Understanding Pluto in Cancer using Astrology

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  • LostinmyMind11
    😐 Sun -Virgo, Moon -Leo, Ascendant -Scorpio
    34 years old female
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    Only type of relationship I dig.

    Obsessive, magnetic, can't live with/without, jealousy, possessiveness etc.
    I have had the square, trine, sextile, opp to Venus, sun, moon, ascendant, mars etc.

    I've been Pluto and the personal planets.

    Def did a number on the relationships...from both parties....but I feel I was the more level headed person except for the last pairing (wasn't an official relationship...like didn't get off the ground)....I literally wanted to merge his soul with mine, I knew he liked me, the attraction was def there but no idea if he felt the same...he seemed more indifferent but then he'd show a little bit of something.. Idk if Pluto or personal planet. (both have Pluto aspects natally, me scorp rising, and he has a Hades Aqua moon and also his sun conjuncts my moon). 🙄🙄🙄. Disappointed and aggravated with that ordeal lol.


    Is the obsessiveness mutual?

    I’m totally obsessive... I have literally asked my therapist WTF is wrong with me. Because from day 1 it was INTENSE...

    I never asked him if he was mutually obsessive... cause that’s not an easy conversation


    It def was with the first two relationships. My obsession happened later though. But the Pisces found where I lived after we broke up one time and climbed my balcony, broke in and jumped in my bed (I was in it at the time). Scared me to death...not him...just his actions lol. We were together 10 yrs.

    Second one...cancer, I remember when I was at a friend's house and we were on the phone talking, got off the phone and about an hour later caught him driving by lol. We've known each other for like 16 yrs....though right now we aren't talking.

    I never really knew about Pluto aspects etc back then ...so I just kinda thought it was all pretty normal when crazy about someone lol.

    3rd...I could def feel and see that I would get very wrapped up in him. I think he would have drove me crazy...I've never felt that way about someone in a short amount of time. I don't like it lol

    Naw ...ask him. I ask the most ridiculous questions and it never phased any of them 😂


    Never had this level of attraction and dependency in ANY of my relationships. I’m really uncomfortable with it because it’s not my norm. Just having a casual conversation suddeny felt like foreplay. I remember glancing around wondering if other people were picking up on the major sex vibes.... we looked like normal people talking but it felt like we were about to madly make out in just a few more seconds..
    He’s like in every aspect of my life too. We just combined our lives and thoughts the entire time.

    I wasn’t obsessive like I wanted to own him.... obsessive because I’ve never been so crazy about someone. I never did anything over the top with him.


    It sucks .. I know. I've had other bf and never felt anything like I do with Pluto involved. I absolutely hate being vulnerable ...it's so uncomfortable!

    That's so hot though...it's like you are the only two people in the room and no one else knows. Ugh...I want it! Lol

    No, I've never wanted to own anyone either. It just makes you do crazy stuff ...that normally you wouldn't do at least ime. I'm a very level headed person...I don't get to much into my feelings (the hide just under the surface) and it tends to just bring them out and it's overwhelming for me and the other person. But I can't control it...Pluto makes you purge.. it's so uncomfortable 😔


    Does the Pluto person feel ANY any this?


    Yes, very much so. I almost feel like it's my karma because the first two guys were crazy about me but I was just like...yeah, I like you but was more or less indifferent. Now, I can see and feel what they must have been feeling. I also do believe we had DW (double whammys). ie,: his Pluto would trine my Venus and my Venus would oppose his Pluto or something similar. It also can depend on if you have Pluto aspects natally and how you handle them. If someone is familiar with the energy...then they can be calm and aloof like with the synastry...not that they don't feel it...but they have better control of it.


    We have a ton of Pluto aspects but it’s me and his the Pluto.

    So i don’t know if it’s like this for him. I know he’s super drawn to me. I guess I just wanted it verbalized. But he’s an actions guy.

    It’s annoying because we end things and we then we just go back to. Each time we reunite it’s even tighter then before.
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    I know exactly how you feel. 1st guy...I'm not really sure who was who but he verbalized pretty quickly, wanted to marry me like 6 months in but it was nice to know instead of guessing.

    2nd guy...I know he liked me and more than friends but we were never on the same page...he had a gf and I had the 1st guy....so we remained friends but I would never let us be alone cause I knew lol. Anyway..years later when we were both single...we just kinda made it happen. But one min he'd tell me and the next min he take it back...I thought it must be him being a cancer ..which is probably true but I know now Pluto was in play.. we had a number of like 30+ on the aspects deal 🤪. It was a lot of push pull and it was exhausting...I just wanted him to tell me once and for all...he may one day.

