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Nebulous_Cloud9
7/29/2012 8:40:56 AM | IP

Capbaby,

Do you really think so? They have had an 8 month friendship, this is the reason why I say he is still in the deliberating phase. If he had wanted to or had been ready, he would have said something by now in my opinion. I only say this from experience. I oftentimes do not see good outcomes because the other party is just not ready for a relationship so talking about it will just peeve him out.


Sure, if she approaches the topic she will surely find out. But, I think it's a risk. I say sooner or late she will find out anyway; with later, time will solidify his feelings for her. Perhaps then he will be the one to bring it up and not her. It's already been 8 months, what's the rush in a few more months? At the very least, she's developed a great friendship and that's good enough in my opinion.
capbaby
7/29/2012 8:20:59 AM | IP

female

Posted by S Love
You two need to make a move, that is the next step. Do not waste too much time or over think it, just do it!!


Agreed. You have to lead. You set the boundaries and progression. He might do the push-pull thing and so be it. You decide what you can handle and go from there, and tell him what u want. He will either accomodate or he won't. But u won't know until u make that move.
capbaby
7/29/2012 8:16:54 AM | IP

female

'Can a Virgo man deal with a women that's taller than him or does that mess up the whole perfect match objective?'

I'm taller and neither of us cares.
Nebulous_Cloud9
7/29/2012 7:55:05 AM | IP

Scorpiolove2love,

Maybe create a separate post for your issue? You'll get more responses because more people will see it. Besides, it's a little bit rude to hijack the original poster's topic.


LadyScorpioAkALadyHomicide,

Everything seems to point in the direction of "he likes you." But, I really don't even think that you need to bring up the fact that you like him, he will do so himself if this relationship, rapport, and connection keeps up. When you bring up the "I have feelings for you" conversation, naturally, the other person feels pressured to make a decision. Also, it takes the pressure off of him if he is ill-prepared for the discussion and you don't run the risk of losing the opportunity because he's not ready. Liking you doesn't mean that he is ready for a relationship- two very different things. I say don't ruin a good thing, it will naturally happen if the chemistry is consistent and the timing is right.
scorpiolove2love
7/28/2012 7:40:45 AM | IP

... He called me the next day and said that he didn't care if I don't want to be his friend, that he was still going to be mine. He asked me not to change the things that he like about me. Either way, I ended up talking with him again as a "friend", but have been keeping my "goodies" to myself, and I think he's fine with that(??). So now we barely talk anymore, and when we do it's always bare minimum. Did I scare him off with the question, and then the discontent with the "friendship" status? Will he ever feel me again the way he did in the beginning? HELP PLEASE..
scorpiolove2love
7/28/2012 7:35:31 AM | IP

I too am a scorpio woman inlove with a virgo man; however, I am befuddled by his actions towards me of late. Help if you can PLEASE. I initially met my virguy at a business function back in March of this year. After our introduction, I really didn't give him much thought. I thought that he was "sorta" attractive, but kind of arrogant and cold. Eitherway, we met up again at another business function a couple of months later (May), and again, there was no real connect for me. The company I represented for the function owed his client a payment. He called me after the weekend of the function to check on his client's payment. We ended up talking on the phone for almost two hours! In those two hours,he shared so much with me about his personal life, and I with him. It felt akward because at the end of the conversation, neither of us really wanted to hang up. He met up with me a couple of days later to receive payment, and OMG, he smelled so good, I wanted to pay him with me right then and there! But I waited (about a week). He came over to my house & he was all over me. There was so much attraction between us, that it was almost scarry, but comfortable at the same time. He texted early the next morning to say that he had a great time, and if I was ready to finish :-). The freaky scorpio in me was like "hell yeah!".
A couple of days later, he invited me to his house to hang for a while, because he had plans to be some where later that night. I went over there, and he ended up changing his plans to stay at home to watch a movie & you know what else. We spent a lot of time together, either at my home or at his. I asked him what is about me that he likes, and his answer was: 1) I'm easy on the eye. 2) I have a big ass. 3) I'm smart. 4) I have a caring heart. & 5) I put up with his bullbutter. I took that for okay, he's really feeling me too. RIGHT?? WRONG!!To make this long story shorter; We went strong for about a month afterwards, and then I did the ultimate NO NO. I asked him "what are we doing?" He told me that he sees me as a "close friend" that happened fast. He also said that he feels enlightened when he's around me, but he don't like using labels. He said that a friendship was about all that he could handle & that he didn't want to lose me as a friend. Me being the scorpio I am (having to know the nitty gritty of all details of my life) got upset, and told him that I didn't want to be his friend.
capbaby
4/14/2012 9:01:46 PM | IP

