I have question. Some of you may have read my posts, about a Virguy that I'm dating. I went thru the hot and cold games, the spend time for a day then gone for a few days with no contact. Finally I got to the point where we were consistent, seeing him for 4-5 times a week, talking 2 sometimes 3 times a day. On and off the whole time we were dating he'd make sarcastic comments depending on whatever was happening, sometimes they bothered me to the point of tears. Most times I just let it roll off me. I've read posts and websites that Virgos have very critical tongues, I've also read they can be very insecure that plays a part in them being sarcastic.
My issue is, most times I say nothing or only make a small comment when he gets sarcastic. But when I finally reach my limit and push back, he'll say something like when I come around you on a regular basis you change. It's almost like he gets hurt or offended that I wont take his mess. He then said I'm going to stop coming around so much because when I do you treat me differently as though I'm mistreating him by not letting him talk to me any type of way. I told him try it, you cant predict my moves, I'll show you better then I can tell you. I didnt communicate with him the whole weekend, I had no interest. Then out of the blue he calls, I missed his call, he left a message sounding very happy, I texted him nonchalantly asking whats up, he said he was just calling to say hi, I told him I'd call him later, which normally I would have broken my neck to call him back, he said ok but I think he was surprised, I was so cool. When I texted him much later that night, I got no response. I called the next day didnt leave a message but rang just enough so he can see I called. Nothing.
Do Virgo men have to be in control? What makes me mad is he'll say look how you talk to me, when all along he was the one with the hurtful comments.
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