This is going to be lengthy. I want to put it all on the table, no judgment. Just tell me what you think I respect all views!
Me- Leo Sun rising cancer Pisces Moon (8/1/96) Him- Cancer Sun rising Libra Virgo Moon I was originally introduced to my cancer man dec 30 2017 through our mutual friends birthday party. Neither one of us was affected by each other (I’ve never wanted to date him bc I don’t date guys my friends try to hook me up with). Or at least I wasnt affected. Fast forward about 8 months later. It’s my birthday celebration 8/2/18 I’m out with the mutual friends of ours. We arrive to the last destination for the night and I see the cancer guy there. Immediately from the moment he seen me he was all in my face! I tried to ignore all of the attention I was getting from him but he laid it on thick! I couldn’t hold a conversation properly because his eyes were basically in my mouth. It was weird I just admit lol. But the night goes on and when it’s time for me to leave he chases after me and asks if he can join me (our mutual friends were going to get late night breakfast) I decline. I have work in the morning. He insists on asking for my number & he wants to take me out another day instead. Due to his persistence I accepted. I text him back two days later. We text for two days. Mind you this is the first male I’ve ever date who is interested in astrology or zodiac signs at least. Which weirds me out even more. After finding out my sun sign he tells me he is the product of Leo- cancer relationship. Grandparents married 60 years. Leo woman July 31. Cancer man born in July. Had his father who was also a cancer born in July. Who met his mother Leo woman August 2nd. Even more weird but I decide to give it a try and go out on a date with him.
We went on a date to my favorite place. It was nice. We talked for hours that night about everything under the moon. It was weird I was comfortable by the end of the night. We immediately grew close to each other. We started to see each other at least twice a week. Once during the week and once more during the weekend. We’d text and talk over the phone. It was nice and interesting. I fell on hard times and I ghosted him. (I know!) after a month of not responding or reaching out I called his phone (it’s now October) he answered on the first ring with excitement in his voice. He wanted to see me right away. I declined. We set up a date for later in the week. We seen each other and it was good. He took me shopping got me something to eat and we spent time at his place doing our favorite thing. Watching movies lol. He told me how he kept asking about me to our mutual “friend”
We instantly went back to dating and seeing each other often spending time with each other. By November he told me he loved me. That I was a good woman to him. That I was beautiful and peaceful. I was a taken back.
He was my first visitor at my new place. He helped me move a few things. And he bought me a new tv
Things seemed to be going well. Even with our little disagreements this was my favorite relationship so far. It was simple but it was nice.
We brung in the new year together. Things were going well. We often talked about children and our future. I told him I thought he was a great father and a great son to his mother. I would want him (or a man like him) to father my future children.
I thought we had a good thing going. It was progressing slowly but that was my favorite part. I usually jump into committed relationships fast. We start dating on Tuesday by friday I’m your girlfriend lol.
This was not the case and I loved it. It made me want to grow and stick around to see where we would go.
A week ago he was not feeling well he asked me to care for him and cook his favorite meal. It was sweet. I cooked he cleaned. Listen to music. Ate and watch a movie. We spent two days together it was nice and he started to feel better.
It was getting late. I asked if he would take me to the store before dropping me off at home. He said yes we can head out now. He grabbed a cup of orange juice and a cookie (his get well snacks). We are in his car rocking out. He offered a piece of the cookie to me. I accept (I am usually the one asking for a piece of his food lol)
Two seconds latter a piece of the cookie falls. He completely freaks out and asks if it fell in his juice. I giggle and say no.
He spazzes off of me. Yelling and screaming. I’ve heard him yell and be angry before but never at me and never over something so simple. And never so so angry. He was so angry and he even told me he was not taking me to the store that he was dropping me off.
I admit the lioness feelings were hurt. I cried and when I had the chance I roared back at him! He cursed and I cursed back. By the time he was pulling in my drive way I was in tears and He was shouting to get out of his car and not to call him.
At that moment I wanted to calm down and reconcile before he left my house angry. He wasn’t hearing it. I said you’re always telling me how much I mean to you but here you are showing me something totally different. You’re cursing me out over a cookie?
He Claimed he didn’t curse me out over a cookie. But yet he didnt want to sit and talk he told me get out. My last words were I accept your apology and i got out. Before I could get to the door he was speeding off.
A beautiful relationship ended just like that.
It has been a full week and no physical communication between neither one of us. This cancer man has grown on me so deeply so tough. I admit I let him in. And I was beginning to open up and give me parts of me no one has seen. As much as I want to reach out and try to gain some understanding. Something in me is saying he doesn’t care or he would have reached out and even if he did... a person that would treat me like that doesn’t deserve me?
I’ve racked my brain on what to do. How to go about this with my cancer man? Do I call this one a L and take my losses. Do I leave the ball in his field and have my heart open for his response? Or what?
Please any one with insight on cancer and Leo relationships or if you’re ever been in a similar situation please comment. I’ll take any extra advice on this.
I would love to get back on track with him and continue our love affair but if it’s a loss then I’ll push through the current pain
Sags are alphas but I think Leos need to be in that discussion as well.
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fire sign competitiveness. lol
i usually let them win. i dont like competing.
i can see my sagittarius sister who is scorpio dominant, get sooo upset if she loses. it's so unbearable and i dont care if i lose but everyone else doesn't let her win. LOL so she gets angry and stomps off OR her man (virgo man who is libra dominant, with leo mars, libra moon/libra venus) runs away LOL
Based on observations in person, Leo moon people I've known on average have had a strong undercurrent of "don't f*** with me" energy more than Scorpio moon people I've known, so that wards off a lot of the chance of attack in the first place.
Both moons can be relentless when really angry, but Leo moon people I've known are more direct and fast with how that expresses, unless the Scorpio moon person has been building up hatred for a while and then strikes during a final straw moment.
Also, both of those moons don't like fakeness in others, but on average, Leo moon people I've known are better at spotting dishonesty than Scorpio moon people I've known irl.
I grew up with two Leo moon people in my family, and I would not advise going up against them unless the intentions are a reasonable debate. My Taurus with Leo moon sister was relentless with an Aries with Scorpio moon man for a few years because she detected dishonesty. He wasn't a weak personality overall, but compared to her, it seemed so. He finally redeemed himself so she let up. lol