Virgo man no longer interested?

???my birth chart??? Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0 Sun Gemini 2.1
Posted by Ikuta07
I am just as confused as KrystalSade about this Virguy I was seeing. Thank you so much for creating this thread!

Posted by gemini64

Basically if a Virgo man NO longer loves you, he will actually do YOU a huge favor by speaking to you. but if he LOVES you deeply, he won't tell you; he'll push you away while he retreats to his man cave while analyzing his "feelings" to death. You may actually age a year or two as he "contemplates" every angle and emotion as earthly possible. and if per chance your paths cross, he'll just give you his patented Virgo stare and hope you can discern what the hell it means. If your lucky, you'll get his full critique of your flaws as he is self assured this job is made only for him; he is the master of truth.

seriously, what's so hard about understanding all of that?


There is a Virguy I was casually seeing (he didn't want anything serious) who didn't contact me for 6 months after he started working at a new job. Earlier this month, I finally contacted him and said that I couldn't take it anymore and have to move on. I told him that it would have been nice for him to let me know if he didn't want to continue this casual relationship and he responded "Yea, I should have let you know." We had an on and off thing going on (kissing and some physical intimacy but no sex) and when I asked what I was to him, he responded "a friend". Then I asked if he still has feelings for me, he said "Not to be harsh, but I can turn off my emotions." He said he did so to avoid drama. I was thinking... thanks a lot for just keeping me hanging after you've already moved on for all this time.

So gemini64, is my situation relevant to what you've described? The Virguy liked me but I don't believe he ever loved me.

I'm a Saggie and I've been trying really hard to be patient with him. I still can't stop thinking about him.




You're welcome
???my birth chart??? Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0 Sun Gemini 2.1
Posted by Candeh15
Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
Virgos love to play mind games. You're a Gemini, maybe you're the kind of girl that sees love as not being a game. Love is no game. Virgos love to play in the love department.



Woah, hold on now. The last thing a virgo likes to do is play games, especially when it comes to love. We're pretty straightforward. I don't know which virgos you have messed with...


i agree with you candeh15 ....they are very mature as well so i expect they want the same in return when it comes to love.
26 years old female •
"Ascendent Virgo 1.43 Sun Virgo 3.36 Moon
Posted by Ccdarling
Posted by Candeh15
Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
Virgos love to play mind games. You're a Gemini, maybe you're the kind of girl that sees love as not being a game. Love is no game. Virgos love to play in the love department.



Woah, hold on now. The last thing a virgo likes to do is play games, especially when it comes to love. We're pretty straightforward. I don't know which virgos you have messed with...


I have actually seen two types of male Virgos, some do not play games while others have been complete players. As for the women Virgos I have never met one that seems to play games. I was lucky enough to find a Virgo man that does not like to play games.


Truth, virgos aren't immune to being players. There are players in all signs; it's just not a universal thing for virgos to be players; at least, that's what the post seemed like...
female from SaggieLand •
I am just as confused as KrystalSade about this Virguy I was seeing. Thank you so much for creating this thread!

Posted by gemini64

Basically if a Virgo man NO longer loves you, he will actually do YOU a huge favor by speaking to you. but if he LOVES you deeply, he won't tell you; he'll push you away while he retreats to his man cave while analyzing his "feelings" to death. You may actually age a year or two as he "contemplates" every angle and emotion as earthly possible. and if per chance your paths cross, he'll just give you his patented Virgo stare and hope you can discern what the hell it means. If your lucky, you'll get his full critique of your flaws as he is self assured this job is made only for him; he is the master of truth.

seriously, what's so hard about understanding all of that?


There is a Virguy I was casually seeing (he didn't want anything serious) who didn't contact me for 6 months after he started working at a new job. Earlier this month, I finally contacted him and said that I couldn't take it anymore and have to move on. I told him that it would have been nice for him to let me know if he didn't want to continue this casual relationship and he responded "Yea, I should have let you know." We had an on and off thing going on (kissing and some physical intimacy but no sex) and when I asked what I was to him, he responded "a friend". Then I asked if he still has feelings for me, he said "Not to be harsh, but I can turn off my emotions." He said he did so to avoid drama. I was thinking... thanks a lot for just keeping me hanging after you've already moved on for all this time.

So gemini64, is my situation relevant to what you've described? The Virguy liked me but I don't believe he ever loved me.

I'm a Saggie and I've been trying really hard to be patient with him. I still can't stop thinking about him.

26 years old female •
"Ascendent Virgo 1.43 Sun Virgo 3.36 Moon
Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
Virgos love to play mind games. You're a Gemini, maybe you're the kind of girl that sees love as not being a game. Love is no game. Virgos love to play in the love department.



