Posted by maidenPosted by Gobby
It's probably a polite way of saying that he thinks you're being fake or too diplomatic, whenever you're around him. He probably has an issue with the way (some aspects of) your Libra moon works (but, obviously, isn't aware of it)...
some truth to this I think...
I have a verrryyy hard time with libra placements because I KNOW they're gonna say the nice thing, the easy thing
but not necessarily the real thing.
and from astrology i know that libra (suns) and strong libra placements really if there's some mishap or mis spoken word or one bad manner one (small) mistake, really, it's weighed against other stuff and in that moment it's no big deal really
but for ME personally I can't comprehend that as any reality cos as a Virgo every tiny detail is HUGE.
So it's possible he's getting self conscious because you're too nice, all the time.. it doesn't seem like he's getting reality. Someone mentioned reassurance.. I'd advise, don't criticize per say, someone mentioned reassuring but maybe find a way to express something that you don't like (maybe not related to him) so he an see that you do mention negative stuff around him, not just all positive all the time, then he may not be so nervous.
It's also possible he sees you as a strong person and it's useful to him to get your input on this or that. I for example would NOT ask that of anyone if I didn't respect their opinion and their judgement.click to expand
Posted by thatbihh612Posted by Sag898
I think there are so many reasons that could happen. They call it Eskimo brothers or sisters.
My ex Leo has good taste in other women in our in between phases.
There was a cap woman who was like one of the most beautiful girls I’ve ever seen. I was pretty sure she was 100% gay though.
Another one was a Leo who I didn’t find as attractive but seemed to really like him. He treated her badly and I remember having dreams of rescuing her and making love to her lol.
As a mars Scorpio & Lilith I think I naturally look at the darker and complex ideas towards sexuality or situations.
On a surface level people are gonna react to this thinking “ what the hell “
It’s very common that the man you date has an ex or romantic interest you could have stuff in common with. After all birds of a feather is a real thing and at play here.
Also from the male side my ex Leo met my ex Scorpio and they use to talk behind my back lol eventually that got ironed out because there was some overlap in dating them which caused it. But they had a bromance going on for a second there haha.
Also my other ex Scorpio met my ex libra they too started with hatred for the other but after meeting turned ( which was by chance ) it turned into “ If I didn’t see him a competition I would like that dude “
My conclusion is “ Normal “
see this is what i was looking for in an answer lol thank you but so im kind of new to astrology but i appreciate it alot but what is it about my sign gemini (06/04/1990) and her sign libra 10/02/1990 ?? How do i figure out that kind of stuff about me that u know about you?
is it common that libras are secretly bi-curious? shes like a goody good in graduate school for nursing and im a stripper lol like we are different there but i think its weird that her and I are both considered soulmates for him. i just want to be able to look up what it was about her that made him want her more and what we have in common that he liked. i think he fell for me hard but bc she was blindsided by it all and they have kids i think he just felt bad eventually and tried to give it a shot again with her but i know he cant stop thinking of me bc it was obvious even his mom said he hasnt looked so refreshed and happy and carefree for a whileclick to expand
Posted by Arielle83Posted by s_i_e_r_r_aPosted by Arielle83Posted by s_i_e_r_r_a
i'm beginning to think this maybe something they share with scorpio (which to me is pretty similar to taurus anyway)..
they tend to see things in black and white.. not considering that maybe a person can be in many ways 'disposable' but they can also be overall pretty decent and worth keeping in some capacity.. which makes me think they'd ideally want someone they can dominate yet would probably end up with an equal in some ways (coz that's what they respect)
The only Aries moon I know is the cap I’m seeing now. He uses his age sometimes to win arguments, but I don’t let him get away with it. I’m not an arguing type of person unless I think someone tries to tell me who I am or tries to label me in some way.
The thing is I’m very proud and I know my life and what I’ve been through. I’m closed off, so when ppl try to pigeonhole me, based on what they assume, because of some linear in their life can compare to mine, I go off.
Aries moon likes to argue for arguing sake. I say x, he says y. I call it out, and they get defensive because he doesn’t want to be blamed. Maybe that’s the belief that they’re optimistic and happy.
I’m cynical. I think cancer is more realist and that pisses Aries moon off, but libra moon throws it back diplomatically “you don’t have to agree with my view, but u can’t change it until I decide to change it, because it’s my experience”.
He apologizes a lot. However, I don’t start things. I’m very calm and maybe it’s cultural, but he likes to jab and stir me up. I don’t react and then he gets thinking I’m mad. I’m just not being drawn into the fight.
Libra moon versus Aries moon is def learning how to not react.
woah that's both your opposite sun AND moon
i bet it's challenging.. there might be core similarities but vastly different approaches
Ya both Aries rising and he’s a Pisces mars and I’m cancer. Mercury is Leo and his sag
I’m venus Virgo and he’s aqua tho.
But he’s clingier than meclick to expand