Posted by Ikuta07
I am just as confused as KrystalSade about this Virguy I was seeing. Thank you so much for creating this thread!
Basically if a Virgo man NO longer loves you, he will actually do YOU a huge favor by speaking to you. but if he LOVES you deeply, he won't tell you; he'll push you away while he retreats to his man cave while analyzing his "feelings" to death. You may actually age a year or two as he "contemplates" every angle and emotion as earthly possible. and if per chance your paths cross, he'll just give you his patented Virgo stare and hope you can discern what the hell it means. If your lucky, you'll get his full critique of your flaws as he is self assured this job is made only for him; he is the master of truth.
seriously, what's so hard about understanding all of that?
There is a Virguy I was casually seeing (he didn't want anything serious) who didn't contact me for 6 months after he started working at a new job. Earlier this month, I finally contacted him and said that I couldn't take it anymore and have to move on. I told him that it would have been nice for him to let me know if he didn't want to continue this casual relationship and he responded "Yea, I should have let you know." We had an on and off thing going on (kissing and some physical intimacy but no sex) and when I asked what I was to him, he responded "a friend". Then I asked if he still has feelings for me, he said "Not to be harsh, but I can turn off my emotions." He said he did so to avoid drama. I was thinking... thanks a lot for just keeping me hanging after you've already moved on for all this time.
So gemini64, is my situation relevant to what you've described? The Virguy liked me but I don't believe he ever loved me.
I'm a Saggie and I've been trying really hard to be patient with him. I still can't stop thinking about him.