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@misslibrascorpio
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Nah that's wiiiiiiiiiiild
Posted by poppyflower
Why did you go without a debit card? Maybe he thought you were trying to indirectly mooch off of him...
Because I had left my debit card at my best friends and she’s holding on to it until I see her. I do not give off mooching vibes. I do believe in a man paying for dates and such things in the beginning of dating a woman, that’s just standard. If he was my boyfriend than paying for drinks wouldn’t feel awkward. Another thing is we didn’t even go to dinner because of his lack of effort looking into not only a decent sushi place but one that was open.
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by misslibrascorpioPosted by poppyflower
Why did you go without a debit card? Maybe he thought you were trying to indirectly mooch off of him...
Because I had left my debit card at my best friends and she’s holding on to it until I see her. I do not give off mooching vibes. I do believe in a man paying for dates and such things in the beginning of dating a woman, that’s just standard. If he was my boyfriend than paying for drinks wouldn’t feel awkward. Another thing is we didn’t even go to dinner because of his lack of effort looking into not only a decent sushi place but one that was open.
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But you were expecting him to pay for the entire date for both of you. That's probably the message he got... I'm guessing he did already pay for the whole thing on first date as well. Maybe he had prior bad experiences with women who were gold diggers.
I find Caps aren't necessarily stingy but often tends to be money conscious.click to expand
I offered to send him money which I attempted to a few times but it wasn’t going through so my effort to pay for the 3 round was given. My Zelle wasn’t working my Apple Pay wasn’t working, my bank was flagging my transactions all day that day too.
This doesn’t give him a reason to leave me at an establishment with an open tab.
Luckily I was able to contact my best friend to get me
an Uber because my Apple wallet wasn’t even allowing me to do that.
Posted by IWANTTOWINPosted by misslibrascorpioPosted by poppyflowerI offered to send him money which I attempted to a few times but it wasn’t going through so my effort to pay for the 3 round was given. My Zelle wasn’t working my Apple Pay wasn’t working, my bank was flagging my transactions all day that day too.Posted by misslibrascorpioBut you were expecting him to pay for the entire date for both of you. That's probably the message he got... I'm guessing he did already pay for the whole thing on first date as well. Maybe he had prior bad experiences with women who were gold diggers.Posted by poppyflower
Why did you go without a debit card? Maybe he thought you were trying to indirectly mooch off of him...
Because I had left my debit card at my best friends and she’s holding on to it until I see her. I do not give off mooching vibes. I do believe in a man paying for dates and such things in the beginning of dating a woman, that’s just standard. If he was my boyfriend than paying for drinks wouldn’t feel awkward. Another thing is we didn’t even go to dinner because of his lack of effort looking into not only a decent sushi place but one that was open.
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I find Caps aren't necessarily stingy but often tends to be money conscious.
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This doesn’t give him a reason to leave me at an establishment with an open tab.
Luckily I was able to contact my best friend to get me
an Uber because my Apple wallet wasn’t even allowing me to do that.
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u failed the cap male test, he just leftclick to expand
I wonder how he would feel if in the future his daughter gets tested this way. lol
How will you survive the group chat after leaving a date hungry and still broke
Gemini women are laughing at this
The chemistry was 100% amazing! Meaning sexual and mental connection was there. He was love bombing like crazy which was a little weird, he even bought me flowers.
He told me “I’d be the type of guy to fill your gas tank and fix things for you”.
I have my own place and my Nissan but this man rented a room and told me the reason why he stayed with his baby mama was because he had nowhere else to go so to me it’s not me being the mooch, he’s used to living off a woman probably.
He told me “I’d be the type of guy to fill your gas tank and fix things for you”.
I have my own place and my Nissan but this man rented a room and told me the reason why he stayed with his baby mama was because he had nowhere else to go so to me it’s not me being the mooch, he’s used to living off a woman probably.
He planned the date, he was late. I have money in my account, that wasn’t the issue. I also offered to send money but it wasn’t working.
Instead of him trying to understand the situation and find another solution like he left.
I’ve never been treated this way and I was just shocked he calls himself a man.
Men don’t do this lol
Instead of him trying to understand the situation and find another solution like he left.
I’ve never been treated this way and I was just shocked he calls himself a man.
Men don’t do this lol
Unbelievable
Has he tried to reach out yet?
