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I've always been Pluto except with the Scorp.
With the Pisces, we had the square Venus/pluto and his Pluto squared my moon. Our moons squared each other too but wide orb I do believe. Lots of power struggles, possessiveness, jealousy, obsession...all the Pluto themes. Not sure who was more obsessed...I believe it was equal there. I can only do the intense butter even tho when things are bad....they can get bad and I feel like complete butter. When things were good...they were sooo good! Lots of push/pull and playing on emotions... especially because we were young....so it was exhausting. The moon/Pluto square tho...it's so emotionally binding!
Even the "good aspects" aren't "good"imo. I've had the Sextile and trine (I was still Pluto). Same issues...but not as pronounced...more like a passive aggressive back and forth. With the Sextile....I would say he was more obsessed. I loved him..still do but I was always skeptical because he was wishy washy... consistently wishy washy so I acted aloof like but we had a lot of 8th, 5th and I think 7th house stuff too amongst other stuff.
The trine....well, idk how to even describe this one tbh. Lots of back and forth, I would say power struggles, obsessive (me more than him or at least I show it), control issues/possessiveness (me again), jealousy (both) etc. My Pluto tho falls in his 1st house conjunct his ascendant, we have mars/Pluto dw (Sextile and opposition), Sun/Pluto dw (square and conjunction), Pluto/Lilith, etc. I think I scare him even tho he's plutonic himself... figure that one out?! Lol. He's told me that I make him feel vulnerable and naked 🤷 but he keeps coming back 🙄.
Good times lol 😋
Sextile is a sometimey aspect leaning towards good.
Yeah I would agree...that one was the easier of them. We didn't so much have the Pluto issues except every so often but I think it was because he was obsessed with me and it gave me no reason to worry or bring up those issues all the time. Plus I have the Sextile natally.
I think obsession is the only thing I notice. Or, whether I draw it because I don't pay attention.
We had some issues with jealousy and possessiveness but we were younger too at that time and as we got older and were more of a thing...all that kinda disappeared except the obsession. He couldn't take his hands off me... sometimes I wonder if it was all sex with him and it was but it was also more too...just my insecurities on that because normally that's all anyone wants from me....it's annoying. Like I love sex but I need more than just that 🤷
Yeah, it mostly starts with intense infatuation for me. I know it when it happens. It's the man who literally does a double take when seeing me, lol. It then turns to sexual, sexual love, and I don't think they've been in a situation where they've felt it so strong, so they think it's love.
But, we know the negative parts of ourselves that they either don't know, won't acknowledge. It makes me self-conscious about it all. So, I drag out the honey moon, infatuation part as long as I can until they treetrunking explode with anger and exhaustion because I won't get into a commitment. Like my career side, or wild side, or my artist/performer side.. depending on what side they initally fell for. Overall, they just like the energy not knowing the multi-faceted source.
Yep ..I can def agree.
Still feels so good though. All the pull and power sometimes?
Yeah it does lol. Except for this last person...I feel completely powerless. Hot and cold...I can usually reel him in for a little bit but then poof...I gave up but he def runs the show but in the end...Pluto will when Venus can't give us what we want.
Edit: Just wanted to clarify to the people reading or wondering....yes Pluto does feel it and strongly and majority aren't putting on a show or not being genuine. If they are coming on strong and seem pushy or assertive...it's legit.
I'm passive... lazy in courtship. It's all them. I just don't notice until the police is knocking at my door... long story but, I had a male friend that I would go dancing with. He'd been on the country side, I'd be on the hip hop side. One night I Cancer, who he knew liked me, went with us. The other people have gone with us to include males. I left with the Cancer and left my car, an expensive car mind you, with the Scorp so he could get home.
Next thing you know, the police are at my door. The Scorp got mad and had such a fit outside, he got arrested. I went to get my car and my phone from him. I look through my phone and he has purposely called people at my job as they are in a group called job. Not only that but my Cap aunt was calling my house phone because he had called her too. Crazy.
Long story short, we made up after me avoiding him. One night I go back to his place and we talk about past relationships. I'm on the bed, he's at his desk. I fall asleep to being awoken by head. One hour of head... no intercourse. When he's done he just holds me real tight all night.
That's the kinda stuff I get into. Got tons more. Some don't involve sex.
I usually am too to where guys think I don't care because I'm so nonchalant about things. I could really like them and be obsessive but it was usually kept to myself...hated looking like a fool. The last guy tho...I don't even care if I look foolish but I won't let myself get that kinda crazy like showing up at his house like he showed up at my apt when I didn't answer my phone. But then he still does that hot/cold butter...like trying to convince himself he doesn't have the same obsessive feelings.
Scorps can be some crazy mofos! My dad was a scorp...so I got to witness that butter all my life. His favorite thing to do to basically get revenge was burn their butter. He'd put it all in a big pile and light it up smh. He did the same to me when he was really pissed off at me...he took all my childhood stuff and burned it. To piss him off more.. I told him thanks ...that will save me from dragging all that butter around the rest of my life. The look on his face was hilarious because he really thought he got me. Not gonna lie tho...it hurt. He did apologize for it later on. treetrunked up tho still to do to anyone let alone your kid. He was who he was tho.
The one I was dealing with recently after him calling me a treetrunking cookiemonster when I wasn't one and me walking right out the door after he said it...called me over 20 times from his number and another number, a bunch of texts...I know he would have eventually showed up at my place if I wouldn't have told him that I had absolutely nothing to treetrunking say to his ass.
I've come to realize I can't control that these will always be the type of people I attract but I can control which kinda crazy they bring and if I wanna deal with it or not. I've been lucky none have ever turned abusive etc.click to expand