Touchy Feely...

28 years old male from Trinidad •
"Vide cor Meum... Vi et Animo My Opus Decan Compa
Ugh! It's only last year I read second Decan Virgos don't like to get all "hands on" with people most of the time. NB. This probably doesn't apply to Shaks, most interesting Virgo on the board.

But yeah, unless I'm really acquainted with you, I find it "odd" and "unnecessary".

The touchy feely signs from my encounters are Aquarius, Geminis, Libras, Cancers, Sagittarius, Leos and Pisces.

Aquarians seem to like being on top of people or people on them.
Geminis seem to think touching and kissing[cheeks] everyone is perfectly acceptable.
Libra women in particular love to grab unto you when they laugh.
Cancers like to hug and snuggle up on people.
Sagittarians are quite physically affectionate.
Leos are awfully friendly.
Pisces love feeling loved, lots of hugs... and leaning.

45 years old female from Texas •
"I am a Pisces sun with a Scorpio moon and my ascending sign is Cancer. Just fo
Posted by Cajunspirit
Ugh! It's only last year I read second Decan Virgos don't like to get all "hands on" with people most of the time. NB. This probably doesn't apply to Shaks, most interesting Virgo on the board.

But yeah, unless I'm really acquainted with you, I find it "odd" and "unnecessary".

The touchy feely signs from my encounters are Aquarius, Geminis, Libras, Cancers, Sagittarius, Leos and Pisces.

Aquarians seem to like being on top of people or people on them.
Geminis seem to think touching and kissing[cheeks] everyone is perfectly acceptable.
Libra women in particular love to grab unto you when they laugh.
Cancers like to hug and snuggle up on people.
Sagittarians are quite physically affectionate.
Leos are awfully friendly.
Pisces love feeling loved, lots of hugs... and leaning.



Ha ha! So true! I do love to hug! The first time I saw the Virgo after we had been intimate I walked right up to him and gave him a big hug and a kiss (peck). He just kind of looked taken aback a bit. Now he knows that's just what I do.
I also hug my friends when I see them or when I am saying goodbye! Hugs for all who want them...lol!!!
female •
Posted by Cajunspirit

But yeah, unless I'm really acquainted with you, I find it "odd" and "unnecessary".



Me too (virgo rising). Although I find it difficult to be touchy with people, I do love receiving hughs! Specially from cancerian guys
33 years old female •
what is a second decan virgo???
28 years old male from Trinidad •
"Vide cor Meum... Vi et Animo My Opus Decan Compa
Posted by Mars.In.Aries
what is a second decan virgo???


September 1st - 10th.

I think it was virgoking who posted a link to some website where it said Second Decans don't like getting touched much, and this holds true for me.
42 years old male •
"Vir-sun, Leo-ris, Sco-moo"
I am never tactile with anyone because I feel awkward touching people. Similarly, I hate people being tactile with me because it feels awkward. Here is the big exception though... if I'm in a relationship with someone I love lots of physical affection and like to have some kind of contact with them all of the time... holding hands if we're out together, cuddled-up if we're in together, etc. The only time that I want physical contact from someone I'm not in a relationship is if it comes from a female whom I find attractive.
28 years old male from Trinidad •
"Vide cor Meum... Vi et Animo My Opus Decan Compa
Posted by VirgoM20
I am never tactile with anyone because I feel awkward touching people. Similarly, I hate people being tactile with me because it feels awkward. Here is the big exception though... if I'm in a relationship with someone I love lots of physical affection and like to have some kind of contact with them all of the time... holding hands if we're out together, cuddled-up if we're in together, etc. The only time that I want physical contact from someone I'm not in a relationship is if it comes from a female whom I find attractive.


I concur.
31 years old female from tampa area, florida, usa •
several virgos i've known have been very physically affectionate. most have not. those who are physical will touch others, but do not like to be touched. can't remember exact birthdays, so can't comment on decans.

this libra is not physical, thanks. i don't need to grab onto anyone when i laugh. my laugh grabs them well enough.

geminis and sagittarians are definitely physical, though. they'll touch anybody however they feel like it and have little to no respect for other people's boundaries. i've never known a single one who wasn't. the rest, it depends. leos are mostly just physical when they've been drinking, though that can be pretty often. cancers can be as icy as they can be warm. pisces are affectionate if they feel the other person is more powerful, but if they feel they have more powerful touching them is like touching a corpse in rigor mortis.

aquarians don't necessarily like being on top of people or people on top of them. but they seem to like it when people disrespect their own (not really existent) personal boundaries. and they like doing the same with others. it's like animals sniffing each other. or like two puppies sleeping all twisted together. they're animals.

i'm not sure about taurus females, but taurus males are definitely very physical, usually in a protective/possessive way with anyone they care about. big on back patting and handshaking too.
33 years old female •
ok... that makes sense to me...... yes, second decans aren't touchy feely, but you know that when they do touch you, it's good. I like the subtle touches that I receive. We can be in a crowded bar, he and I carrying our own conversations with other groups of friends, but if he moves, he will touch me subtly so that it's not too sexual and let me know what he's doing.

But htat doesn't mean that there isn't passion. Once it's just he and I...... he does touch, alot. I like it, coz it doesn't seem superficial. Too much PDA is too much, and even when you're alone and there's too much touching going on, then it's kinda sleazy.

I think second decans like to be embraced. I like to cuddle up to him in the morning, tuck my feet in with his and wrap my arms around him in a way where his head is snuggled into me. And then I'll kiss the back of his neck and nibble his ears. Plus it gives me free range up front......

I think it also depends on the situation and the circumstances. I've noticed that the more comfortable he is, the more relaxed his actions are. The less he has to think about his surrounding, the less he has to think about how he should act.
28 years old male from Trinidad •
"Vide cor Meum... Vi et Animo My Opus Decan Compa
Posted by Mars.In.Aries
ok... that makes sense to me...... yes, second decans aren't touchy feely, but you know that when they do touch you, it's good. I like the subtle touches that I receive. We can be in a crowded bar, he and I carrying our own conversations with other groups of friends, but if he moves, he will touch me subtly so that it's not too sexual and let me know what he's doing.


Sounds about right.

But htat doesn't mean that there isn't passion. Once it's just he and I...... he does touch, alot. I like it, coz it doesn't seem superficial.


The Perfectionist way

I think second decans like to be embraced.


Hell, I know I do. But only from women I find attractive. Sure it's superficial, but I don't care.

I like to cuddle up to him in the morning, tuck my feet in with his and wrap my arms around him in a way where his head is snuggled into me. And then I'll kiss the back of his neck and nibble his ears. Plus it gives me free range up front......


Whoops, look who has a boner

I think it also depends on the situation and the circumstances. I've noticed that the more comfortable he is, the more relaxed his actions are. The less he has to think about his surrounding, the less he has to think about how he should act.


A fine deduction.
33 years old female •
I just gotta say.... I'm not one to be affected by others too easily, but this Virgo really has an affect on me...... I actually *gasp* feel semi-secure with him...... I just know him as a person. And it helps that we are so similar, because I understand him.

He's a man a a few words, but what he doesn't say in words he tells me through his eyes..... he really mellows my fire.
29 years old female from Mannheim, Germany •
I am a 2nd Decan Virgo, and that is true. I'm not touchy kind of person, unless I'm very comfortable with you. I also HATE when someone touches me, especially grabs me. I will get mad when someone grabs me.

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