Has he tried to reach out yet?
Posted by misslibrascorpio
The chemistry was 100% amazing! Meaning sexual and mental connection was there. He was love bombing like crazy which was a little weird, he even bought me flowers.
He told me “I’d be the type of guy to fill your gas tank and fix things for you”.
I have my own place and my Nissan but this man rented a room and told me the reason why he stayed with his baby mama was because he had nowhere else to go so to me it’s not me being the mooch, he’s used to living off a woman probably.
Talk is cheap. That last paragraph sums up the kind of dude he is. I have no idea how any of that attracted you to begin with. And a guy not on time for no good reason is usually a red flag.
Posted by misslibrascorpio
The chemistry was 100% amazing! Meaning sexual and mental connection was there. He was love bombing like crazy which was a little weird, he even bought me flowers.
He told me “I’d be the type of guy to fill your gas tank and fix things for you”.
I have my own place and my Nissan but this man rented a room and told me the reason why he stayed with his baby mama was because he had nowhere else to go so to me it’s not me being the mooch, he’s used to living off a woman probably.
Wait he’s still with his babies mother’s house…passing you a story they’re not together??
Nah, sorry. Men don’t stay in their exes homes.
You didn’t fail a test, he ran out of time on the clock.
Posted by misslibrascorpio
The chemistry was 100% amazing! Meaning sexual and mental connection was there. He was love bombing like crazy which was a little weird, he even bought me flowers.
He told me “I’d be the type of guy to fill your gas tank and fix things for you”.
I have my own place and my Nissan but this man rented a room and told me the reason why he stayed with his baby mama was because he had nowhere else to go so to me it’s not me being the mooch, he’s used to living off a woman probably.
Nissan 👀…
Posted by Wurted
I dont know what zelle is
but I would never leave the house without money or cards
The idea is completely foreign to me
Me too. I use Google wallet so my card details are in my phone but I will also never go out without money even if it wasn't.
I think it's OP's entitlement that was a huge turnoff for the guy. Going without any money expecting the guy to pay for everything. Getting offended when he asked if it's ok for you cover the second round though he probably paid for the dinner and drinks prior? He probably thought she was just using him.
On the contrary I find caps generally very generous to the point where I've seen a lot of women taken advantage of them for their generousity.
Posted by misslibrascorpioPosted by poppyflowerPosted by misslibrascorpioBut you were expecting him to pay for the entire date for both of you. That's probably the message he got... I'm guessing he did already pay for the whole thing on first date as well. Maybe he had prior bad experiences with women who were gold diggers.Posted by poppyflower
Why did you go without a debit card? Maybe he thought you were trying to indirectly mooch off of him...
Because I had left my debit card at my best friends and she’s holding on to it until I see her. I do not give off mooching vibes. I do believe in a man paying for dates and such things in the beginning of dating a woman, that’s just standard. If he was my boyfriend than paying for drinks wouldn’t feel awkward. Another thing is we didn’t even go to dinner because of his lack of effort looking into not only a decent sushi place but one that was open.
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I find Caps aren't necessarily stingy but often tends to be money conscious.
click to expand
I offered to send him money which I attempted to a few times but it wasn’t going through so my effort to pay for the 3 round was given. My Zelle wasn’t working my Apple Pay wasn’t working, my bank was flagging my transactions all day that day too.
This doesn’t give him a reason to leave me at an establishment with an open tab.
Luckily I was able to contact my best friend to get me
an Uber because my Apple wallet wasn’t even allowing me to do that.click to expand
My guess is how you handled the situation on a emotional level was a red flag for him.
I imagine you had attitude about the situation that he was not ok with. Also, soured the night, especially continuously trying to zelle and getting frustrated.
Whoa!
Where do you find such assholes?
Too many red flags: 1) in a relationship; 2) with young (?) child; 3) leaving with his partner; 4) love bombing; 5) late; 6) late again; 7) invites you for dinner, but didn't reserve; 8) turns up at 10 pm (!) but didn't even check if still open/serving; 9) didn't care to find an alternative or that you were hungry; 10) tried to get you drunk with drinks on an empty stomach; 11) not prepare to pay for the date HE ARRANGED; 12) left like the cowards he was, etc
Next time don't wait for the flags to accumulate...leave early!
