Posted by nikkistarPosted by EvatheDiva52Posted by nikkistarPosted by EvatheDiva52Posted by kiirsttnae
Have you ever met someone you have an instant spark with? Like you've known them forever? I need some guidance on what this cancer man is thinking!!
I went on a date with a cancer man a week ago and we had a really good time. Later in the evening, his friends ended up hanging at the bar where we were (it's a popular after work spot) and so we ended up hanging out with them bar hopping a little - it was genuinely a great time. As the night ended, he was driving me to my car but we ended up at his place. We cuddled, kissed, hugged, laughed. He tried to get a little frisky but I told him that I liked him and wasn't ready for that. After I said that, he said that he liked me too and he's moving in a couple months. I felt such a strong connection: he would stare into my eyes, brush the side of my face, kiss me. I had to leave and he said he wanted to cuddle more next time but there was no real plans made.
We exchanged the whole after date messages saying we had a really good time but there was never talk of a next time. He messaged me again early this week to ask how I've been and I reciprocated but he has since disappeared on me and not responded.
I am wondering if I should send a follow up funny message or take the silence as he's not interested. I am feeling such a sinking feeling like I've lost him, I have had so much anxiety the past few days. I am afraid if I don't message him then he'll take it as me not being interested but then I'm afraid of coming across as clingy. What if his silence is because he's out there dating other girls and I wasn't as good?
I need help! This has caused me so much pain to not know what happened or where I stand.
Dudette, you would have been balling your eyes out if you would have given him the BOOTY and been yet another statistic DXP member who came in here with a different subject altogether.
With that said you already 'RECIPROCATED" and if he didn't respond; it's on HIM not you. Cancerians (when they are interested) will go out of their way to contact you. They love to communicate with you if they are interested. Put 2 and 2 together (you will get 4). He told you he was ready to move. DUH!
Keep thinking of GOOD/POSITIVE reasons why he hasn't texted you lately. When you start thinking of the "negative" reasons, immediately tell yourself that you did ntothign wrong. Ball is on his court.
(Eva steps off soap box now).
Cancers are terrible at communication, even when they love someone. Even with their own family.
Not the Cancerian Eva met from another city (about 1 and a half hours from San Antonio, TX); he drove twice to see me. Called me on the landline every day for two weeks straight. He'd say, "Talk to me, talk about your day, I want to hear from you". I stopped seeing him because I don't do LDR and I informed him of this.
PS: My ex-brother in law is Cancerian, too, he put my sister on a pedestal; they divorced after 20 years of marriage (he cheated on her) and she FINALLY had enough!
They only go through that constant talking phase in the beginning. They get annoyed with phones more often than not. My boyfriend was the same way. First month, non-stop talking. It falls off. That doesn't mean they don't treat you right. They just aren't typically phone people.
This is coming from someone who's two best friends are Cancers, boyfriend is a Cancer, Uncle is a Cancer. And a host full of exes that are Cancers as well. All of them, don't like the phone.click to expand
Posted by FawnePosted by neves
Yes, even the Antichrist... 😈
Closest chart I could find to the Anti-Christ. (:
https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Jennifer_Jason_Leighclick to expand