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  • sabrinaquarius
    Aqua sun - Aries moon - Gemini rising - Capricorn venus/mars
    female
    Hi, I was wondering if someone could help me understanding this guy better. He's a cancer with libra moon, leo mercury, cancer venus and taurus mars. I met him at a party years ago where we talked a bit, then I befriended him on social media. Months ago I started noticing him more and more, as he kept posting interesting stuff that indicated me that we had a lot in common. Like politics, art, friends, tv series, etc. After some virtual interactions I decided to ask him out, and he said yes. He had a busy week so I told him to text me when he was free, which he did after a couple of days. We met on Saturday, went to a museum, then starbucks, then he kind of took me to two bars that he visits often and where he knows the owners, had dinner at the first one and some drinks at the other one. Were together from 4pm to 1am. I had an AMAZING time. He's really interesting and charming, and we have pretty much everything in common. He also kept remembering little details I told him, asked me about things like my food preferences and talked about his family (which I think are good signs). At some point he got really touchy feely, which I loved (but I think it didn't show as much as I intended), and there were lots of moments when we ended up staring at each other like really intensely. The first time I chickened out so I started eating. Yeah. But then I got some courage and started to move closer gazing into his eyes with the same intensity as him. We were all over each other for literally hours. I thought eventually we were going to kiss, but nothing happened. I wasn't sure if he wanted me to make a move (yeah I'm a bit neurotic, aqua sun, aries moon, gemini rising, aqua mercury, capri venus and mars). We then took the same bus, he put his hands on my back as we said goodbye and told me to text him when I got home so he knew I was safe (which I did, and his response was also really sweet). I texted him today about something funny and we laughed a bit, then he told me he had realized I had paid more on the date so he owed me money, and I told him that was ok (then I realized I could have told him to invite me for another beer...). He didn't answer. A friend adviced me to tell him that I had had a really great time, but I didn't and I feel a little bad.

    I know that it's probably too soon to get all worried and neurotic, but I have never dated a cancer man so I'm not really sure what to expect. I know they're slow to open up, and that his taurus mars can only make that "worse". Do you think he's interested? Or maybe he's that way with all his friends and he sees me as one of them? Should I invite him out again o wait for him to make a move? There was a moment when he mentioned an ex GF which I know is still really close to him (and I'm ok with that), but I'm worried he could still have feelings for her? (I really have zero experience with nostalgic cancers). I don't want my airy chart to mess this up because I really like him. Thanks!
  • Gemini girl here....

    Most of my long-term relationships have been with Earth guys, or guys who have an Earth moon. It never fails. I do believe it has to do with my chart as a whole though. My moon and mercury are in Cancer, while my Venus is in Taurus. Kinda easily draws them in as I'm shy and reserved upon meeting guys I like, and my outward appearance wouldn't lend to that impression as I'm told I have "character" in how I dress, which is true. I think it puzzles them. I do talk a lot, but not with people I don't know, so it takes time with guys and I think it puzzles Earth guys and they want to know more.

    The sign I tend to attract the most out of the Earth dudes? Capricorns. My mom was one, most of my exes have been one and if I'm super attracted to a guy on the spot and don't know why cause he's not doing anything... he's usually Capricorn. The guys also tend to "stick" to me once I open my mouth in their direction..... instant bond and I never know why. *shrugs* I tend to have an issue with them when it comes to taking charge. They want to do it and don't tend to listen to my request much. I know it's not to be mean, but still. Work with them *rolls eyes* Currently dating a Capricorn too. *cries laughing*

    Virgos..... I have a strange relationship with these guys. We usually do a strange dance around each other, and most of the time, it's them who are attracted more than I. Yes, like the Virguy stated above that is usually the characteristics of the relationship, which is fine with me and fun... until it's not. I have Venus in Taurus and eventually, I need to know where my guy fits in the picture. If he doesn't really talk or tell me where he wants to be, he can be a hindrance to future plans I've made and usually, I don't know what to do with him and keep on my plans for the future for myself... eventually, without trying, leaving him out. We don't last usually. I love them dearly as friends though. Super dependable and always usually thinking with a loyal heart towards their loved ones.

    Taurus men....... WHERE THE HELL DO I START HERE?!?!?!?!?!? The men that I love and tend to love me back more intensely are these lovely little spawns of Satan!!!! These men are usually the ones besides Aries, that I want to be within a drop of a dime. Something about them.... just *drools* ugh. I have never met a guy I'm attracted too that I wanted a future with more than these guys. We usually vibe on a level and it's usually mutual. The attraction is intense and usually as we talk and start talking about things like our futures and really what we want and how we want to build it every fiber in my body is unraveled in their hands and THEY FREAKING LOVE IT.Laughing Oh man. Taurus man.... just yes.... Yes.... Capricorn comes second to them at the moment and then Virgos. Just... If your chart is set up for it, find you a lovely Taurus that has the patience and willingness to keep up with you. They will. I tend to love the possessiveness and loyalty of these people as well. All of my female best friends have been Taurus as well. Not on purpose, we just get around each other and "click" best friends. Never fails.

    I'll leave now...... Taurus has me hype now. lol
  • SweetestFatale
    female from USA
    I have dated:
    Capricorn- 3 of them. 2 were more serious relationships, they all drove me crazy. They were unambitious markers. Very smart and outgoing, but no long term potential

    Leo - 1. Apparently I was too mean for him. He was too firey for me. He expected a whole lot more than he was willing to give.

    Scorpio- Great long term potential if he wasn't a habitual cheater. He eventually got a taste of his own medicine and wanted to reconcile, but by that time I just wasn't into him anymore.

    Virgo- Beautiful Man, very ambitious and hard working...but he was scared to commit always looking for the next best thing or looking back at what he thought he missed.

    Pisces- 2. The most long term potential, also the most sensitive, prone to insecurity. I was engaged to one, we were best friends'; he cheated but years later wanted to try again. Denied. I am with one now we are once again best friends. He's amazing, I don't see him cheating, he's too smug to put himself in that position. We'll see how it goes.

    Important to note my Venus is in Aries, My Mars in Scorpio, my Moon is in Capricorn,
  • CuddleBug88
    Yo, add me on twitter if ya wanna chit chat off-DXP, @ is CuddleBug1288
    female from USA
    Sag Sun/Moon, Scorp Venus, Aries Mars

    I dislike confrontation, to an extent. You push me too far and I'm no longer nice tho. I say things to get under your skin, I've thrown things on occasion. I tend to bottle things up, so when I explode it can be a little all over the place...but it blows over quickly and I keep it in the past.
  • TheWeirdOne
    Passionate Earth Moon conjunct Mars.
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    Prolonged foreplay
    Missionary
    Cowgirl (if really feeling it or great chemistry)
    Doggy style (to finish)

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    Virgo Mars


    Extended foreplay is literally the best hot dam


    Especially when done well


    *cough* Taurus.


    I've heard they're amazing with slow and sensual, never experienced it though. If it's as good as they say, my cancer would gladly whip them a sandwich afterwards


    It truly is that good, swayed a Libra Moon & Mars Virgo... she could not resist ever. Moon - Mars Taurus, unsure of Sun.


    What's your sun and placements? Libras are hard to pin down
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    Sun - Jupiter conjunct in Cancer 12th house.
    Leo Mercur 12th house conjunct ASC in Leo.
    Pluto in Scorp in 4th trine Sun and Jup
    Midheaven in Aries, Moon & Mars in Taurus conjunct Midheaven.
    Gemini Venus semisextile Sun.