Posted by EllygantPosted by nanobotPosted by EllygantPosted by nanobotPosted by Ellygant
The internet has changed youth and being a young idiot. At 19, most of us say and do dumb butter. That’s why it’s so weird for a 40 something year old to take it deeply personal. But like you said, we are dealing with an aqua. A sign that’s deeply sensitive, who’s sun is a detriment placement, meaning they already struggle feeling like they can naturally express their ego. And both are air signs. Air signs tend to live and die by their friends like an earth sign does their work, a water sign their feelings and a fire sign their heart.
Unfortunately when Aqua doesn’t internally reconcile their need to express ego, they can become extremely self righteous. Being a fixed sign too, they’ll go to any lengths to preserve whatever identity they bank on. You get a little of that too in the fixed Scorpio nature of Star, someone who has used a naturally witty and petty nature for very savvy financial gain by making it a brand for himself.
And then you have a kid Gemini, who got too successful too fast. Gemini tends to flit into luck a lot, at least in the eyes of fixed signs. And in the age of Internet, we are far less forgiving of humanity, love drama more than apologies and have a long memory for offense but can’t seem to retain apology or growth.
On the surface a 40 something taking offense to a 19 year old seems rediculous. But people often forget Aqua is just as sensitive to ego as any other fixed sign. If anything, more so. They spend a lot of time focusing on humility, so when they f up and blow up, it tends to be pretty bad and very hard for them to see their part in, since it’s rare they feel safe expressing it in the first place.
This, exactly. Is how I saw the whole thing, she knew him since he was so much younger and it was inevitable that he was going to treetrunk up somewhere along the way? Because we are human. And because I am human, I understood her feeling hurt, but the opening video made me realize she was being irrational and vindictive (which was confirmed in his most recent video).
Especially given the fact that he called and messaged her and her husband incessantly a whole week afterwards and tried to make it right by them, privately before she chose to record and post the video. He did not get a chance to explain himself or apologize, she just assumed he was lying and was gonna be right about it no matter what. And it came to light that so much of what she said was not true, from her saying that he never reached to her, that he refused to ever promote her products, that he was exploiting straight men, insulting his mother, etc. Her reaction in association with their ages didn't make sense to me.
I feel like anyone pushing 40 should be able to look at what he did and be like... okay, he was dumb, selfish, and hurt me, Coachella with his friends to him was more important than my feelings. Take some space, when everythings cooled off, listen to what he has to say and either accept it or reject it, and then move on. Like you said. The way she tried to destroy a teenager with the help Jeffree Star, was waaaay too extra and it reflected poorly on them. At least that's how I saw it
Oh and online says she's an aqua sun/scorp moon. I knew it had to be a water moon!!
When an aqua loses it, it’s bad. Because people don’t really expect it of them.
I knew an Aqua Sun/Scorpio Moon. She found out her Virgo Sun/Cancer Moon boyfriend had been cheating on her their entire relationship, he confessed to doing so even that morning. She freaked out, ran away. He freaked out, grabbed her by the arm, she fought back and when he let go she went flying into the bushes outside his out, biting her tongue and bruising her head.
Aqua went on Facebook, posted the entire story in grueling detail. Calling all the other women just like mes. Saying she was a queen. Taking pictures of her injuries. Having her best friend trash the other women. Till another woman reached out to her, who her boyfriend was also having a long term relationship with, longer than the aqua by 5 years... the woman didn’t say anything mean, just that she had been lied to as well, was sorry for the aqua’s pain and that she felt hurt by her posts. Aqua took it down immediately. Later found out she tried to file police charges, but she tainted any chance of a case by putting it on social media. She also worked with her boyfriend, and tried to file a work complaint. Instead she got demoted.
Not to say her hurt wasn’t justified, it def was. But it’s one of those cases where it wasn’t what happened to her, but how she handled it that changed everything. The bad guy, cheating Virgo, came out on top, simply because the Aqua became so obsessed with her feelings. because she rarely trusted people with them, she really believed that her emotions were all that mattered and was blind to how it could lead to damaging herself and others.
It was sad all around.
But again feelings. I think she probably really believed what she was saying because the hurt was so real to her.
Wow that story is crazy. My dad is an aqua/scorp and he is treetrunking insane too. Everything to him makes him feel slighted, even the smallest, dumbest butter. He will die mad about something from 20 years ago. I've only ever known 1 other batbutter aquarius and it was a Taurus moon woman. Like.... poke a hole in the condom, tell guy I'm on BC when I'm not and actually ovulating, steal your car, call and try to get my ex fired at work, then marry a completely random guy and try to get my ex back still, psycho unstable lol. Should we just pity double fixed people in general?
LOL. awwwww. I think it’s a shame honestly. Aquarius is such a deep energy. But like most air signs, it needs strong friendships willing to be honest. Tati probably just has people gassing her up. Jeffree too I imagine. Fixed energy is very vulnerable to ego fluffs. Even me. I think I only took back an ex I dated cause he begged and begged and put me on such a pedestal, right at a time when I was feeling lonely and super single. I let my ego play me.
Trust tho, even with a feelsy cancer moon, I’m still hella glad I have a cardinal moon. I got enough moon issues, i don’t wanna add that layer of stubborn to the list lmao. Jokes aside, double fixed can be so beautiful tho. One of my best friends in a double Aqua. Deeply conscientious. Always checking her feelings with her close few.
I think I find the situation funny too, cause it shows all around that air signs can be as sensitive and fearful of hurting people, despite their reputation.click to expand