And no, you didn't have to pay if it was HIM who invited you for dinner! You went on this date prepared to be wined and dined, not go hungry on a drinking bender! I'm all for taking turns to pay on different dates, but he was a cheap loser who didn't want/couldn't afford to pay in full for one single date(another red flag).
Where do you find such assholes?
Too many red flags: 1) in a relationship; 2) with young (?) child; 3) leaving with his partner; 4) love bombing; 5) late; 6) late again; 7) invites you for dinner, but didn't reserve; 8) turns up at 10 pm (!) but didn't even check if still open/serving; 9) didn't care to find an alternative or that you were hungry; 10) tried to get you drunk with drinks on an empty stomach; 11) not prepare to pay for the date HE ARRANGED; 12) left like the cowards he was, etc
Next time don't wait for the flags to accumulate...leave early!
And no, you didn't have to pay if it was HIM who invited you for dinner! You went on this date prepared to be wined and dined, not go hungry on a drinking bender! I'm all for taking turns to pay on different dates, but he was a cheap loser who didn't want/couldn't afford to pay in full for one single date(another red flag).
*living with his partner*...
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by misslibrascorpioBecause YOU DESERVED IT.
Why would anyone do this to a woman?
Going through life demanding to be treated like a goddess, solely due to vaguely resembling a third-rate Kardashian impersonator, while expecting 'real men' to be nothing but pathetic simps to your every whim, isn't going to get you very far.
Good luck with your self-entitled attitude.
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100% would let her take a night of my life
Date would have been immediately cancelled when he even tried showing up at 10pm in the very first place 💅🏻 9:30 would have been my hard cut off.
This is why if I’m asked out on a date and I’m flat broke I don’t go. Even if the guy tells me ahead of time he is going to pay. I mean anything could happen. He could ditch me, he could have a heart attack in the middle of dinner and then I’m left trying to maneuver a wallet out of the pocket of a lifeless body while people are staring at me. No thank you. 😬 Shitty move him just leaving you there though. I don’t like that, but there are shitty people in this world. It’s just a fact of life. In fact I view everyone as shitty until they prove me otherwise. 🤷♀️
Yeah, after reading your stuff well present and past, I wouldn't give you more than a Snickers bar and maybe a glass of water.
Ewww.
Ewww.
I learned a long time ago not to go on a date with out money just incase. I had a guy in college try to pay our meal with a check. So embarrassing. Luckily I had a credit card on me. Usually guys pay but I always have money on me to pay for myself or incase I get stranded(Uber has not always been a thing).
Suck it up as a life lesson and move on.
Suck it up as a life lesson and move on.
I can’t get past the $ 700.00 for insurance and registration 😯.
I never leave the house without my ID and some money. Ever.
When it comes to money, I don’t trust my own family and yet alone some random guy. Always be ready to take care of yourself, for yourself and by yourself. It’s about survival.
When it comes to money, I don’t trust my own family and yet alone some random guy. Always be ready to take care of yourself, for yourself and by yourself. It’s about survival.
Posted by Shakedown-
I can’t get past the $ 700.00 for insurance and registration 😯.
With those kind of numbers, we are literally talking to a walking disaster of a person.
I’m old and don’t date anymore, but if a man expected to go dutch on any of the first 3 dates, I’d be polite and understanding pay for myself but that would be the last time he saw me.
It’s not looking to be a gold digger, you are just assessing his actions and how he treats you. Is he happy to take care of you or to see you happy? Is he generous and easy going around spending money? Is he spending above his means to impress you? (this is a red flag)
Its great that we move into a world were men and women have more equal opportunity. But it ain’t fucking equal and women take on more risk in relationships. We take on more financial risk if we get pregnant, more risk to our safety and wellbeing.
In our society we are expected bring home the same amount of money but do 80-90% of the domestic labor of taking care of the children, home and the man, and that's if he doesn't decide to leave you to take care of it on your own. If he can’t pay for the first 3 dates, he can’t afford to be in a relationship with you. That man was gross.
It’s not looking to be a gold digger, you are just assessing his actions and how he treats you. Is he happy to take care of you or to see you happy? Is he generous and easy going around spending money? Is he spending above his means to impress you? (this is a red flag)
Its great that we move into a world were men and women have more equal opportunity. But it ain’t fucking equal and women take on more risk in relationships. We take on more financial risk if we get pregnant, more risk to our safety and wellbeing.
