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Both? In different ways I take on both of them. Sun is in the 12th so I’ve been more aware of the Asc. But as I’ve gotten more aware of myself.. Ummm look at all those other traits ( from my 12th house sun) 😂
I'm actually not quite sure how the sun and Ascendant work. I know your Sun describes your overall personality, how people perceive you, but isn't it the same with the Ascendant too?
Well Ascendant is people’s first impression of you they say. So for example I am a Sagittarius sun & I’m a Capricorn Ascendant. I am not very approachable due to the Asc. Reserved, people think I don’t like them. But really I just need to be comfortable around you & then I act like that Sag. My sun is also in the 12th house which can mean it’s hidden. Does that help?
Yep! I got the part about how the Sun and Ascendant differ. House thing I'm still unclear, will get a hang of it eventually maybe. 😅
I’m still learning too, but I have learned quite a bit from hanging around here. There are threads about various houses if you want to look at the past threads. It might help.
Well as for me I am also Cap dominant & am on the Sag-Cap cusp so the Cap comes out strongly and I tend to act like that, but the sun is strong lol so I’m kinda like a hybrid of the two. The older I get, I act more like a Sag actually,
Ah! I am Gemini dominant. I am a cusper too, on the cusp of Taurus and Gemini. I too feel like a hybrid. Plus, I looked up in some site which calculated percentage of each element in me and it pretty much is balanced out which kinda explains how sometimes I myself don't know what I'd do, I surprise myself lol.
I sometimes think my Gemini is taking over me as I grow old since I'm becoming more flexible now, unlike my Taurus self. I also made this thread on Taurus forum. I was curious if all of us, as humans start being more flexible with age or is it something with our charts.
Ah interesting!! Well I think part of it is the nodes. Mine are Capricorn/Cancer. They say past life would be more like a Cap and your goal in this life to work more towards Cancer. Which I have done some of that work via personal growth probably during a midlife crisis. as I went away from acting like a Cap or facing fears that Cap traits kept me more controlled with, the letting go helped the Sag naturally come out more. Does that make sense?
I just looked up my nodes. North is Scorpio and South is Taurus. So my goal in life is to be more like a Taurus? Interesting.
No you have that backwards. My north Node is Cancer. And south is Capricorn.
Oh okay. So I have to be more like a Scorpio? I'm the least Scorpio, really.
Here you go:
Your North Node Life Path:
Taurus and Scorpio are the signs that rule money, power and sensuality. If you born with a Taurus north node or a Scorpio north node, your destiny involves learning to balance the spiritual and material worlds. These nodes exude sexual prowess, earthy sensuality and power. Channeling these dynamic forces in healthy, balanced ways can be a challenge, as these lunar nodes are prone to extremes. You are often pulled between the practical and mystical, the sensible and the spiritual.
Taurus south node/Scorpio north node people are learning to embrace “what could be” instead of fixating on “what is.” They have spent lifetimes steeped in material world as hardworking, practical people. They enjoyed spending money, and could resurface as arbiters of luxury and fine taste. Taurus rules the senses: touch, taste, smell, sound, sight. They might be gifted artists and musicians (Prince and Justin Bieber were both born with Scorpio north node) or have a keen sense of style (like iconic fashion designer Coco Chanel).
This lifetime, indulgence and hedonism can be their downfall. Their Scorpio north node pries them away from the physical and into the spiritual realm. Scorpio north node people are learning about life beyond their senses and daily habits (work, eat, sleep, drink, screw, repeat). Scorpio also rules wealth and investments. These people are learning to make their money work for them, instead of just working for their money.
On the flip side, Taurus north node/Scorpio south node people have arrived here to work! In past lives, they were powerful and privileged people who were often born into wealth. They may have been advisors to royalty or political leaders, working masterfully behind the scenes. Now, it’s their time to step into a position of public power, rolling up their sleeves and learning to be the providers, earners and do-ers. In this lifetime, inherited wealth or status is a burden, not a blessing. They yearn to be bootstrappers, proving that they can do it themselves! Many Scorpio south nodes need to break free of “golden handcuffs.” For example, they may have overprotective families who control them with emotional blackmail or often, by financing their lives (thereby eliminating the “need” to work). Fighting to be self-sufficient is often a struggle. What Taurus north node people should do is use their money, connections and influence to help open doors for people who don’t have their privilege.
Scorpio is a mysterious sign, and the Scorpio south node’s challenge is to shed a veil of secrecy. While anonymity protected them in past lives, too much privacy now creates trouble. (Case in point: Scorpio south node Hillary Clinton’s private email account that led to a federal investigation.) These people can even earn a reputation as untrustworthy and calculating. Some Scorpio south node people are born into families with deep, dark secrets: addiction, abuse, corruption, crime. Their soul work is to move past shame. Taurus rules the throat chakra; Taurus north nodes are learning to speak out loud.
Taurus North Node
Release (Scorpio south node):
Seducing, manipulating, strategizing, the nomadic life style , sex as a weapon, being overly secretive or superstitious, relying on other people’s money and resources
Embrace (Taurus north node):
Simplicity, truth, grounding yourself with daily habits and routines, living in the moment, pure human connection, telling it like you see it, making your own living
Famous Taurus North Nodes: Hillary Clinton, Martin Luther King, Mother Teresa, Julius Caeser, Kurt Cobain, Chrissy Teigen, Lilly Allen, Katy Perry, Nicole Kidman, Lady Gaga,Lana Del Ray, Scarlett Johansson, Pamela Anderson, Grace Kelly, Audrey Hepburn, Halle Berry, Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, Cindy Crawford, Prince Charles, Prince Harry, Bar Refaeli, Salma Hayek, Keira Knightley, Stephen King, Bruno Mars, Vin Diesel, Janet Jackson, Ronald Reagan, Oscar Wilde, LeBron James, Mischa Barton, Eckhart Tolle, Stevie Nicks, Steven Tyler, Michael Phelps, Cassanova
Aug 3, 1947 – Jan 26, 1949 * Feb 20, 1966 – Aug 19, 1967 * Sep 12, 1984 – Apr 6, 1986 * Apr 15, 2003 – Dec 26, 2004 • January 19, 2022 – July 17, 2023
Scorpio North Node
Release (Taurus south node):
Attachment to luxury, earthly appetites and overindulgence, being too practical, sticking with what you know, hiding in a comfort zone, working harder not smarter, loyalty at your own expense, always being the provider, holding energy in your throat chakra
Embrace (Scorpio north node):
Spirituality, connection to the universe/divine, spiritual fulfillment, unspoken connections, mystery, allowing others to help you financially, passive income, joint financial ventures, releasing energy through your sacral chakraclick to expand
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We have our boring moments and then some. It'll pass.
An all-passion relationship is exhausting. How about just napping every now and then?
You can look at this as the beginning of the end or look at it as a new facet of the relationship emerging and you adapt.
I'm going to take a guess....LDR? chill together, without the need for conversation. Watch something, listen to music together. Just chill, y'know?
I really hope it's not the beginning of the end, I guess things "die off" once the honeymoon phase is over and I hope that's just that, and not us losing interest in each other.
How to tell the difference though?
Should I bring it up? I kind of hinted about it and said oh the flame is going out! And he said we're just ambers that haven't caught fire yet.click to expand