Posted by HeartofIcePosted by alexscariesPosted by HeartofIce
I can't with those. I don't dislike Sags but we just don't click. Aries men are so treetrunking aggressive I always wanna tell them off to get them to shut up lol. Libra women are the brattiest little butters ever.
Most Libra women I've met haven't been bratty. Self-obsessed maybe.
Aries men can be aggressive. I can't speak for other Aries men, but a lot of it is down to you handle us. What scares people is we are so direct and aren't like say Air signs were our opinion can drift, if we think we are right, we are right (even if we are blatantly wrong). Naturally I like aggressive people and brats. Mainly because I understand and know how to handle them, I've seen people shout about trivialities and then go as soft grease when I started speaking.
Some people bring out my direct/aggressive side, yeah. Sometimes I can go the other way and be diplomatic and not voice my opinion even though I have really strong opinions about most things. With Aries men it just always feel like it's a competition with them to see who can win the argument or even worse, who can talk louder lol. Libra women just always act super entitled and never seem to mature or take responsibility for their own butter. That's why I can't stand them.click to expand
Posted by bluebirdPosted by jeanePosted by bluebird
I heard that he did just break up with a girl in May. I guess she was cheating on him. Someone told me he was still mad about that. But god the attraction and chemistry between us was really strong, thought that maybe it could overcome that. Maybe not. Thank you for your sincere response.
He is a Quality Engineer in charge of the plant. I am a production planner - imbalance of power - we talked and he did say that he considered dating someone from work "a disaster." But I just started working somewhere else, where there would be no liability for him. But may his recent breakup with someone must be a factor. He was divorced from his wife 4 years ago. He is former military with two sons. He got full custody. His wife cheated on him. a song he posted on facebook is Halsery Without Me. He is such a good guy and his first attempt at dating - the girl two timed him with her ex. I guess she was trying to get him back.
Thanks for your input.
yeah given his recent romantic history, understandably he could be gun shy. a work environment and that he is in a superior position to you also makes things messy.
as a guess he probably didn't know how to respond to you asking him out, especially in times of the #metoo movement, some men are unsure how to deal with those situations and are cautious not to find themselves in a position where they could be accused of harassment.
Good point. We worked for an aerospace company and since the work force is predominantly male, (ratio 10 to 1), they do take sexual harrasment seriously. I wrote him several letters, he always read them. At any moment he could have told me that he wasn't interested. There were body language communication - glances. I know he liked getting them. I know he liked the fact that I was attracted to him. When he knew that I was leaving the company - I told him, we talked outside. I was direct and told him that I was really attracted to him and that we should go out and see what happens, just so I know that I wasn't missing out on anything. I told him I wanted a kiss - because what I wanted to communicate had no words. I know he was turned on, but I also could tell that he was scared. I could sense his anxiety. I'm just hoping that at some point, our paths will cross again. He still has my mobile and a person email. So, we'll see.click to expand