Lessa, I do wish you the best. I apologize if I offended you in any way.
I think your cancer guy should consider running for office. He sweet talks you like a politician. That's why Cancer's make good politicians, they can lie thru their teeth, and people still believe them. This is an ability that can be used for evil, or good. Each individual has to make that choice. I remember being lied to by 2 famous Cancers not to long ago,
George W. Bush and Donald Rumsfeld - Sneaky Crabs I tell you.
I will end by quoting the Police:
"Our so called leaders speak With words they try to jail you The subjugate the meek But it's the rhetoric of failure"