I'm a cancer born right on the cusp of gemini/ cancer. Most people say cancers are clingy and can hold grudges for a lifetime but I never considered myself to be that way! I have plenty of geminian traits but I'm loyal and a home body like a cancer and I
Inspired by Mariah; Froggy informed me I am compatible (date) this "cusp" sign. I looked it up and this is what I got:
Famous Gemini-Cancer cusps
Nicole Kidman: June 20
Scorpio muddled with Cancer, dash of Gemini and garnished with Sagittarius.
Gemini On in the cusp, House is in cancer.
I’m not sure either are the type I’d settle down with currently. I got a lotta love for cancer men but I’ve never met one that’s emotionally stable enough for a real relationship unless he was 38 or older. The only exception being the ones that married their first loves which still counts me out obviously lol.
I’ve never really been involved or super attracted to a Gemini before either. Amazing people. But their attachment style is so drastically different than mine and we always keep a mutual safe distance on the romance front as a result I think. Lol.
Jupiter in Leo. I lurve Leo’s and Leo placements. But it’s always proved difficult to maintain. I’d probably see myself working out with a Leo before Cancer or Gemini tho. They’re a little more open to love and my lessons with them have been very clear, I’ve learned well what part I played in mismanaging myself with that energy in the past.
Posted by aPiscesPrincess2 Now the Cancer guy wants me back, he just wants to take things slower. He knows I started talking to the Scorpio guy (not dating the Scorpio, just talking to him. The Scorpio knows about the Cancer guy too). I probably should just treat them all as friends and see what happens. =/
Cancer is going to go back and forth, and back and forth. If you know what I know about these two signs, you would choose Scorpio.
Now, I dated a few Cancers. Only the last one did the back and forth cause he was a triple Cancer... Sun, Moon, Ascendant. And, that's what the #1 complaint is about them.
All the others full throttle no pull back at all, ever. My first serious relation lead to a proposal was a Cancer... three years.
Yes, plus Cancers seem to like to take things slower. I'm guessing because this one has Venus in Taurus means he's extra slow too. I don't know either ones rising sign. The Scorpio is extra intense, with 3 planets in Scorpio. I think for now I'll just be friends with both (like I said, they know about each other, so I'm not trying to hide things or play the field lol), and see where it goes from there.
My Cancers did not take it slow at all. I lost my virginity to a Cancer too. I was spoiled by Cancer men. Treated sooo welll.
Do you know what the other signs of those Cancers were? (Besides the triple Cancer). I know the Cancer I'm talking to also has Mercury in Cancer.
Does your Cancer have Venus in Gemini?
No, I was only knew Sun signs when I lost my virginity. The other, I will have to look-up.
No, his Venus is in Taurus. Which from what I understand equals slow lol.
What degree? The numbers?
If I remember, he's 02 degrees Cancer and 28 degrees Taurus. I know because I had to look it up before when someone else asked me that. Since usually the Venus is only within 2 signs away from the sun sign. But I don't know the time he was born, so it's not exact. But I put in different times, to test, and he always comes up with a taurus Venus, no matter what time he was born.
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Venus 28 degrees Taurus (Cancer cusp), 02 degrees Cancer Sun (Gemini Cusp). You bout to go for a ride.
You need to peruse the Cancer Forum. For realz. You'll see. I never had a problem with Cancer until the triple and he was severly bi-polar.
One thing to help, should you insist on persevering through this, you can read their moods by the cycle of the Moon... I did and it worked like clockwork.
Cancer sun/mercury Cap moon Virgo venus/asc Gemini Mars
Romantically I am soo fascinated by Aries men & I love Sagittarian men I think cause they think so differently from me and I’m always trying to understand their perspective... it keeps it interesting to me. & I’m like, dedicated to make it work especially cause it’s “not” supposed to cause I’m a cancer (on the cusp w Leo but still).
My cycle stems from usually Scorpio (m) Pisces (🙄) Capricorn (f) Sag (m) and I attract cancer & Gemini men but never actually dated one & attract Aries (f) but my last experiences have blown up w them so nty.
I always picture myself ended up w a winter/early spring person idk why.
Posted by vivi4656 I like pisces a lot but I've never experienced a relationship with them! I've always attracted scorpio men! I did try and date this one pisces, dude but he was always trying to get into my pants! Not a fan! But I do like how they're emotional, sensitive, and quiet (the men). They're very calm and fun people! My mom is a pisces and she's a little fire cracker! She's more emotional than I am and it's kind of difficult to have debates with her. My best friend is also a pisces and she's very soft spoken! We've been friends for 12 years but on and off! She's my best friend though! She's super sensitive and to herself while I'm more outgoing and I like to meet new people! It was just us two for a very very very long time! She is now dating a cancer and has been with him for two years! She loves him so much! So, I think this is definitely a successful union as far as I'm aware! : )! I like pisces but I really really like scorpios! I actually like how they take control! I dated a cancer man before but cancer men take forever to warm up to a relationship and they're a tad bit too emotional for me! But I do really really really love their family oriented view on life! They're definitely the stay at home dads of the zodiac (which I love ; ))! I just am really such a scorp girl! I think it's because I'm used to them and they're just very masculine to me. But, all water signs are great when they know what they really want! I think they all run into the problem of putting their emotions first and it can be very wish-washy!
You do realise that Scorpio is a feminine sign and not a masucline.
Yes- : )! It's a dark feminine : )! But, they're ruled by mars which gives them power and drive which I find to be a very masculine trait
So you like men who are Mars dominant? I'm having some nice but not so nice thoughts now about you and your Scorpio guy xD
But on a serious note, from a person who's met so many Scoprios in his life (My dad, HS Best Friend,Ex-gf,relatives) I can say that not all Scorpios are masucline or like 'firey'. Some can be, but some can also be whiny little, manipulative butters.
And a guy can be Mars dominant with any Sun Sign for eg. I'm a Pisces with Mars in Aries in 3rd House and alot of times people usually think I give off a Capricorn or Aries type of vibes (Serious looking, Squidward like resting cookiemonster face xD, my love for Football (Soccer) and workouts).
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Awwwh! hahahaha! ! I'm starting to learn that about scorpios too! I love them to death but they can be very confusing to me. My scorpio ex of five years ago likes to keep up with me from time to time! He said he has an undying love for me (blah blah blah) but he was the one that broke up with me to date other women five years back. But, he told me that no one he dated fits him better than I do. I don't think you can tame scorpio men unless they really want to be tamed! I knew many scorpios and they're either all in or not at all. But, even when they aren't all in, I find they like to string you a long for some reason. However, I do like masculine features in a male for some reason. I kind of like that scorpios are protective, a bit possessive, and strong. I like that when they love, they love from their soul. I find that our conversations are effortless and we share the same views on life. I'm an active person (I'm on the cusp of gemini and cancer with most of my chart placements being in gemini and virgo) and I admire someone who can be active with me; however, I am a HUGE sucker for home bodies that are shy and introverted. I guess that's why I like them so much. The only thing I do not like is how secretive they are... and they are great at lying. They could have an undying love for someone and be with you and you would never ever ever ever know. To me, being a cancer, that's a no no. I do not like that. Really? Why do you say that about my boyfriend and I? We're not really getting a long hat well right now. But, I've always admired people who were spiritual and sensitive outwardly and that's what I love about pisces. I love their sweet and tender hearts and I have such a soft spot for them in my heart. I've never dated one though so I have no idea how they act in love.
Awwwh! That's amazing! Bahahah! Squidward face!!!? I'm DEAD 😂😂!! It's really so cool that you're into sports!!