed up with this behaviour. This is the tipping month, enough is enough.

I need to know how to hurt him for people's experience in this forum because he has hurt me so badly and I need to do something that will hurt him really bad. I've had enough from him.

Thank you.
11/13/2009 5:55:38 AM | More
Cajunspirit

25 years old male

Vide cor Meum... Vi et Animo

Posted by leogirl75


I need to know how to hurt him for people's experience in this forum because he has hurt me so badly and I need to do something that will hurt him really bad. I've had enough from him.

Thank you.


This is never a solution and it saddens me that you would come here looking for a way to do this...
11/13/2009 9:01:36 AM | More
VirgoM20

39 years old male

Vir-sun, Leo-ris, Sco-moo

If he hasn’t spoken to you for two months then I suspect you’ve already done something that has really hurt him, though you may not realise what. I was in a wonderfully harmonious 8.5 year relationship with a Leo women. If we had a fight we’d clear the air and make up very quickly, however I once went two weeks without speaking to her after she said something to me which I found deeply hurtful and I responded by telling her to F-off, the only time I’ve ever said that to her in all our years together, and she insisted that I didn’t speak to her until I was ready to apologise, so I didn’t speak to her. After two weeks I did apologise for what I said, but only after she had apologised for what she had said to me that prompted me to say it. You need to sit down and talk and get to the bottom of this. Trying to fight fire with fire will only lead to an even bigger fire.
11/13/2009 9:21:23 AM | More
lbk

Please don't go looking for a way to hurt your Virgo man... chances are he's hurting even more than you right now. I'm a leo myself, and I know all about the leo pride and how it can get in our way and impede the healthy development of a relationship. Listen, relationships take compromise; and what you need to realise is that even if you disapprove or feel hurt by what he said to you, you don't disapprove of him; however that's probably what he's feeling right now. Virgo's like honesty more than anything else, so if I was you I would ask to sit down with him and tell him like it is, but DO NOt BLAME HIM for anything. Take responsability for your own emotions, and use phrases such as : " I feel.." instead of " you hurt me because...". Also don't forget that Virgo's are unlikely to make the first move, so it's up to you to swallow your leo pride and make the first move.
11/13/2009 9:51:07 AM | More
Mars.In.Aries

31 years old female

I know that you are hurt, and that is why you are angry, but resorting to destructive behavior, such as intentially hurting someone, is never a good idea.

That butter will come right back to you three folds..... bad karma!!! If he is acting like a butt and sulking after an argument, then let him. If he can't be grown enough to discuss the issue at hand, then that's on him. Perhaps you should try to talk to him about it, but if you have had enough, then move on. That will teach him more of a lesson then you intentially seeking out to destroy him.
11/13/2009 9:57:03 AM | More
Qbone

53 years old male from Norway  

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How do I hurt my Virgo man

Simple, pretend that he never existed and act on it, Virgos are not angels and some of us are real jerks, show no mercy and move on.

11/13/2009 9:58:18 AM | More
cappysweetie



Guess what sign I am ... bet you can't g

Posted by leogirl75
Hello people,
I have been very nice, kind, generous and have loved my virgo man more than 100%. And suddenly I all get from him is disregard and lack of love from a fight we had which he offended me. I expect him to apologise and be loving and we move on .Couples fight and they resolve their issues. Instead my virgo man is going about in the same house and not talking to me. We haven't talked to each other going to two months now. And I'm totally fed up with this behaviour. This is the tipping month, enough is enough.

I need to know how to hurt him for people's experience in this forum because he has hurt me so badly and I need to do something that will hurt him really bad. I've had enough from him.

Thank you.


hmmm ... I'm sorry. Well, you came here for advice on how to hurt him, but I don't think thats the right solution.

However, I will tell you one thing that will get to him when nothing else would: cut off all communication with him. If he needs something from you, pretend he's not even there. Act the same way towards him as he's acting towards you.

Maybe then with all the tension, he'll move out and he'll be out of your face -- then you won't have to worry about physically hurting because that can land you in jail, and I'm sure you don't want that ... at least I don't. Any woman who goes to jail over some dude is a sad woman indeed, and you don't seem like a sad woman, you are just hurt.

Try hurting his pride by acting the same way, and that will force him to re-think his own actions or he could still act the same way who knows -- you could always threaten him by moving out too; he's a virgo, he would hate having all the over-head on him.