In our society we are expected bring home the same amount of money but do 80-90% of the domestic labor of taking care of the children, home and the man, and that's if he doesn't decide to leave you to take care of it on your own. If he can’t pay for the first 3 dates, he can’t afford to be in a relationship with you. That man was gross.
Even if you get pregnant, there is no guarantee a man will take care of you. You can’t measure it by him paying for the dates.
Again, women must be ready to take care of themselves. And I come from a traditional background but I am self-aware.
Again, women must be ready to take care of themselves. And I come from a traditional background but I am self-aware.
@xyzabc “he could have a heart attack in the middle of dinner and then I’m left trying to maneuver a wallet out of the pocket of a lifeless body while people are staring at me.”
Haha!! I’m sitting here laughing aloud at the visual on this! 💀😵🤣
Haha!! I’m sitting here laughing aloud at the visual on this! 💀😵🤣
From a self preservation standpoint, you just need to have access to your own money 24/7/365, period no matter who you are, you need to be independent to be able to get yourself out of a situation like this (or worse) as a baseline
All of this would have been avoided at the beginning though if you had boundaries that it’s not okay for a man to roll up an hour late for no reason to a date at a time that you both decided, showing he has no issue with wasting your time. Setting expectations that is not an acceptable behavior - I think this dude ultimately went out without any money too. Yall both couldn’t pay for the date 😬I don’t know what your age is either, but bar hopping is not an acceptable alternative to dinner 🤷🏼♀️
This dude was a loser, there’s no loss here. As a woman, you can’t just expect men to have money these days. That’s a fairy tale long past. Most men aren’t the mature and masculine providers that women are seeking. Too many can barely make their own bills or hold down a job 💀
All of this would have been avoided at the beginning though if you had boundaries that it’s not okay for a man to roll up an hour late for no reason to a date at a time that you both decided, showing he has no issue with wasting your time. Setting expectations that is not an acceptable behavior - I think this dude ultimately went out without any money too. Yall both couldn’t pay for the date 😬I don’t know what your age is either, but bar hopping is not an acceptable alternative to dinner 🤷🏼♀️
This dude was a loser, there’s no loss here. As a woman, you can’t just expect men to have money these days. That’s a fairy tale long past. Most men aren’t the mature and masculine providers that women are seeking. Too many can barely make their own bills or hold down a job 💀
Posted by geminiflyby
@xyzabc “he could have a heart attack in the middle of dinner and then I’m left trying to maneuver a wallet out of the pocket of a lifeless body while people are staring at me.”
Haha!! I’m sitting here laughing aloud at the visual on this! 💀😵🤣
That’s just how my Scorpio mind works! 🤷♀️🤣
Posted by Astrobyn
I’m old and don’t date anymore, but if a man expected to go dutch on any of the first 3 dates, I’d be polite and understanding pay for myself but that would be the last time he saw me.
It’s not looking to be a gold digger, you are just assessing his actions and how he treats you. Is he happy to take care of you or to see you happy? Is he generous and easy going around spending money? Is he spending above his means to impress you? (this is a red flag)
Its great that we move into a world were men and women have more equal opportunity. But it ain’t fucking equal and women take on more risk in relationships. We take on more financial risk if we get pregnant, more risk to our safety and wellbeing.
In our society we are expected bring home the same amount of money but do 80-90% of the domestic labor of taking care of the children, home and the man, and that's if he doesn't decide to leave you to take care of it on your own. If he can’t pay for the first 3 dates, he can’t afford to be in a relationship with you. That man was gross.
This man literally told me “I’m the type of man who will put gas in your car and build things for you”.
I was in no way giving off a vibe that I wanted to take advantage of him. If anything he was also saying things like “I need to wife you up asap”.
I mean I can’t believe what a scam that was and that was our 2nd date! lol
I like that rule, if a man can’t pay for the first 3 dates he can’t afford to be dating. I firmly believe this too.
I had money I just couldn’t move it and he also failed to plan the date properly that he was late and the sushi place was closed so the least someone can do is make up for it.
Thank you 🩷
Just to clarify he isn’t living with his baby mama. He told me the reason why he stayed with her in the past is because he didn’t have anywhere else to go.
I gave him the benefit of the doubt on being late but that’s gone now. If a guy makes me wait now the date will be cancelled.
