YES IT DOES WORK,but it only works when starting off together in a friendship/kinda like each quietly at a distance dynamic. I am on my third Virgo and I finally started to look at it like Capricorn does and just admire the Virgo good and rule the bad out as just things Virgos do that are head scratching to some signs but not their intention and to not bring it up again.
My beef with Virgos has always been that they don't take into account the emotional side to their decisions.I feel this comes across cold but its really a defense mechanism that is more effective than what the Cancer has. We are tough people but take out any emotional leeway we have, then we are powerless. The Virgo's mechanism works the best and can't be matched to how the rest of the zodiac reacts in the fire. I have learned to not pick fights with a Virgo Woman as they tough as nails on the inside and outsmart me every time. The Leo Woman is tough as nails on the outside, but I can melt any like butter without even trying.
As a Cancer Male the Virgo female cannot fulfill me in a romantic way off the bat as she is going to do what she feels needs to be no matter what society thinks. This trait is hard on me because I do care what society thinks, a little too much but I can't just not care at all like I want to.The helpful/nuturing qualities of the Virgo woman want them around me at all times so I am willing to let the Cancer criticism go to an extent since IT IS WORTH IT EVEN IF MY EMOTIONS ARE SCRAMBLED SOMETIMES. I just can't expect them to fill my mold until enough time has passed in their mind. Virgos need even more time than a Cancer to trust and they are just as scared as us, but their wall is more a test of what true love really is. "Are you going to love me if I do this,and many other things you don't approve of ", as for Cancer is more of a "Let me obligate you so I can have the ammo when u hurt me". Are's isn't the best but we do it because we don't like to be left alone after caring for someone so deeply. My last Virgo brought me to my knees as a man as I realized can't handle the Virgo breakup pattern psychologically. So I am now on the vibe where I keep my options(as does she)until the Virgo feels they can take it to the next level and where I am to the realm where they do care about what I think, but that is only reserved to people they feel worthy and proven.
The Cancer Male Virgo Female dynamic
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