Oxytocin, when it’s got you hooked on the wrong partner, can be tougher to quit than heroin. Sometimes you need a therapist, a whole support group or just a really good friend to help you kick the habit.
Posted by DXP member incandescentcancer "A guy makes a girl wait and feel bad about herself only when he knows she will still be there when he comes back. It's like renting a house, if it's really awesome, what do you do? Same thing..."
Excerpt from Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl
Sometimes no matter what you do, say, try won't work and there truly is an explanation for that. If you find yourself struggling to understand what's going on in your relationship, the lack of communication, the disappearing acts, the hot and cold behavior just know there is an answer for this kind of behavior. Break the mystery then you break the spell he has over you so you can get on with your life.
A REAL MAN WILL DO WHAT HE SAYS HE'LL DO.
A real, actual, grown-up man is so dependable, you might be bored and want to drop
him. Please don't drop him just because he's dependable! Don't drop him just because he's responsible. Dependability in a man is the greatest starting point ever - and it should be a requirement for any man who wants to date you. You deserve that. Truly, you do deserve to have a man you can count on. And right there, if you make dependability a requirement, you'll disqualify all the little boys!