Posted by -MadHatter-I already Downloaded the PDF files many years ago (Voas & Castille), still, it could be much better if they provide the Divorce Statistic.Posted by _kitten_Posted by -MadHatter-But Didier Castille's research doesn't have the Divorce rate between signs.Posted by 7sPosted by puhleeze
Is this based on the longer it takes to form a bond the longer lasting is the attraction?
It's a European study. I forget the name of it but it's basically the number of people that marry a certain sign.
This is based off the Sachs Study done in 1994 using the 1990 Swiss Census. There have been subsequent studies done that debunk most of this one. One in particular is the Castille Study which uses the French census.
This site compares the Sachs and the Castille studies.
And so on
So we doesn't know who is the most Long-lasting pairing on (France) Castille research.
That is true, however it was done with a much larger pool over a longer duration of time (3X longer) using far better data. And excluding generic data commonly entered in a census - such as January 1st birthdays. As a study, Castille's was a better put together study. And a more recent British study by Vaos, backed up the Castille Study.
The one consistent theme between all 3 studies is that same month marriages are/were the most common.click to expand
Posted by Elissar18Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Elissar18
Are you and your partner like your sun, moon or mars (what sign are they), when it comes to fights or are you a combination of those signs? Do you give in first or do they?
Bonus question: How do I beat a Cap moon? 🙄
Aries, I know you hate losing more than anything in the world. A fight with your partner is no exception. If they do something that hurts or annoys you, you're definitely not one to keep quiet about it. You'll let them know immediately and with such well-articulated veracity, it'll be hard for your partner to even attempt to defend themselves. And if they do, hopefully they're prepared to be defeated. You've got a whole list of reasons why you're right and they're wrong.
You stubborn bull, Taurus. You're so confident in your position during fights, you'll quietly wait for your partner to finish expressing all the reasons why they're upset, only to roll your eyes, totally unmoved. You tuck your emotions behind you so that you can face the argument with clarity and pragmatism, which cleverly makes your partner definitely look like the crazy one.
It's a tale as told as time that you're known for having two sides to your personality, Gemini. This expresses itself most powerfully when you're in the middle of a fight with your partner, as you're capable of taking things to dramatic extremes only to regret what you said later and apologize. One thing's for sure, you're terrible at holding grudges and you're willing to let things go in order to save the relationship.
Hush now, Cancer... it'll be alright. Of all the signs, you're most known for breaking down in a fit of tears during a fight with your partner. It's only because you have such a big and sensitive heart.
Fights with the person you love most are difficult for you to handle, regardless of who's at fault. However, once you're done wiping away the tears, you can definitely hold onto a grudge. You're capable of rehashing arguments that happened years ago, over and over again.
Leo, when your partner wants to fight with you, the first thing that goes through your head is, "Ugh, here we go again." You've got important things on your plate, fighting is such a petty use of your time. Or maybe, you're just a little bit arrogant...? Either way, a fight with you is rarely an equal exchange of perspectives because all you see is your own. You're known for insufferably defending your own beliefs until your partner finally gets tired enough to just agree with you.
It's not that you love starting fights, Virgo... it's just that you can't help it! You have a very strict moral code and if your partner doesn't care to understand that, then you've got a problem. It's difficult for you to pick your battles but you know that resentment will only build overtime without communication. Your partner might consider you uptight and overly critical but you don't see it that way. You're always willing to abide by your partner's needs and you expect the same in return.
You're just trying to keep the peace, Libra, that's all! "Balance" is your middle name, which is why it feels totally crazy when your partner wants to start a fight and ruin everything. This is why we can't have nice things! You have the tendency to avoid your partner when they're upset and shut down, making them feel like they're talking to a wall. Of course, there are certain relationship "no-nos" that you're always willing to fight about — particularly when it makes you jealous. Why exactly are they talking to their ex?
There is no sign sneakier than you during a fight, Scorpio. You fight with your partner without appearing like you're fighting at all, which is what makes it so terrifying! The mind games you play are deadly. You'll have your partner eating out of the palm of your hand after your manipulations have played out accordingly... except when they don't. When your partner starts catching on to your tricks, you'll eventually apologize, until you're able to think of new ones, of course.
When you're upset with your partner, all bets are off, Sagittarius. There's nothing you won't say or do to get your way. I mean, how dare they treat you like this? You enjoy being the princess in your relationships, Sagittarius, which is why it's shocking when they don't speak to you like royalty. But hey, if they want to fight, bring it on. You'll start removing your earrings and start attacking their deepest insecurities. Fighting with you is really a c**kiemonster. They should have known better.
You are such a smart ass during fights, Capricorn. The level at which you're capable of condescendingly minimizing your partner's feelings is truly a sight to be seen. But honestly, all this fighting is so immature. Why can't they just calm down and meditate for a second so you guys can discuss the problem like two adults? Then you can explain to them, rationally, that they're wrong for feeling the way they do. Period.
Oh Aquarius, where are you going? You can't run away from all your problems! Sooner or later, your partner is gonna come looking for you. You have a tendency to want to avoid conflict at all costs, Aquarius. I know you're scared of your emotions but the more you procrastinate on facing them, the more intense they become. On the other hand, sometimes your partner just needs a breather and you know fighting will only makes things worse.
Pisces, you will literally forgive your partner for everything, every time, even if they're 100 percent at fault. Your selflessness is admirable, but sometimes, you allow yourself to become a doormat during fights. I know you just want everyone to get along but sometimes, your partner will take your amiable nature for granted. However, you'll always fight with your partner if they behaved cruelly to someone else. You never fail to be a champion for the underdog, sweet Pisces.
lol i sound more like both the virgo/pisces axis. even the Aries one LOLOL
but i have acted like the taurus... quietly allowing my husband to rage lol
i am not sure about avoiding conflict with the aquarius one. I dont run from the room if he gets really pissed.
i just keep quiet, just like that taurus one.
my memory just floods me of all the things he throws at me then we spar ;p
then we are good later on and huggles.
it's never boring for sure. my best relationship.
What house is your Sun in Lisa? You don't seem Aquarius like when it comes to most things you've expressed on here. Do you lack uranus aspects with other personal planets in your chart?click to expand