    Even the softer aspects are just as draining and exhausting...but I love it and hate it lol.
  • LostinmyMind11
    😐 Sun -Virgo, Moon -Leo, Ascendant -Scorpio
    34 years old female
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    Only type of relationship I dig.

    Obsessive, magnetic, can't live with/without, jealousy, possessiveness etc.
    I have had the square, trine, sextile, opp to Venus, sun, moon, ascendant, mars etc.

    I've been Pluto and the personal planets.

    Def did a number on the relationships...from both parties....but I feel I was the more level headed person except for the last pairing (wasn't an official relationship...like didn't get off the ground)....I literally wanted to merge his soul with mine, I knew he liked me, the attraction was def there but no idea if he felt the same...he seemed more indifferent but then he'd show a little bit of something.. Idk if Pluto or personal planet. (both have Pluto aspects natally, me scorp rising, and he has a Hades Aqua moon and also his sun conjuncts my moon). 🙄🙄🙄. Disappointed and aggravated with that ordeal lol.


    Is the obsessiveness mutual?

    I’m totally obsessive... I have literally asked my therapist WTF is wrong with me. Because from day 1 it was INTENSE...

    I never asked him if he was mutually obsessive... cause that’s not an easy conversation
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    It def was with the first two relationships. My obsession happened later though. But the Pisces found where I lived after we broke up one time and climbed my balcony, broke in and jumped in my bed (I was in it at the time). Scared me to death...not him...just his actions lol. We were together 10 yrs.

    Second one...cancer, I remember when I was at a friend's house and we were on the phone talking, got off the phone and about an hour later caught him driving by lol. We've known each other for like 16 yrs....though right now we aren't talking.

    I never really knew about Pluto aspects etc back then ...so I just kinda thought it was all pretty normal when crazy about someone lol.

    3rd...I could def feel and see that I would get very wrapped up in him. I think he would have drove me crazy...I've never felt that way about someone in a short amount of time. I don't like it lol

    Naw ...ask him. I ask the most ridiculous questions and it never phased any of them 😂
  • Shes:

    Sun sagitarius
    Moon: leo
    Asc sagitarius
    Mercury scorpio
    Venus scorpio
    Mars capricorn
    Jupiter libra
    Saturn libra
    Uranus scorpio
    Neptune sagitarius
    Pulto libra

    Her Key houses: sag sun in 12 house

    Me: sun and asc leo
    Moon cancer
    Mercury cancer
    Venus virgo
    Mars capricorn
    Jupiter pisces
    Saturn sagitarius
    Uranus sagitarius
    Neptune capricorn
    Pluto scorpio

    My key houses: sun in first house and mercury and moon in 12 house
  • Posted by MyStarsShine
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    Mother wound
    Wounding around women

    😥


    Please elaborate... It sounds about right at least for me.


    It can indicate having a wounded mother or the mothering you received felt painful. You may have similar issues being a mother, although I would argue that with awareness this could be healed 💙. You may encounter women with issues...and it can also mean profound sensitivity in both yourself and others you meet. Which house/s are the planets in and what aspect do they make to each other?

    I hope you are doing okay 😘
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    Thank you lady. ❤️ And yes, my mom did have a painful time taking care of me during my earlier years because of the medical issues I had at birth... Pluto in my 5th House makes me wary about wanting to bear children myself. And the sensitivity part is unfortunately correct, haha... I have a short temper.

    House I: Cancer
    Moon in Cancer
    Sun in Leo

    House 2: Leo, empty

    House 3: Virgo
    Mercury in Virgo
    Venus in Virgo

    House 4: Libra
    Mars in Virgo
    Chiron in Virgo

    House 5: Scorpio
    Pluto in Sagittarius

    House 6: Sagittarius, empty

    House 7: Capricorn
    Uranus in Aquarius
    Neptune in Capricorn

    House 8: Aquarius
    Jupiter in Aquarius

    House 9: Pisces, empty

    House 10: Aries
    Saturn in Aries

    House 11: Taurus, empty

    House 12: Gemini, empty
  • TheWeirdOne
    Passionate Earth Moon conjunct Mars.
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    Why are women asking the flavor? Like, haven’t you ever kissed a guy after he’s gone down on you?
    My flavor and smell changes throughout the month. Sometimes it’s totally neutral and other times it’s more kitty like...

    Well treetrunk you all for getting me wet, excited and unfulfilled! AGAIN



    What Sun sign are you?


    Libra....



    Hmm i don't think all Libra are this open, i know a few..

    Actually there is quite the attraction in real life but i think it is my 11th house Gem Venus as i am a Cancer Sun so.. lol


    Open sexually?

    Well in my other post it’s been brought to my attention my Mars in Cap makes me a freak...