So yeah, try what I suggested above but please don't physical hurt the man ... at least not while you two live underneath the same roof, thats just asking for trouble and you've had enough of his crap I'm sure; don't create anymore.
11/13/2009 10:54:58 AM | More
leogirl75

Hey guys,
Thanks for all your comments. However, in my message I didn't mean physical hurting. I can never do that. What I meant was what I could do to hurt him emotionally just as he's doing to me. But I've teared out and now I have courage and strength within me. The sad truth is that what happened is a simple matter of him apologising and it's over. Rather, what I see is someone behaving as if he has a deep grudge which he has never called me to discuss. When we argue, I'm always the one calling him so that we could discuss our issues and then we'll make up. When I offend him, I call him on phone and text him that am sorry..no pride whatsover. Each time we argue..he takes 1 or 2months before we talk. And I'm always the one calling for us to discuss. I am totally fed up with this behaviour. This time around I told him enough is enough, whatever he wants to come out of this..fine. He has depended on me so much financially(And I have supported him a great deal and encouraged him that it will be well) and I deeply regret doing all that for him.

Like one other poster said, the best thing is to relate to him as if he never exist. As if he's dead. Because he is dead in my heart.
11/13/2009 10:58:57 AM | More
leogirl75

Cappy sweetie,
Thank you for your kind comments. You are right. I need to give him a dose of his own drugs. Act exactly the same way towards him.
11/13/2009 11:05:26 AM | More
leogirl75

Qbone,
Thank you. Sometimes I tell him that he is very wicked acting this way. I asked him if I were a mere friend, would you act this way?

I agree with you about "Acting like he never existed and show no mercy". Infact sometimes I think he pretends. When he wants something from me, he'll behave like a angel and when I stopped giving him money when he asks, he behaves like the devil.
11/13/2009 11:16:21 AM | More
cappysweetie



Guess what sign I am ... bet you can't g

Posted by leogirl75
Cappy sweetie,
Thank you for your kind comments. You are right. I need to give him a dose of his own drugs. Act exactly the same way towards him.


Exactly

Just think about it, why would you want to go to jail over a guy? I can see you wanting to slap him, I think slapping the hell out of him is warrented based on how he's treated you, only because he'll get over a slap. Plus, you can always denied you slapped him

Now, inflicting serious harm ... you can't really deny anyone of that and if you try to you would need a good lawyer and they cost money and it would take time away from other things in your life, all over someone thats just one big jackass .... do you see my point? Its more trouble than what its worth ^_^.

Treat him like he's trying you, virgos hate getting a dose of their own stuff.

11/13/2009 11:21:11 AM | More
cappysweetie



Guess what sign I am ... bet you can't g

Posted by leogirl75
Qbone,
Thank you. Sometimes I tell him that he is very wicked acting this way. I asked him if I were a mere friend, would you act this way?

I agree with you about "Acting like he never existed and show no mercy". Infact sometimes I think he pretends. When he wants something from me, he'll behave like a angel and when I stopped giving him money when he asks, he behaves like the devil.



Holy hell! You give him money, and now he's acting like a jerk ... but you give him money? OMG, how ungrateful ...

You know this happened to a leo buddy of mine who was dating a virgo, after he changed on her she wanted to hurt him too, but I talked her out of it *wink*

However, honestly, I'm not sure what the whole situation really is, but I don't think its a good idea to give an adult man money when he behaves like a child -- he seriously pouts when he doesn't get what he wants from you? He shouldn't be getting money from you in the first place.

My goodness, you are a good one, I couldn't deal with that. I would have went silent on him before he went silent on you.
11/13/2009 12:00:11 PM | More
ninjamu

32 years old female

Ascendant: Aquarius Sun: Leo Moon

2 months? just leave. stop trying to look for revenge. ur making the rest of us leos look bad here. we don't need to get revenge because we know we deserve better.
11/13/2009 12:17:27 PM | More
Qbone

53 years old male from Norway  

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cappysweetie

Holy hell! You give him money, and now he's acting like a jerk ... but you give him money? OMG, how ungrateful ...

Since when money is more important than the personal feelings..? She did it out of her generosities and love not because of her weakness! Many people does and she is not alone with it.

If you want to help then concentrate on her issue not what she did!
11/13/2009 12:23:29 PM | More
Qbone

53 years old male from Norway  

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leogirl75

Like I said, the best way is to ignore him like he never existed. Do you know personally 6,7 billion people out there living in this planet? He is one of them.. that’s all!
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