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Virgo Man - Scorpio Woman - HELP PLEASE!!

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GodMadeBeauty
8/2/2012 12:46:50 PM | IP
GodMadeBeauty

female

Well, I know you are gettign a bunch of human being lie, let me tell you from a Virgal we are perfectionist and critisize ourselves horribly and we NEVER want someone to see us being unperfect so that may be the reason for the little lies. I don't think it means he will tell big ones I think he is just trying to make sure he looks perfect to you. He probably gets mad because when you catch him in a lie, he is being seen as unperfect.
SweetCheekScorpio
7/24/2012 2:37:12 PM | IP

Very well said! Human nature for sure.
Totally agree that he is conscious & aware that I may find out...
Thank you for the insight on Virgo's having problems being corrected...I WILL keep that in mind.
...but wow, it all makes sense to me now!! - as my approach most times is very direct and I'm sure
he takes offence and then gets his back-up, get angry...hence the shutting me out, silent treatment
etc...WOW!! Totally makes sense now!

Thanks again guys

username
7/24/2012 12:47:52 PM | IP
username

male

virgo-capricorn decan...

Human beings lie. it's one of our skills. so no, this is not a trait specific to virgos.

yes, the lie could turn into a full out lie but since you are so good at catching him with the little ones, i dont think he will be conscious..

i will like to point out that Virgos do have problems with being corrected (maybe because it highlights an imperfection).
my advise is to correct him lightly, in a jokingly manner.being caught and called a liar is a difficult thing to get over especially if it is from a lover.

SweetCheekScorpio
7/24/2012 11:27:51 AM | IP

Hey Virg_goki, thanks so much for your input! I am not put off at all, but appreciate your honesty
and you are so right - we may all be guilty of it. I guess I was pulling thoughts from my past experiences
and bringing forth negative limiting thoughts thinking that the little white lies will ge worse & the lies
bigger...so thank you for the clarification.

I will take it as it is then & just leave it alone. Since you are a 23 year old male, and my Virg is 25 yrs old,
I'm sure you know better! Thanks again!

Love, Love, Love your solution to the angry Virg!

You've helped me out BIG TIME!!
virg_goki
7/24/2012 10:12:04 AM | IP
virg_goki

24 years old male

A man with a love for tattoos

I know this may put you off a little but don't we all lie about small things that will only complicate matters? I'm not sure what it is that he lies about but he probably wants to avoid such consequences.

As for angry virgo, show up in some lingerie and make him go mad for getting angry and that he's only making it hard for himself sometimes the simplest solutions can be most effective one. otherwise just leave him in the man cave and try to get him to talk about why he's angry and resolve it actively. IMO virg men are usually action oriented but runs through as many scenarios about a matter inside his head before he faces it, AKA the infamous processing whilst disappearing. Not sure if yours can be considered as disappearing though.

Hope this helps SCScorpio!
SweetCheekScorpio
7/24/2012 8:16:21 AM | IP

This is my very first post, so patience please I've been dating a Virgo for some time now. But have noticed a pattern of the 'little white lies' and for the most part, they are little white lies of nothingness...lies about
nothing really...stupid things...I am confused as to why my Virg does this...is this a familiar trait in Virgo's?
Should I worry? Does this mean Virg's litle white lies 'may' turn into full out lies? Can my Virgo be trusted?

When I call him on it, he gets angry (has some demons & major anger issues already), and he shuts down - goes silent.
How do I deal with an 'angry' Virgo?

Please Help!!

 

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