|There is an alternative view on this situation as well, he felt your expectations and he backed off and when some men back off they can be really mean and apathetic in the process. Clearly he failed to tell you he had a girlfriend but he didn't lie, he just didn't tell you. |
I don't know if you assumed he would be there for you and spend a good deal of his time with you but clearly you failed to ask the right questions, made some assumptions so although he wasn't forthcoming well you weren't either, you didn't say to him what you expected from him so he could clarify to you what he was thinking and expecting out of the whole ordeal. Since you didn't know he had a girlfriend I can only assume you never asked (I apologize in advance if you asked and he lied but if that's not the case then I would suggest you be CLEAR about what you expect so a man can know if he can meet your expectations.
Seems you 2 never clarified what the agenda was for the meeting, women get hurt when she assumes she is on the same page with a guy.
Chalk it up to experience and move on, learn from it all and apply it to your next encounter with the next guy, it's easy to feel jilted in these kind of situations but if you're honest with yourself you'll most likely recognize how YOU'RE behavior contributed to the outcome as well.
Told me to come spend the summer then ignored me
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