Lying virgos

YourTeacher
Im a virgo myself and i really think lying is a really bad thing for me (im a virgo what can i say)
I never lie, im always thinking that if i lie.. i will get caught. I only lie when giving fake excuses
to not go somewhere with people.
applemint_fv
i will lie to not hurt u....but i w be completely honest and tell u t painful truth if i choose to
lovable_pisces
The virgo I was with never lied to me. He was always very upfront and real which is something I particularly like in men in general. I hate liars, that is a deal breaker for me.
Epictetus
"lie to protect" Perfect. As for things blowing up, yeah, I know what that's like.
Leila10
Thanks everyone for your input. It lets me understand a piece of you virgos.
zenalchemy
"The nature of a Virgo is to manipulate, stabilise and take control."

Why?


If you notice this, it is because they are mutable signs - I have noticed this - they can't directly attempt to take control, they don't want that kind of spotlight, they want you to think it's all you, then all of a sudden you have a problem they try to fix, then BAM - you're doing it the Virgo way...
rescueme
"lie to protect himself" exactly.
Cajunspirit
mister_eee has it pretty solid there.
mister_eee
a virgo will lie to protect, himself and those he cares for ... this is where the trouble with parteners comes because sometimes a virgo will think that he knows best and end up concealing info until it blows in their face and then they have to resort to intricate manipulation of facts in their favour or state that they did it because they cared, which is still true but a gamble nonetheless.
DyarStra?e

Leila10,

Some people lie to hurt others and/or advance their own agenda. Virgos tend not to do that. I've seen Virgs lie to avoid things - like arguments - and occasionally to hide one of their own mistakes. In fact, I've really had to reassure the young VirGuy who works for me that I'm not going to hold screw-ups against him. It's taken a couple of years, but now he gives it to me straight, even when he caused the problem...
P-Angel
I consider myself very lucky, Rescueme .. thank you
dogsbody
I dont lie, its just sometimes i just dont tell the whole truth
rescueme
"The nature of a Virgo is to manipulate, stabilise and take control."

I know two virguys both fit the above description perfectly. I think the difference is how they go about doing the above. My ex virguy was secretive which made the above malicious and hurtful, the other virguy does all of the above but openly admits to it it's how he is and he doesnt mind people knowing. Although i whole heartedly do not think the above are great characteristics I do respect virguy 2 for at least knowing who he is and being honest enough to put his hands up when caught out.

P-Angel your hubby sounds like a saint you are very lucky
Leila10
I've noticed that most opinions are that if a virgo lies...he/she does it with good intentions, usually having no negativity attached to it. Right?
Cajunspirit
I'm Mr. Honesty.

My most recent best friend was a pathological liar though, August 24.
I don't know why he lies so much but it helps him get what he wants.

The nature of a Virgo is to manipulate, stabilise and take control.
With respect to this I don't lie per say, I just don't say everything.
What I tell would be the truth, but if I know saying everything would bring about instability, I would avoid stating it unless prodded.
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