female

I'm taller than my vurgo fiance..most women are taller than him cause he's only 5'5(maybe alittle shorter) and he likes tall women,lol. I am 5'6. Not an issue for us. It was weird for me at first cause men were always taller than me but I dont bat an eye now.

We were friends for over 10 years before a relationship and i have to say..friends first is great!
virgodog58
4/14/2012 2:06:20 AM | IP
virgodog58

male from United Kingdom  

Virgo male interested in (western) astro

I am pleased to see that when a guy is put in the dreaded Friend Zone this does not necessarily mean that all is lost for him! (I thought it did).
virg_goki
4/13/2012 1:37:44 AM | IP
virg_goki

24 years old male

A man with a love for tattoos

Posted by 25thDecan
^stop being right..and for heaven sakes, don't do it so efficiently....


^^^ what happened to stop germinating the seed of scorn for scorpio women? lol
S Love
4/13/2012 12:12:50 AM | IP
S Love

You two need to make a move, that is the next step. Do not waste too much time or over think it, just do it!!
LadyScorpioAkALadyHomicide
4/12/2012 4:49:04 PM | IP
LadyScorpioAkALadyHomicide

30 years old female from DC Metro Area, USA  

I have a boring contracts job however I'

TO: P-Angel...Yeap, we are located in the DC Metro area.

We had our lunch date today. We pushed it up to today to dodge other obligations that made it's way onto Friday's agenda.

Lunch lasted for 2.5 hours (my boss didn't like that lol). We had such a good time that time flew by and we didn't even eat our food. He started giving me complements which freezes me up because I don't take compliments well. By the way...he is in sales so I'm always considering the possibility he maybe using me for networking or inside information which I would never give anyway. We are pretty open about having to morph into what people demand of us in our professional life so at times I wonder if he is doing that with me too.
He told me how his Roommate talks about me all the time and he gently lets him know I'm not intersted. I said, "why in the world would he like me".

He says, "I can think of a thousand reasons why". I immediately got shy.

I was actually nervous for the first time today; reserved and giggly(not cool at all). I basically chickened out because I felt it was not the right time to tell him how I feel. I felt like if I did, it would simply ruin the fun we were having and just make things messy.

The longer I keep this to myself the more I'm not myself.

He invited me over to hang with him and his roomies but said in the next couple weeks and I said jokingly, " Yeah right, you mean next month".

I'm confused about the signals I get from him. At least I told him, "When I like someone I keep them as friends to assess them and it usually takes me a longtime to confess if I like someone".

We should change the title of this message board from, "Scopio women needs advice from Virgo guy" to "Punk a$$ needs advice from Virgo guy" Lol...pathetic.
Skykomish
4/11/2012 12:02:32 PM | IP
Skykomish

29 years old female from CO  USA  

Sun Scorpio 28.05 Ascendant Taurus 6.4

Decan, you are one cool guy. idk you always made me suspicious before. Thanks for your advice, for me and the others you give it to from a virgo's perspective.
P-Angel
4/11/2012 11:48:50 AM | IP
P-Angel

54 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

Where .... in the DC metro area?
LadyScorpioAkALadyHomicide
4/10/2012 4:44:31 PM | IP
LadyScorpioAkALadyHomicide

30 years old female from DC Metro Area, USA  

I have a boring contracts job however I'

That's the vibe I'm getting. I don't think looks matter to him which is another test I put him through. A girl that could be Megan Fox's twin hit on him when we were all hanging out and he didn't look at her twice. Probably because she wanted the entire rooms attention too and I know he doesn't go for that type of chick.

Well, I'll let you guys know Friday afternoon if it went north or south. At least I can handle dissappointment well lol.
YourSunshine
4/10/2012 4:27:19 PM | IP
YourSunshine

I think he won't mind the lack of height difference. Virgos aren't the kind to have such trivial things get in the way of love.

 

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