Posted by wildflower
Honestly, Im going to lay it to you thick.
I feel you. I understand you
I was in a similar situation with my ex Taurus last year... may here can attest to that
And my conclusion was that no matter how much my heart feels for him, he was not fulfilling me entirely. Why?
Because he wasn't fulfilling himself.
He wasn't where he wants to be
as a Taurus man.. what I've gathered is they like to provide. Here you are paying and taking care of him. You are providing for him. If that works for YOU, cool. But is it working for him relationship-wise or is he just reaping the benefits?
Next, you are left wondering. You are in a roller coaster.
Is he truly fulfilling you emotionally/mentally? Doesn't sound like it.
Because when a dude is solid, he comes for you at 100.
Now where your situation differs from mine is he stopped talking to you to talk to other women. thats a big HELL NO to me and my dealbreaker was the moment another woman stepped in, he is out. Even with my heart throbbing and all. Remember your worth. You are not second choice.
Thats just me talking.
Sounds like you are really into him, I know the feeling, my ex had wrapped in a trance. So I know you won't stop until you are fed up. I would say to be forward about what you want. Actions. Tell him that you want this to work and you care for him and if he's on the same page cool. But if he's not, shut that door.
There are more guys out there that will treat you like you deserve. I know, I know, it sucks being told that. I was fixated on my ex and cringed when people told me that (Im a scorpio, imagine that). But its true. With much resistance, I've now met someone so solid, I can't believe it. Im struggling to believe it after the rollercoaster I was on.
Hang in there.
Know what you want and what you deserve.