Hi, I have posted already about this same girl. We broke up in May (together 6months and she left).....it was decided initially as we were going back to work in a different country. She will be free in September. Throughout these two months she was lookin
I'm in love with this Sagittarius guy, leo rising his moon is in taurus, venus and mars in capricorn and mercury in sagittarius. He's sun, venus, mars, mercury, jupiter are all in the fifth house.
I'am a Leo sun, cancer moon and venus and mar
gemini with Venus in Cancer will make you fat. Lol. I was asked by my Leo gf to teach her how to grill. In the last two days, I cooked her, tri tip steak, shrimp both days, lobster, flank steak, veggie burgers, ribyeye, corn, sauted mushroom.
I'm a Leo sun Venus cancer.
I know when I love I LOVE.
I also know when Im done I can be nice and cordial but I won't make much efforts to be around you or talk to you.
I am a bad texter
my ex told me the other day she knew I was over her when
Sorry one more question seeing as how you are an aqua male... In terms of compliments and interest... So I am used to more forward raw and sexual compliments. He has called me stunning and a formidable person. Also our last time out he held the door and said “cause I’m a gentleman” and smiled his beautiful smile. I thought that was super sweet. On the outside looking in is this real interest and does he actually like me ?? He’s just a lot more chill and laid back and “wholesome” with his complimenting and actions when we are out. Plus he loves discussing deep subjects and debating with me which I am not used to. I’m used to more superficial talk. So my point is I am having a hard time understanding if he is sexually attracted to me or not. As an aqua male what does this sound like to you? I’m nervous about him!
Hard to tell. Could still be anything. On the other hand I don't know any Aqua who would do that if they aren't interested because we usually don't want to lead people on. The "cause I'm a gentleman" part is what I can't classify but I doubt he would do any of this if he didn't at least like you.
Ok..he also told me once that he awkwardly flirts and that it sucks for everyone involved when he tries 😂
That's the element I can't gauge. If he is completly smooth and not even a little bit awkward he might be too comfortable which in turn can hint at not that attracted.
He does a lot of blushing and looking down when I study him. Bah who knows! I’m almost over it after this post. Seems like too much work. You want me here I am! But then I’m sure he wouldn’t call me stunning and formidable. For an Aquarius I was thinking them calling someone formidable is a huge compliment. Also I doubt he would be going out with me all the time as well. Actually going out at the very beginning was was his idea in the first place 🤔 If he wasn’t so smart and hot I would def be too bored to continue this dissection of his every move lol It’s kind of exhausting tbh
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I don't like that he called you formidable, you are not his opponent, you are his date. I don't like that he didn't say he was picturing YOU in that dress. But I don't say this stuff because I am every bit as incompatible with them as you are and every guy I find to talk to is so dumb that I would love an intelligence and charm break. Even though charm is often a sign of trouble, the vacation would be nice. I have a Cancer brain too lol. All me and you can do about this is spin our wheels back and forth to exhaustion.
Posted by Antiphates I'd say abstract and multilayered sexy talk. I find direct sex talk to be quite the turn off because it often leaves little to the imagination. You either don't know at all that we want to bang you or it is painfully obvious.
I have found that true with Aquarius, especially not knowing at all. I don't like sex talk either, most guys make sex with them sound horrible. They think all women squirt and have multiple orgasms at the slightest touch. They think they can jam it in a girls' butt dry and say they are gonna do really annoying things like "slowly lick your whole body".. How about you don't?
To be fair women aren't that much better in my experience. Stuff like this is hard to pull off in general though, like really hard.
It said it sent but then there’s nothing in my outbox
Yeah, okay. In that case my message don't work at all anymore. Or you have the same problem as me. Could you send other messages before? I double checked my message settings but they were already on receive from all. Sorry.
K on my profile is the story in pics. There are three pics. Hopefully they are in order 🤣
Is he into the loss of control stuff? If not I can see why it might not have been received all that well. If he is older (40-50) it could also have gone against his understanding of masculinity. For me personally this one is still too direct and explicit to be mentally stimulating. By describing the inner conflict and emotions instead of having them introduced through the interactions it makes it harder to be immersed in it. It lacks ambivalence and ambiguty for what it tries to do with the setting.
At it's baseline it can work though, as long as you can deal with the response and play it further. When I got a similiar story with the more classic setting of being bound to the bed I replied with "Only if you are okay with buying a new bed", which scared the other party away for a day.
He’s 29. His response was this edited to cut out other stuff not related- “You are so much more creative than I am, I can barely write my name let alone a story. Right now I’m in bed thinking about low cut dresses I will have a good sleep G’night Mademoiselle”
K also- he is in the army and away on a post so he is also probably totally exhausted.
On another note he told me in a previous email that he likes my emails and to keep emailing him.
Thoughts on the response??
That's quite a positive response though.
I don't know. I'm pretty bad at this stuff. Maybe something along the line of: "Hope it helped you sleep and dream." + some inside refernce about something you talked about that could be linked to the Mademoiselle thing or the creativity thing.
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Oh I forgot to mention I’m 10 years older...
So any advice about Aquarius
And I’m cancer moon cancer sun cancer cancer mercury Scorpio asc