| i have never been interested in other races, but am good friends with people from dif races. however, if i fell for someone, whatever race they are, i would try my hardest to make it work. i do know that it is very very difficult dealing with family members who arent accepting.. def can be done, but may cause a lot of stress and heartache in the beginning. if you have a strong relationship, its totally doable. just dont let it seep into your own relationship and blame them for how their family feels. best of luck . |
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Posted by lindavi20 Thank you Linda, When I was growing up my best friend was of another race and they never had a problem then, she would even stay over sometimes...My mother's husband is very I mean very racist and so is his family, so my mother worries as to what they would say about me or think...Really mom? I told her I don't care,I think my mom is like that because of him. We have a pretty strong relationship and know we can get through this..if they want to come to visit for the holidays they will be more than welcomed but that will be our home, his and mine and he will be the man of the house so they will need to respect him as the person he is and talk to him, so we shall see. |
23 years old male from Somewhere, In Deep Thought
Sun Virgo 9.29 Ascendant Pis
| I'd be uneasy around the father as I would not want to get shot...but I would try to debate with them on how rascim is so idiotic.....buttt I would probably fail miserably and blame my pisces ascendant for being on cloud 13... Although they maybe rascist, that seems like a personal problem... |
female
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22 PHV22 that was funny...lol..But yes I know it is personal...I think she wants to make her husband happy and she doesnt want to hear them say anything negative towards me..I can't blame her as a mother trying to protect me, but im a grown woman and I know what Im doing and she should just wish me well and if by any chance things don't go well, she should be there for me as well. She knows Im all packed and leaving in a few days and she has not called me in 2 days..It will be very hard when I have to say goodbye knowing she feels that way..  |
28 years old male
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| When it comes to what other people think, I don't care at all. Parents or not, I choose my partner and no one else has a say in it. If they have a problem with it then I'll stop communicating with them. It's simple. |
22 years old female
Ascendent Virgo 1.43
| Not a virgo male, but I am a virgo female in an interracial relationship with a taurus man (he is white). My family, or at least my most immediate family, has no problem with our relationship. They just want me to be happy and taken care of. His family on the other hand, mostly his parents, are very wary of interracial relationships. They aren't truly aware the depth of our relationship and our love for each other. It's easy and hard to deal with. I know he is ashamed of how his parents feel and that he doesn't feel confident enough to fight their prejudices. I tell him all the time that nothing is going to break us, but it stings in a very deep part of me. Not because his parents could have a problem with me, but because I'm afraid he is going to end our relationship out of his fear that he can't take me home and fully introduce me to his family. Although, we're going pretty strong and have slowly spoken about how to introduce our relationship to his parents while waiting for the right moment. |
male from United Kingdom
Virgo male interested in (western) astro
| It depends what you mean by "think twice": in the sense of "to decide not to do" I don't think that this would apply although I would find the situation discouraging. If I really loved her I think I would stay with the situation and try to work with it. |
42 years old female from A Lush Meadow, US of A
In the dead of night, it's the anti-sig.
| It is two people at the end of the day. Their relationship. If my family or his felt strongly about things I would be wary of them trying to undermine things. Good luck with that. They have the raising of me, molded me and set me free. Therefore, the decision made for ones owns heart is no longer their concern. Bit cold, but there you have it. Of course they care, but their perception and ill formed notions of whom is right for one and whom is not is unnecessary. I would hear their thoughts on the matter, then blatantly ignore anything that did not set well within my conscience. They already gave the tools and framework to be an adult making adult decisions. Well now, stand aside and let one make them. I would also absolutely know who had my happiness and well being at heart, and who did not. Certainly this can be someone within ones own familial construct, on either side of the fence. Some peoples 'good opinion' can rot. They living your life? They in your bed? They having conversation in the night and raising your children? Nope. Changing someones views on some things? May as well piss in a windstorm. Double edged sword innit. The people you'd like to please most in the world will not be. Oh well. That is their choice whether or not to accept. If they do not, well, life still needs living. |
24 years old male
Vide cor Meum... Vi et Animo
| My prejudice is not for race, it is for attractiveness. The only race I would hesitate to date is a Semite. |
52 years old male from Norway
Planetary Positions
| Not at all.. I love Human and I love to be with humans , the rest are political/religious and cultural bullbutter....! |
42 years old female from A Lush Meadow, US of A
In the dead of night, it's the anti-sig.
Keep it up at this rate Dec you'll need new manties.  |
42 years old female from A Lush Meadow, US of A
In the dead of night, it's the anti-sig.
LMAO Mongs. Brofriend Cut.  |
female from the fire Moon
July 11th, 2nd Decan Cancer
| Sometimes it's the significant other who may have some hidden or not so hidden angst toward interracial dating. I have never considered my family's opinion, especially not after who they married/dated and never asked me for my opinion. I give them the same courtesy. |
female
| Manties & Mongs!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA...you guys are funny. |
33 years old male from Seattle, Washington
I can defend myself against anything. I
| I'm a Virgo male with really no interest in interracial dating. Though I've done it, and not opposed to it. I don't really think it has anything to do with signs though. I know Sags who are suppose to be open minded (according to astrology) who actually won't date interracially at all. So really star signs really has little to do with it. |
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