Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by AjuPosted by VenusAquarius
My 6th and 7th house are in Cancer. Both houses are empty. Leo is eclipsed in the 7th. My chart is almost all air so imagine my initial disdain.
I hate having 7th house Cancer and a double dose no less. Partners have been emotional.
When single, emotional men. My husband is a Cancer Moon and I still cringe at his displays. I've witnessed so many men cry. Why me?
I guess there are some good points. But, I am resentful that in my developmental stages in life, society, culture, etc. painted women this way and men as stoic. And, it may be true. But, it is absolutelt not true for me and I was not prepared.
What gets me is the men I've been involved with put on a good societal face. Next thing you know, I'm naked holding a man twice my size as he cries. Even a fling ends in locked arm cuddling. Or, they throw tantrums...crying on the phone...screaming on the phone...
This is my fate. I couldn't escape it.
One thing good about men with "great emotional depth" is they are often very perceptive of others. I've had men with Moon in all.Water signs.... and they almost always had Moon square Venus.
I think it's my tits.
not laughing at you but just how you describe it...
I definitely just think you like the positive side to it of course....The understanding of the cancer energy
in your 7th house.
You know, men who enjoy spending time with you...cuddling...being home with you...and maybe most
important men who understand empathy and know how to sense what you are feeling and respect that
I had no choice. This is what I always get. I don't know men any other way. When I dated, I waited for it... There was no shallow end of the pool. Everything's so raw and open... even when they try to control themselves.
But, there is good and I'm afraid that I may be in the way of more good... as they have and he does try to adjust to me.
I have often wondered why a watery, water Moon man would want me (cause I never initiated). Sometimes I think it's because there's plenty of room for their emotions to run wild and free without competition or rare need to accomodate another's emotions... I've had to tell my husband, "hey buddy, you're not the only one who feels around here."
But, they write and say the most deeply loving original heartfelt words and their emotional fortitude fires some true passion and heroics.
They just don't understand the 5 foot 3 view. Cause big passionate guys feeling seems intense to me whether positive or negative.
I might have made a choice somewhere as child... somewhere in my swooning over music and poetry...
... and didn't know what that looks like in real life.click to expand
Posted by LethalFantasiaPosted by VenusAquarius
I must admit... as a Venus in Aqua...I'm sometimes into "rejects" and want to "put them on." That's what call it "putting them on" or like Biance popularized, "upgrade" them.
This was meeeeee in HS and then the same people treetrunked me over like years later
But I did it because I genuinely lahved these people!! lolz
And only now I'm starting to realize the amount of energy I give to others and have like so little left for me and I wonder why I had like a very srs drinking problem
Stop upgrading the lessers and keep upgrading yourself plz
kthxbai!click to expand