Lesson learned not to go on a date without my physical card.
I gave him the benefit of the doubt on being late but that’s gone now. If a guy makes me wait now the date will be cancelled.
Lesson learned not to go on a date without my physical card.
Posted by misslibrascorpioPosted by Astrobyn
I’m old and don’t date anymore, but if a man expected to go dutch on any of the first 3 dates, I’d be polite and understanding pay for myself but that would be the last time he saw me.
It’s not looking to be a gold digger, you are just assessing his actions and how he treats you. Is he happy to take care of you or to see you happy? Is he generous and easy going around spending money? Is he spending above his means to impress you? (this is a red flag)
Its great that we move into a world were men and women have more equal opportunity. But it ain’t fucking equal and women take on more risk in relationships. We take on more financial risk if we get pregnant, more risk to our safety and wellbeing.
In our society we are expected bring home the same amount of money but do 80-90% of the domestic labor of taking care of the children, home and the man, and that's if he doesn't decide to leave you to take care of it on your own. If he can’t pay for the first 3 dates, he can’t afford to be in a relationship with you. That man was gross.
This man literally told me “I’m the type of man who will put gas in your car and build things for you”.
I was in no way giving off a vibe that I wanted to take advantage of him. If anything he was also saying things like “I need to wife you up asap”.
I mean I can’t believe what a scam that was and that was our 2nd date! lol
I like that rule, if a man can’t pay for the first 3 dates he can’t afford to be dating. I firmly believe this too.
I had money I just couldn’t move it and he also failed to plan the date properly that he was late and the sushi place was closed so the least someone can do is make up for it.
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Man I will say, when I was younger I would have given a pass on the "he made a mistake and got the wrong times". Now in my Mom/Family era... "You can't make a dinner reservation correctly? how are you going to register for little league and manage the game schedule?"
A man like that is just gonna be weaponizing incompetence all day long. GTFO!!!!
Why do people think men going dutch on a FIRST DATE WHEN YOU TWO DON'T KNOW EACH OTHER is something that's like "disrespectful?" It's not indicative of anything really about how someone is gonna treat you. Expecting to be treated as a girlfriend or something right off the bat is just fucking wild.
Posted by WarAngel79
Yeah, after reading your stuff well present and past, I wouldn't give you more than a Snickers bar and maybe a glass of water.
Ewww.
Stop lyin' you'd probably give her some dick too
Posted by Solo
Why do people think men going dutch on a FIRST DATE WHEN YOU TWO DON'T KNOW EACH OTHER is something that's like "disrespectful?" It's not indicative of anything really about how someone is gonna treat you. Expecting to be treated as a girlfriend or something right off the bat is just fucking wild.
Not me. I am fair and it’s always 50-50. If he is really broke or something, I don’t mind paying.
Posted by BumboklaatPosted by RimzyPosted by misslibrascorpioNissan 👀…
The chemistry was 100% amazing! Meaning sexual and mental connection was there. He was love bombing like crazy which was a little weird, he even bought me flowers.
He told me “I’d be the type of guy to fill your gas tank and fix things for you”.
I have my own place and my Nissan but this man rented a room and told me the reason why he stayed with his baby mama was because he had nowhere else to go so to me it’s not me being the mooch, he’s used to living off a woman probably.
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The Nissan was a red flag but all cars are equally shittily made nowadays, so any brand will work, except maybe Toyota.click to expand
I have bought this car from my uncle and it’s paid off. I am avoiding a car payment right now and working on saving and building my credit for a Lexus.
My little Nissan versa is a great commuter.
The car a person drives doesn’t mean anything 🤦🏻♀️
Posted by AstrobynPosted by misslibrascorpioPosted by Astrobyn
I’m old and don’t date anymore, but if a man expected to go dutch on any of the first 3 dates, I’d be polite and understanding pay for myself but that would be the last time he saw me.
It’s not looking to be a gold digger, you are just assessing his actions and how he treats you. Is he happy to take care of you or to see you happy? Is he generous and easy going around spending money? Is he spending above his means to impress you? (this is a red flag)
Its great that we move into a world were men and women have more equal opportunity. But it ain’t fucking equal and women take on more risk in relationships. We take on more financial risk if we get pregnant, more risk to our safety and wellbeing.