Woah, hold on now. The last thing a virgo likes to do is play games, especially when it comes to love. We're pretty straightforward. I don't know which virgos you have messed with...
???my birth chart??? Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0 Sun Gemini 2.1
Posted by gemini64
Posted by KrystleSade
most virgo men say that if they don't like you anymore they would tell you. is that true? but what if he has stopped calling and/or responding to your texts? should you go and worry? see if i've been texting & calling but no response. even when i said he doesn't want to talk to me anymore to let me know he hasn't told me. but he has told me lots of things that make me not doubt his words. should i believe him? when i know in my heart he does want me.?? could he still be analyzing me? if it's been almost 2 months since we last spoken? it is a pretty long story but i have wrote this long story in another forum "how to know if a virgo man is inlove" forum....help would be much appreciated




Basically if a Virgo man NO longer loves you, he will actually do YOU a huge favor by speaking to you. but if he LOVES you deeply, he won't tell you; he'll push you away while he retreats to his man cave while analyzing his "feelings" to death. You may actually age a year or two as he "contemplates" every angle and emotion as earthly possible. and if per chance your paths cross, he'll just give you his patented Virgo stare and hope you can discern what the hell it means. If your lucky, you'll get his full critique of your flaws as he is self assured this job is made only for him; he is the master of truth.

seriously, what's so hard about understanding all of that?



*hugs* thank you kindly gem ^^ truly made my day
from USA •
Posted by KrystleSade
most virgo men say that if they don't like you anymore they would tell you. is that true? but what if he has stopped calling and/or responding to your texts? should you go and worry? see if i've been texting & calling but no response. even when i said he doesn't want to talk to me anymore to let me know he hasn't told me. but he has told me lots of things that make me not doubt his words. should i believe him? when i know in my heart he does want me.?? could he still be analyzing me? if it's been almost 2 months since we last spoken? it is a pretty long story but i have wrote this long story in another forum "how to know if a virgo man is inlove" forum....help would be much appreciated




Basically if a Virgo man NO longer loves you, he will actually do YOU a huge favor by speaking to you. but if he LOVES you deeply, he won't tell you; he'll push you away while he retreats to his man cave while analyzing his "feelings" to death. You may actually age a year or two as he "contemplates" every angle and emotion as earthly possible. and if per chance your paths cross, he'll just give you his patented Virgo stare and hope you can discern what the hell it means. If your lucky, you'll get his full critique of your flaws as he is self assured this job is made only for him; he is the master of truth.

seriously, what's so hard about understanding all of that?
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???my birth chart??? Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0 Sun Gemini 2.1
i will strongly have to disagree. i believe his words. & i believe that i have nothing to worry about. & yes you are correct on this. LOVE is not a game for me. but we are both still so young. so i have no reason to believe there is someone else. not trying to be chickeny. but i am one ride or die chick and that is something he won't find. so i am very confident. please i leave it in God's hands. he knows what he's doing.
???my birth chart??? Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0 Sun Gemini 2.1
Posted by Joanie675
I know that Virgos are usually logical and analytical. I don't know how fallacies and hasty generalizations such as that lend credence to that though. All Gems are like this, all Gems are like that, and that's why we won't help you out. I don't get the stonewalling. All I know is that it's not conducive to ... umm... world peace, lol.


yes i totally agree with you. i love helping people out,but there are very few i don't. they take me for GRANTED i guess. enough said.
41 years old female from Magrathea •
"Mistress of MuMu and Maximus; highly complex Gemini; semi-jaded romantic; purv
I know that Virgos are usually logical and analytical. I don't know how fallacies and hasty generalizations such as that lend credence to that though. All Gems are like this, all Gems are like that, and that's why we won't help you out. I don't get the stonewalling. All I know is that it's not conducive to ... umm... world peace, lol.
???my birth chart??? Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0 Sun Gemini 2.1
@virgoking that was rude of you to burp yes? next time be more polite.but i love your sarcasim most virgos but not all have that trait.
???my birth chart??? Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0 Sun Gemini 2.1
Posted by virgoking
burp awwwwwwwwwwwwww all virgos know that gems are know it alls so what every we say to you.. You will not believe bc its not what you believe the person is doing so there you have it.


not true...i have a hard time trusting due to past relationships. & if i am corrected i will admit that i was wrong. all gems are different some are the same. just like every other sign.
29 years old male from virgo land •
burp awwwwwwwwwwwwww all virgos know that gems are know it alls so what every we say to you.. You will not believe bc its not what you believe the person is doing so there you have it.
???my birth chart??? Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0 Sun Gemini 2.1
Posted by Joanie675
Yahhh... I've been wondering about the silence myself. I've read a lot of other threads on the Virgo forum hoping for some insight and usually the Virgo dudes and dudettes don't hesitate to pipe in when a question is posed.

I know that there's a bit of a bias when it comes to Gemini... but, give us a break guys. We are just nice girls -- albeit fascinatingly confusing creatures at times -- who happen to like your kind. =P Very much so, I might add, that we take your criticisms in the best of spirits and try to improve ourselves because we love yahhhhh. =P



awwuh xD took the words right out of my mouth now let's pray they come around soon lol
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