    I’m not promiscuous but I’m comfortable with sex.


    Oh good. I did sense some Earthyness to you, my Moon in Taurus and Mars are very receptive.

    Just gotta get out there is all i can say, but go for the right one.. which actually is not that easy, Mars in Cap can handle it though smile


    Im a lot of water and air... so much Scorpio in me...

    I don’t really think sleeping around is for me. I grew up in a very conservative faith and I’m just now experimenting. I have a hard hard hard time letting go of people I’ve been emotionally and sexually intimate with. I have no practice at it so I don’t know how to do it.


    Bless. Well you seem quite balanced, and i love people who are in tune with themselves, at least you embrace your sexuality. smile


    No reason to be afraid of it...

    Although it was probably more intense then the aqua sun with the aqua mars was prepared for. I unleashed on him.....


    I like intense and unleashing so long as it is sensual too and not rabid lol.


    Dominating and sensual.... I tend to like being in control and then have it taken from me. Rabid, no oh no...

    The point is to build, release then build again.... like waves....

    He just didn’t think I’d be so intense...

    I am curious if there’s something identifiable in a natal chart that gives off sensual energy? Maybe my Scorpio rising? Because I tend to draw men in, but they’re not treetrunkboy types. Usually intellectuals...


    Funny you say this my chart has Mercury conjunct ASC in Leo, yes Scorpio is very sensual yet controlling which i like.. but i have Taurus energy we can do either dominant or submissive, usually the woman on top, then as that wave comes again bring you in and go at you from underneath, i totally get it.


    A Taurus has been chasing me since 2000.... let that sink in.... I attract a lot of them.

    My husband was Libra with Virgo so sex was all about me. Plus, I’m greedy so I too make it about me....

    I don’t feel I’m dominate with people. But I certainly align with Capricorn Mars...


    Yup Cancer's love to give pleasure to the woman over themselves.. so lol it's weird how your combination actually makes quite a good match sexually.

    Cool discussion smile


    I think my sexuality is fairly flexible. I don’t have a fixed way of doing things.

    I had very different ways of working with my partners when I was dating. If he was older and more experienced I wouldn’t let him take over because I KNEW that’s what he wanted. I had this Scorpio guy who was after me. I sat on his chest, pinned down his arms and I took control. If he even tried to dominate my kiss I’d slap him.

    He never saw that coming from a goody goody Virgin.... he told me recently that it was ridiculously hot at the time. He had no idea what he was getting into and enjoyed my control...


    Sat on his chest... that's sexy...

    Touch to me is very sexually pleasurable so feeling my ladies sexy ass on my chest is... wow lol.


    I never spent much time working on touch, itbwas always about treetrunking. Recently discovered the joy of just touching and connecting. It has an intensity for sure. Going slow and exploring...

    Hoping to experience that again at some point.


    I hope you do, it builds up such a huge passion and deep feeling, well for me anyway.

    Hope things work out and you get it.. sorted smile


    Agreed on the passion and feelings. I don’t know, I hear so many stories of emotionally unavailable men faking connection during sex. It’s kinda scary...

    What I felt was real and deep. Which is why it’s hard to let go. I don’t know how others can allow such venerablity and connection then walk away and have it mean nothing?

    Scorpio Venus coming through, we’re intense...


    If a relationship is toxic i eventually will have to part ways but it is really not easy to do that to me, i put my all in.

    You seem very Scorpio to me, though Venus in Scorpio is actually in it's detriment, it can have a lasting and intense relationship that fulfills sexual desire and relationship goals. smile


    You seem to know a lot about astrology, what do you peg me as? I’m curious... I’m still learning.

    My ability to have a fulfilling and good relationship appears to be treetrunked up according to my birth chart. I’ll always be challenged to find happiness... one failed marriage later and I have to agree..


    Intense but open about it, which makes you someone people can relate to, that is perhaps what you need in life, understanding.


    People tell me their secrets. They feel safe opening up to me. I tend to draw people in...

    I get a lot of understanding now, oddly enough the more open i became about my ‘skeletons’ the more support I received.

    People are interesting like that. But I’m also easily bored... I rarely find someone intellectually stimulating for longer then a month or so..
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    Intellectually this depends on how deep you are willing to go, if you have common reception to the goals you both want, and the style and mannerism of speech between each other.

    I am quite drawn to you, i have Pluto in Scorp, Sun & Jupiter in Cancer, and your Venus is in my 4th house, my Sun & Jup are 12th house so words would not be needed for that depth, which is why i find you fascinating really as i see a warm person who sometimes perhaps behaves outwardly in a fighting manner when truthfully you are just trying to express your deepest love.

    Your Venus will be trine my Sun, Jupiter, conjunct Pluto.