In our society we are expected bring home the same amount of money but do 80-90% of the domestic labor of taking care of the children, home and the man, and that's if he doesn't decide to leave you to take care of it on your own. If he can’t pay for the first 3 dates, he can’t afford to be in a relationship with you. That man was gross.
This man literally told me “I’m the type of man who will put gas in your car and build things for you”.
I was in no way giving off a vibe that I wanted to take advantage of him. If anything he was also saying things like “I need to wife you up asap”.
I mean I can’t believe what a scam that was and that was our 2nd date! lol
I like that rule, if a man can’t pay for the first 3 dates he can’t afford to be dating. I firmly believe this too.
I had money I just couldn’t move it and he also failed to plan the date properly that he was late and the sushi place was closed so the least someone can do is make up for it.
Thank you 🩷
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Man I will say, when I was younger I would have given a pass on the "he made a mistake and got the wrong times". Now in my Mom/Family era... "You can't make a dinner reservation correctly? how are you going to register for little league and manage the game schedule?"
A man like that is just gonna be weaponizing incompetence all day long. GTFO!!!!click to expand
Oh and since people are talking about cars because I drive a Nissan Versa lol
He drives a BMW but used to sell drugs before getting a big boy job at a bank. He rents a room.
If you don’t even know how to make a reservation that’s a huge problem and I agree! How do you even manage your kids life/schedues?
Posted by BumboklaatPosted by RimzyPosted by misslibrascorpioNissan 👀…
The chemistry was 100% amazing! Meaning sexual and mental connection was there. He was love bombing like crazy which was a little weird, he even bought me flowers.
He told me “I’d be the type of guy to fill your gas tank and fix things for you”.
I have my own place and my Nissan but this man rented a room and told me the reason why he stayed with his baby mama was because he had nowhere else to go so to me it’s not me being the mooch, he’s used to living off a woman probably.
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The Nissan was a red flag but all cars are equally shittily made nowadays, so any brand will work, except maybe Toyota.click to expand
Giving a shout out for Toyota Corollas 😀
Did he pay for the first date?
No
This guy was a scammer from the get go. These guys exist bail and make the women pay
This guy was a scammer from the get go. These guys exist bail and make the women pay
Don’t waste your time trying to figure it out. Some men enjoy doing this to attractive women
Posted by BumboklaatPosted by misslibrascorpioPosted by BumboklaatPosted by RimzyThe Nissan was a red flag but all cars are equally shittily made nowadays, so any brand will work, except maybe Toyota.Posted by misslibrascorpioNissan 👀…
The chemistry was 100% amazing! Meaning sexual and mental connection was there. He was love bombing like crazy which was a little weird, he even bought me flowers.
He told me “I’d be the type of guy to fill your gas tank and fix things for you”.
I have my own place and my Nissan but this man rented a room and told me the reason why he stayed with his baby mama was because he had nowhere else to go so to me it’s not me being the mooch, he’s used to living off a woman probably.
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I have bought this car from my uncle and it’s paid off. I am avoiding a car payment right now and working on saving and building my credit for a Lexus.
My little Nissan versa is a great commuter.
The car a person drives doesn’t mean anything 🤦🏻♀️
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I believe you. Versa is legit. Cars were a status symbol a few years back. Now they're all made from the same shitty conglomerate. Lexus is a good choice tho cause it's got Toyota parts.click to expand
Thank you 😊
Posted by BumboklaatPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BumboklaatPosted by RimzyPosted by misslibrascorpioNissan 👀…
The chemistry was 100% amazing! Meaning sexual and mental connection was there. He was love bombing like crazy which was a little weird, he even bought me flowers.
He told me “I’d be the type of guy to fill your gas tank and fix things for you”.
I have my own place and my Nissan but this man rented a room and told me the reason why he stayed with his baby mama was because he had nowhere else to go so to me it’s not me being the mooch, he’s used to living off a woman probably.
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The Nissan was a red flag but all cars are equally shittily made nowadays, so any brand will work, except maybe Toyota.
Giving a shout out for Toyota Corollas 😀
I had a 94 Corolla that rusted out but the engine kept on purring. Currently own two Yotas.click to expand
The mechanics I’ve spoken to say they’re the best!
Which models do you have?
🤣🤣 First of all, anyone who lovebombs, you can’t take seriously. The rest of it just is all crazy. I’m not playing the blame game, but Caps just don’t play this game. They like you or they don’t, and they certainly aren’t going to wine & dine you unless they really like you.
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by Astrobyn
Its great that we move into a world were men and women have more equal opportunity. But it ain’t fucking equal and women take on more risk in relationships. We take on more financial risk if we get pregnant, more risk to our safety and wellbeing.
Having children is a CHOICE. You are not obliged to procreate. If you wish to believe that, in life, you can have it all, more the fool you.
Setting that aside, men take far more risks than women because, when pursing potential partners (which most women are reluctant to do), men are venturing into the unknown – jumping through hoops and proving themselves to women, who they barely know, and have no idea if they are even truly compatible with. But, of course, you conveniently overlook such a significant point.
In most dating scenarios, the two individuals are practically strangers to each other. It’s only when BOTH parties have sufficiently proven themselves to each other that part of your argument has some validity.click to expand
Sorry I'm not pro choice, so the guaranteed way to to not CHOOSE to have children is to not fuck. women take on far more risk with not only their body but their safety you can look of domestic violence and murder statistics on your own time.
Oh gosh darn its so hard to be a man, to prove yourself to a woman that you wont try to Rape her or Sexually assault pr harass her, or kidnap or murder her. When 81% of women reported experiencing this in their lifetime.
tell me how hard it is to be a man.
OP, i'ma be honest.. I think you just have bad taste in men. This wasn't a test and doesn't even sound like Cappy behavior. Ghosting yes, but an open tab is wild.
Posted by AstrobynPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by AstrobynHaving children is a CHOICE. You are not obliged to procreate. If you wish to believe that, in life, you can have it all, more the fool you.
Its great that we move into a world were men and women have more equal opportunity. But it ain’t fucking equal and women take on more risk in relationships. We take on more financial risk if we get pregnant, more risk to our safety and wellbeing.
Setting that aside, men take far more risks than women because, when pursing potential partners (which most women are reluctant to do), men are venturing into the unknown – jumping through hoops and proving themselves to women, who they barely know, and have no idea if they are even truly compatible with. But, of course, you conveniently overlook such a significant point.
In most dating scenarios, the two individuals are practically strangers to each other. It’s only when BOTH parties have sufficiently proven themselves to each other that part of your argument has some validity.
click to expand
Sorry I'm not pro choice, so the guaranteed way to to not CHOOSE to have children is to not fuck. women take on far more risk with not only their body but their safety you can look of domestic violence and murder statistics on your own time.
Oh gosh darn its so hard to be a man, to prove yourself to a woman that you wont try to Rape her or Sexually assault pr harass her, or kidnap or murder her. When 81% of women reported experiencing this in their lifetime.
tell me how hard it is to be a man.click to expand
You're not pro choice? This seems contradictory to what I've seen of you over the years? What a day to learn something
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by AstrobynPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by Astrobyn
Its great that we move into a world were men and women have more equal opportunity. But it ain’t fucking equal and women take on more risk in relationships. We take on more financial risk if we get pregnant, more risk to our safety and wellbeing.
Having children is a CHOICE. You are not obliged to procreate. If you wish to believe that, in life, you can have it all, more the fool you.
Setting that aside, men take far more risks than women because, when pursing potential partners (which most women are reluctant to do), men are venturing into the unknown – jumping through hoops and proving themselves to women, who they barely know, and have no idea if they are even truly compatible with. But, of course, you conveniently overlook such a significant point.
In most dating scenarios, the two individuals are practically strangers to each other. It’s only when BOTH parties have sufficiently proven themselves to each other that part of your argument has some validity.
Sorry I'm not pro choice, so the guaranteed way to to not CHOOSE to have children is to not fuck. women take on far more risk with not only their body but their safety you can look of domestic violence and murder statistics on your own time.
Oh gosh darn its so hard to be a man, to prove yourself to a woman that you wont try to Rape her or Sexually assault pr harass her, or kidnap or murder her. When 81% of women reported experiencing this in their lifetime.
tell me how hard it is to be a man.
Here we go, when all else fails, bring out the DV and rape card...
*yawns*
If you think that negates the risks that men have to endure in the dating world, that only highlights your gender bias and tunnel vision.
Btw, various statistic's show that a significant proportion of DV cases were initiated by women. If you don't believe me, do the research yourself.
How hard it is to be a man... Maybe you should ask many of the trans men who either detransitioned or committed suicide afterwards. They obviously discovered that male privilege is completely a myth.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12183781/Trans-man-weeps-explaining-easier-make-friends-women.htmlclick to expand
I don’t really even believe in transgenderism the way its sold to us. I believe that our gender is determined by how our hormones create our biology, and that there is a spectrum of masculine or feminine that comes natural to us. But most of the way we identify gender in our society is constructed, so IMO transitioning yourself from one gender to the other is just performative to conform to societies ideas of what it wants gender to be.
My biology has a gender, that the hormones in my body have made and continue to make that determination. But this is just the meat suit that my soul has been put into. And my soul has no gender. So I think if you feel like your Trans and want to go through the trouble of changing your biology, you’re really worried about the wrong shit.
@Solo You also convince me that a soul isn’t put into an embryo before its 3 months old. You don’t know that, and I’m not going to kill a 3 month old baby the same as I’m not going to kill a 3 month old fetus. There is no difference to me.
We can disagree all day long on which gender has the harder experiences, honestly it doesn’t matter to me. I’m clear on who I am and how I want to live my life. If that is having standards on how I want to be treated or someone to interact with me, its my choice what that is and who meets that criteria.
Posted by AstrobynPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by AstrobynPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by Astrobyn
Its great that we move into a world were men and women have more equal opportunity. But it ain’t fucking equal and women take on more risk in relationships. We take on more financial risk if we get pregnant, more risk to our safety and wellbeing.
Having children is a CHOICE. You are not obliged to procreate. If you wish to believe that, in life, you can have it all, more the fool you.
Setting that aside, men take far more risks than women because, when pursing potential partners (which most women are reluctant to do), men are venturing into the unknown – jumping through hoops and proving themselves to women, who they barely know, and have no idea if they are even truly compatible with. But, of course, you conveniently overlook such a significant point.
In most dating scenarios, the two individuals are practically strangers to each other. It’s only when BOTH parties have sufficiently proven themselves to each other that part of your argument has some validity.
Sorry I'm not pro choice, so the guaranteed way to to not CHOOSE to have children is to not fuck. women take on far more risk with not only their body but their safety you can look of domestic violence and murder statistics on your own time.
Oh gosh darn its so hard to be a man, to prove yourself to a woman that you wont try to Rape her or Sexually assault pr harass her, or kidnap or murder her. When 81% of women reported experiencing this in their lifetime.
tell me how hard it is to be a man.
Here we go, when all else fails, bring out the DV and rape card...
*yawns*
If you think that negates the risks that men have to endure in the dating world, that only highlights your gender bias and tunnel vision.
Btw, various statistic's show that a significant proportion of DV cases were initiated by women. If you don't believe me, do the research yourself.
How hard it is to be a man... Maybe you should ask many of the trans men who either detransitioned or committed suicide afterwards. They obviously discovered that male privilege is completely a myth.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12183781/Trans-man-weeps-explaining-easier-make-friends-women.html
I don’t really even believe in transgenderism the way its sold to us. I believe that our gender is determined by how our hormones create our biology, and that there is a spectrum of masculine or feminine that comes natural to us. But most of the way we identify gender in our society is constructed, so IMO transitioning yourself from one gender to the other is just performative to conform to societies ideas of what it wants gender to be.
My biology has a gender, that the hormones in my body have made and continue to make that determination. But this is just the meat suit that my soul has been put into. And my soul has no gender. So I think if you feel like your Trans and want to go through the trouble of changing your biology, you’re really worried about the wrong shit.
@Solo You also convince me that a soul isn’t put into an embryo before its 3 months old. You don’t know that, and I’m not going to kill a 3 month old baby the same as I’m not going to kill a 3 month old fetus. There is no difference to me.
We can disagree all day long on which gender has the harder experiences, honestly it doesn’t matter to me. I’m clear on who I am and how I want to live my life. If that is having standards on how I want to be treated or someone to interact with me, its my choice what that is and who meets that criteria.click to expand
With regards to choice of abortion or not - so you think that the only way to avoid maternity is for them to abstinent? I'm just confused from what I remember about you. You would encourage a woman to have less choice should something happen? It seemed like you were for.. not that kinda thought
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